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@flairyote.bsky.social
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ΘΔ Coyote He/Him. Kinky Switch. ❤️: @furkitfox.bsky.social Software Engineer and Event Organizer. Also Audhd.

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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
You know the saying healing is non linear? It's very true. Made a lot of progress on audhd stuff, career, etc and then brains like oh cool we can finally unrepress stuff. And now I got knocked back many steps. I see it as prestiging though. Reset but with more tools and knowledge. Still is rough.
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Kit Fox ✈️ Japan @kit.foxpark.net · 27/09/2026
Had a great time with @cole.foxpark.net and @flairyote.bsky.social on the @furtive.events bus yesterday. ❤️
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
@furtive.events was super fun yesterday. If anyone in or visiting Seattle hasn't checked out one of their events yet, I'd recommend you do.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 26/09/2026
Audhd: existence is never ending management and change. In fact it is a must to thrive. Even change itself changes. And management must be managed. Much easier to just be yote. They can adapt to any environment.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
I've been doing a lot of crying lately and likely have a lot more to go. Mix of trauma healing but also the stuff I see with the synthesisia is so beautiful I can't not cry.
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TK Wolf / Seth Saber @tk-wolf.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
I don't think I've ever shared this on bsky, but look at this incredible piece @khamisu.bsky.social did for me a while back! Thank you again for the gorgeous art! Kitty's comin for ya! >:3
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Austin I am in you for work :3
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Might learn me some art skills to draw some of the synthesisia stuff I've seen this past year. Lake that looks like it has purple bioluminescent algae in broad daylight, gems forged from relationships, fields of sound waves as I listen to music n more. The first got so strong it projected too.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Dat taco...they put my food craveness to shame. I gotta up my game now.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
The yote in me is inspired by the turnabout here.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Review of Qelbree incase it helps others exploring adhd options. Prefacing I'm on 50mg up from 25 when normal starting is 100. I'm just hyper sensitive. For me it detaches from everything to a degree the good and bad. Overhwelm? Less overwhelming. Emotions and body sensations? Less insense. Cont...
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Mocktails are improving. I'm glad more and more places are making them in a way that isn't pure sugar. Starting to see bars use Lyres or other zero proof mimic spirits which I've used at home before and makes me happy. Now when thc cocktails go mainstream...then we talking.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
It was a mistake attempting the gym in the Bahamas after being out on the beach all day in high humidity and heat. A quarter workout and even light cardio wrecked me omg. (still managed though to get some workout in :3)
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Dunno if it's the weight of old job gone, adhd meds helping, first real vacation in a while that isn't fmla recovery and work, gym habit getting to the point of benefits or all of the above but I cried a bit today with how present I could be and not overwhelmed, anxious, or shutdown this week.
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✦ Kettu ✦ @kitakettu.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
✨ Dawn’s First Starlight ✨ A wolf born in the star’s sign, enchanted by the dying sun, and dressed with the quiet traveling fog~ SB: 150€ 🔸 MI: 20€ 🔸 AB: 1200€ • DM me to bid! • Winner gets full res, and rights to the design! • Ends 48 hrs after latest bid!
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
It's cruise time. I put the boarding fruit in a champaign glass with sparkling apple juice cause why not.
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🍂K R Y Θ T E Δ🔆 @kryotea.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
rumbles...
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Mace (ΘΔ) Dykefag @coyoteferns.bsky.social · 26/07/2026
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
"Even the pure of heart may turn into a wolf when wolfbane blooms" - signage in line for ride meant to be scary. Where's some bloomed wolfbane? I'm ready for my wolf tf plz.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Idk how long these planes have had these but just discovered them and can't stop fidgeting with them
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"Angel" Breel -> furpocalypse @angelbreel.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Remember to get your shots, animals~ :3 🎨: @eyeball6300.bsky.social
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Adjusting to adhd meds not the most fun. I'm apparently so sensitive to them that even something like a non stimulant I'm staring on a quarter dose. Adjustment is kinda rough at times but seemingly net good. I wish there were a quicker medical solution that worked for me x3
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
This is me the rest of the evening and for bedtime.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
Dr Exoskeleton is the dark souls version of trivia. Lots of suffering...but for fun in the end.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 24/08/2026
Oh god. The stairs. Are like lunges all the way up. Payoff worth it though
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
New job has given me a corporate account, monthly spend for corporate travel as I deem necessary, and a directive to like work across all the teams. All the teams. Imposter syndrome makes me wonder how long till they notice they hired a yote not a PE lol. The professional in me is like oh...dang.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
If you know about therianizing radiation, do you also know about therianizing cognito hazard? It's where you suit swap with a therian friend and suddenly you got perma animal noises somewhere in your head. Suit swap with me and there might be a grr that sticks :3
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
Loop earplugs on at the airport the whole time and not just when I start to get overwhelmed == somewhat less anxiety and no urge to drink to dampen everything. So that's nice.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 21/08/2026
I can tell I am excited about job change and mic drop quitting old company when desire to learn new cooking skills and get back into kink desires are surging. Bought new cookbooks and trying to ask people to torment yotes more. The massive weight is lifting.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 20/08/2026
T minus two days till I'm done with old company :3 One final thing that made me shake my head is what I'm calling a don't ask don't tell WFH policy. Not allowed but everyone does it no one bats an eye. As soon as someone's dr requests it as a disability accommodation, suddenly it's a oh hell no.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
I'm suffering from gym withdrawls. Better take off work in the afternoon today for some self care and to get a workout in :33
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Last working week at old job. I'm so checked out/burnout out of it even like doing some admin stuff to benefit me n my brain was like yeah that's enough here for today. Can't wait for new job.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
I'm gonna make some Mediterranean pita stuff tonight but with also Mac n cheese.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Look at dat yote. 📸 @celanor.org
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JuliArtWorld @juliartworld.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
I have way too much fun with these. A sleepy yote with yellow flowers 🧡
wood painting with acrylics 
A sleeping coyote with yellow flowers
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 13/08/2026
For some chastity is about consentual control, denial, relation dynamic etc. For others it's a way to elevate headspace like toy/abdl etc. Yet for others it's but a constant stim to fuel the adhd dopamine engine. For yotes like me it's a constant flux of all of the above depending on the day.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 10/08/2026
My brain's anxiety: what if these new medications lower my libido or make it harder to get hard and perform? My brain reframing that with therapy tools and kink hobbies: That just means those smaller chastity devices will finally fit more regularly >.>
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 09/08/2026
What if I started a food truck where all the options were chayotic burritos? -Thai fried rice burrito. -Tism sampler burrito. -Burrito burrito (inner burrito is a different burrito) -Butter chicken burrito. -Yesterday's leftover burrito -Hot dish burrito The list would go on.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
Not gonna lie I'm hungry now for Dino nuggies.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 08/08/2026
My leftover burritos are getting an upgrade. I can now eat them out of bowl with my name on them >.> @soka.bsky.social got me yote bowls
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TK Wolf / Seth Saber @tk-wolf.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
You did so good this week. Now just... Relax... Let yourself sink softly, deeply. And all the rest can melt away. *Purrrrrr* #FursuitFriday 📸: @flairyote.bsky.social 🧵🪡: @thefuzzfactory.com
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STrRedWolf @redwolf.ws · 07/08/2026
The quote is what gets me.
Arizona DOT installed a wildlife camera at Route 87's pedestrian crossing outside Payson last September. Standard deer migration count.  After six months, they had footage of zero deer and 147 clips of the same coyote pressing the crosswalk button with its paw at sunrise.  The animal waits for the walk signal.  Steps into the road.  Crosses at a trot. Every single time.  Biologists believe it learned by watching hikers at the adjacent trailhead. "It's not random," said the lead researcher. "That coyote understands cause and effect better than half our interns." DOT voted unanimously to keep the camera running.  The coyote hasn't jaywalked once.
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💜🎃 Spooky Gloopy Skunksky 🎃💜 @raidenhusky.bsky.social · 07/08/2026
STICKERS STICKERS STICKERS!!!! 💚💚💚💚 Awesome Stickers from @pulex.bsky.social ^w^ 💚 I LOVE! I SCREAM! I DOG! 💚
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Starting to get back into cooking and kinky bondage things again after a year of audhd burnout and work life balance issues feels good.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Going back to the job I'm quitting in a few weeks to wrap up n stuff to get hit almost immediately again with dysfunction at the director level, rest of org still working nights and weekends and toxicity from managers just affirms my decision. Heavy hitting even knowing I'm quitting soon.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 06/08/2026
Note to future self. A combo cardio core workout when the smoke levels are super high and you just had dinner probably not optimal. I got full cardio, one core exercise in and then was like nope time for back and legs and shoulders...I tortured myself with extra hard mode...
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 04/08/2026
The smoke...it is making my eyes water even at work. It is not fun.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 03/08/2026
Starting a new adhd med and the manufacturers don't make a dose low enough for where my doc wants to start. Since it's stuff-in-capsule based, I am getting to pull out the milligram scale, crack open pills and remake pills at a quarter dose. Lol.
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 01/08/2026
Lemme tell you having both alexithymia and emotion color synthesisia that can project is...an experience. Cant easily tell anyone how I feel but I can literally see emotions. How does this impact me practically? Gonna sketch more. And I'm a yote. We've only one braincell so not gonna overthink :3
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Flair @flairyote.bsky.social · 31/07/2026
Got a new slim fitting suit from @omegapaws.bsky.social and I must say I'm super happy with it. Fits well feels good. Makes yote feel very yote <3
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