iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Finding a therapist who understands autism, adhd and is both pro-kink and pro-poly is so entirely liberating. 10/10, would recommend.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

Came home crying in anger and frustration. While I’m still sitting in those feelings, I’ve at least been able to sit back and realize that the frustration is not that my situation is BAD, it’s that they could be so much more… if only people would look past their own nose to see the bigger picture.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

I dunno. I feel like if hubs really didn’t want me to cut bangs into my hair, he wouldn’t leave his beard clippers on the bathroom counter

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 11/08/2026

Weird sort of feeling… I’ve spent so much of my life leaving m hair down, putting on make up, hiding behind glasses… Tonight, I washed my makeup off, hair messily up in a bun and thought, “you know, I feel kinda pretty.”

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 08/08/2026

Well that’s awkward. I’m out of the whiskey. So I guess I gotta make my Wind Down Manhattan with 10 year scotch.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 22/07/2026

Maybe I should consider the fact that I hold myself to unfair expectations and that I should stop expecting people to rise to that level.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 21/07/2026

Not sure how to play this dice roll for our D&D game.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 13/07/2026

What a surreal moment when someone you truly respect tells you that they really admire you.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

Nearly 30 years into this relationship and hubs still acts like it’s the first time whenever I walk around topless. ❤️

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 12/07/2026

Week long vacation after over a year of 60-80 hour weeks. Gonna pull out ALL the stops to detach from responsibilities and relax.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 08/07/2026

One of the most confounding issues for me is why people do not hear the words I say and prefer to guess and assume what I really mean, absolutely ignoring what I’ve communicated or requested. If I’ve already given you the answer, why are you spending so much energy looking for another?

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

I’m never sure what to do when it’s the middle of the night and I’m just… awake. Do I continue to toss and turn? Catch up on socials? Get up and get work done while it’s quiet?

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 04/07/2026

I’m gonna see my friends tonight! 🥰🥰🥰

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

I look real cute today and I’m so annoyed that I’ll be spending my day with people who wouldn’t value this cuteness. Rude.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 24/05/2026

Oh me? Just lying in bed with a tens unit on to try to recover my muscles from weekend activities. 😉

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 07/05/2026

Dude tonight convinced that I was younger than him. Y’all. He was a whole-ass decade younger than me.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 05/05/2026

Walking alone through some shops in a t-shirt, jeans and sandals… hair and makeup a mess after traveling… And just watched a dude legit do a double take and say, “goddamn, you’re sexy” and then just kept walking by. Um. Okay. That was quite the polite cat call.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 22/04/2026

How the heck do I work a 10+ hour workday and still have 870 unread emails?

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 20/04/2026

Really proud of myself and the growth I’ve had in learning about myself and my needs… and how much it’s helped me better understand the ones I love, too. Especially that kiddo that’s just a copy/paste of me.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 27/03/2026

Boyfriend spent the night this week while hubs was traveling and now the neighbors are giving me stink eye. 🙃

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 25/03/2026

Glad våffeldag to all who celebrate!

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 23/03/2026

It’s been a rough 24 hours for my damn brain and I try to manage my work, my team members, and the household while Wes is traveling. Trying to remind myself to not let progress be the enemy of perfection. And sometimes making it through the day is the progress.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 14/03/2026

I have what looks to be a bite mark on my boob. To my knowledge, no one has bitten me. Okay. Strange. 🤣

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Think to myself about a friend, “oh! She would be a good EA!” And then realize… yeah. Bad idea. You shouldn’t hire people you’ve slept with. 🙊

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Sure is great to work a 12 hour day after sleeping only 3 1/2 hours.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 13/03/2026

Was told I was unapproachable. Which is crazy as hell as a giggly petite millennial woman who constantly communicates in gifs. Or is it more that I don’t buy in when I’m being sold bullshit?

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 10/03/2026

Would it be a bad idea to hire my dad’s past office manager as my assistant? 🤔 She was so so good but would she always see me as my teenage self?

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 09/03/2026

It’s not fair when my hair looks fantastic… and I legit am seeing no one of consequent tonight. Bet tomorrow when I have a big presentation that it won’t look this good. So rude. :)

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 25/02/2026

Feelin the need for aftercare from how hard this week has fucked me.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 24/02/2026

Out for drinks with two (female) colleagues tonight and was followed by a rando between bars. Dudes. Don’t do that. Just don’t.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 22/02/2026

I think to myself, “I’m such an independent woman. I can take care of myself!” As I’m lying in bed with my pink heated blanket, cuddled into my stuffie, fighting with a bag of fruit snacks that won’t open.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

*me, the inner sub mascarading as a boss babe, trying to empower an employee by telling them how much I value their input; that I don’t always have all the right answers* Them: “yes, you do. You always seem to know the right answer. I’ll do whatever you tell me to do. 🥰”

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

Unfortunately my bath has started to run cold. Time to get out. ☹️

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 11/02/2026

If I’m gonna have a nearly 14 hour day, at least I can wind it down like this. The days won’t always be like this but sometimes they just are.

Blue-purple lit bathtub with a candle and unbreakable glass, hinting at the whiskey within it.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 10/02/2026

Love this time of year 🩷🧡💛💚💙💜

Conversation heart candies lined up in a rainbow

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 08/02/2026

It’s been a fantastic week except… so much perception. So much nonstop. So over stimulated and still… couldn’t get any time to myself to recenter or regulate. So today… the crash out.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 03/02/2026

On a new med that’s made me feel absolutely awful the last week. Today, the clouds parted and I felt wonderful. Well. Because I now realize that accidentally skipped that new med before bed last night. Dammit. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 03/02/2026

I still think of myself as pretty new to my role. But it makes me giggle to hear that a peer at my same level but with more seniority is complaining to leadership that he doesn’t get enough face time with me. 😂

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 01/02/2026

Went out tonight wearing a 90s grunge look - ripped jeans, flannel, kick-ass boots…. I was flirted with by SO many lesbians. I know what I’ve been doing wrong this whole time. I’ve been dressing for the male gaze and not for the ladies. 😄

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 29/01/2026

Opened up FetLife for the first time in a year. And the events… are lots of D&D? I think we can confirm the kink, D&D, renaissance fsire groups have become a complete circle.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 29/01/2026

Clocked out at 5pm. Straight to a massage. And now whiskey and more self care…

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 28/01/2026

It’s a powerful realization that someone who continually tries to undercut me and diminish or talk down to me… only does so because they’re intimidated by me. I don’t have to accept that treatment or their attempts to color me as “less than”. Their intimidation is not my problem.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 16/01/2026

Doc said that I’d feel a difference with the HRT 5-6 weeks in… and I’m on the third day of finally feeling like myself, again. I woke up silly and playful, wanting to cuddle and snuggle when I’ve spent more than a year waking up with crippling anxiety and not standing to be touched.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 31/12/2025

November & December are nothing but high expectations, constant decision making, unending obligations, and masking. No wonder I’m just extremely exhausted and constantly feeling on edge. Trying to just show myself kindness this week.

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 28/12/2025

I keep finding random glitter on me 😸

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 28/12/2025

Went out to burlesque and dancing last night. Burlesque was fun. Dancing… didn’t happen. My favorite party has been taken over by “kids” the same age as my eldest. We ended up leaving when no friends could be found. At least I gotta dress up and go out with my guys!

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Flirtee @flirteegirl.bsky.social · 23/12/2025

Sometimes when I can tell that Wes is having a nightmare, I like to give him one of my stuffies. Don’t worry, boo. Buttons the Hippo will protect you!

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