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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 10h

No ceremony. No celebration. Just Madam Director doing what she does when she decides it's time. #femdom #milking #prostatemilking #orgasmcontrol #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

The first time most femboys dress and go outside, they're waiting for a reaction. Eventually you stop waiting. The goal is to reach a place where you care about the right things. femboidickie.com/blog/femboy-confid… #femboy #confidence #selfexpression #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

A cute maid who needed to be milked. The outfit was chosen by her Domme. The milking was not optional. #femdom #milking #prostatemilking #maidkink #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Femboy confidence is the specific ability to present in a way the world wasn't built for and not need the world's approval to keep doing it. That takes time and practice to build. femboidickie.com/blog/femboy-confid… #femboy #confidence #selfexpression #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Kink Series Part 8 — rope and bondage. Shibari, safety, nerve compression, and what makes bondage beautiful. #femdom #bondage #shibari #ropebondage #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

The most durable FLRs aren't built on kink alone. They're built on a genuine compatibility between one person inclined to lead and one genuinely fulfilled by following… femboidickie.com/blog/female-led-re… #FLR #femaleledrelationship #femdom #powerexchange #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Kink Series Part 7 — impact play. Technique, safety, and the difference between a good spanking and a damaging one. #femdom #impactplay #spanking #kink #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Most FLR couples don't look like anything from outside. The dynamic is in the agreements, not the aesthetics. Two people in an FLR might look completely conventional t… femboidickie.com/blog/female-led-re… #FLR #femaleledrelationship #femdom #powerexchange #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Kink Series Part 6 — where sex and kink overlap and where they don't. The line matters more than most think. #femdom #kink #sex #BDSM #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

A female-led relationship (FLR) is a dynamic where the woman holds the primary decision-making authority. The spectrum runs from mild — she leads on certain decisions… femboidickie.com/blog/female-led-re… #FLR #femaleledrelationship #femdom #powerexchange #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Kink Series Part 5 — roleplay. How to actually do it well, why most people do it badly, and what works. #femdom #roleplay #kink #BDSM #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

Dominance produces its own neurological effects — elevated focus, confidence, presence. Good dominants describe the same quality of absorption during a scene that athletes… femboidickie.com/blog/dominance-sub… #BDSM #powerexchange #psychology #submission #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Kink Series Part 4 — crossdressing. My history with it, how it intersects with submission, and what it means to me. #femboy #crossdressing #kink #feminization #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Submissive trance states during BDSM are neurologically similar to meditation and flow states. The same areas of the prefrontal cortex that quiet during meditation quiet d… femboidickie.com/blog/dominance-sub… #BDSM #powerexchange #psychology #submission #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Kink Series Part 3 — chastity from the inside. What extended lockup actually does to a submissive's mind. #femdom #chastity #chastitycage #kink #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

The psychology of dominance and submission is more studied than most realize. The experience of submission — altered consciousness, narrowed focus, specific relief of surr… femboidickie.com/blog/dominance-sub… #BDSM #powerexchange #psychology #submission #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Kink Series Part 2 — CBT deep dive. The psychology, the sensation, and why I genuinely love receiving it. #femdom #CBT #ballbusting #kink #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

The most practical first step is the shower scenario: one partner urinates on the other while both are in the shower, with no pressure to escalate. It removes most of the logistical anxi… femboidickie.com/blog/watersports-k… #watersports #goldenShower #kink #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Kink Series Part 1 — all about pegging. What it feels like, why it works, and what it does to a sub's headspace. #femdom #pegging #kink #strapon #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

In femdom and D/s dynamics, urinating on a submissive is an act of ownership and marking — it communicates hierarchy in a visceral, embodied way that many submissives find deeply satisfy… femboidickie.com/blog/watersports-k… #watersports #goldenShower #kink #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

Boots on. Brain off. Full gooning mode in the sexiest boots I own. This is what happens when I'm left unsupervised. #femboy #boots #gooning #solo #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Watersports shows up in kink surveys as far more practiced than discussed. If you're curious about it, you're in large company. Here is a straightforward guide without the shame. femboidickie.com/blog/watersports-k… #watersports #goldenShower #kink #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Gentle is relative. Patient is accurate. This is what progressive anal training looks like when done correctly. #femdom #analtraining #training #submission #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Sub frenzy naturally passes, usually within the first few months of genuine community involvement. What replaces it is a clearer, calmer understanding of what you actually want from submissio… femboidickie.com/blog/sub-frenzy-gu… #subfrenzy #BDSM #newsubmissive #safety #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

First person. Just me. No performance, no setup — exactly how I actually enjoy myself when no one's watching. #femboy #POV #solo #selftouch #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Sub frenzy creates specific safety problems. Predatory 'dominants' specifically look for new submissives in frenzy and use that state to bypass negotiation and escalate quickly to unvetted ac… femboidickie.com/blog/sub-frenzy-gu… #subfrenzy #BDSM #newsubmissive #safety #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

Part 2 of the AMA — getting into the questions I don't usually answer publicly. Honest and unfiltered. #femdom #femboy #AMA #kink #BDSM #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

Sub frenzy is the intense, consuming drive that many new submissives experience when they first acknowledge their submission — an almost obsessive need to experience everything as fast as pos… femboidickie.com/blog/sub-frenzy-gu… #subfrenzy #BDSM #newsubmissive #safety #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

Part 1 of my AMA — talking femdom, femboy life, submission, and what this dynamic actually looks like from inside it. #femdom #femboy #AMA #kink #BDSM #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

The appeal of objectification for submissives: it removes the responsibility for desires, opinions, and comfort entirely. Being genuinely not attended to as an individual is… femboidickie.com/blog/objectificati… #objectification #humanfurniture #femdom #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Pinned down, sat on, and tickled until losing his mind. The combination is genuinely diabolical. #femdom #facesitting #tickling #smothering #femboy #femboidickie @ellixraven.bsky.social

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

Good furniture play requires the dominant to actually disengage — if they keep checking on the sub or acknowledging them, the objectification collapses. The genuine indiffere… femboidickie.com/blog/objectificati… #objectification #humanfurniture #femdom #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

A game between Elli and Raven — using me as the board. Medical play doesn't get more precise than this. #femdom #sounding #medicalplay #urethralsounding #femboy #femboidickie @ellixraven.bsky.social

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Objectification kink involves the consensual removal of personhood from a submissive — temporarily treating them as a thing rather than a person. Human furniture is the most… femboidickie.com/blog/objectificati… #objectification #humanfurniture #femdom #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

He keeps asking to play the edging game. She keeps saying yes — and never letting him finish. #femdom #edging #teaseanddeny #orgasmdenial #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Long-term orgasm training produces a continuous, ambient reminder of the power dynamic even outside play. The knowledge that their pleasure belongs to someone else affects how a sub… femboidickie.com/blog/orgasm-traini… #orgasmtraining #femdom #orgasmcontrol #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Two Dommes. Two strap-ons. One very thoroughly pegged boy. There's nowhere to hide in double pegging. #femdom #pegging #doublepegging #strapon #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

The foundation of most orgasm training is consistent edging — bringing a sub to the edge repeatedly over extended sessions. Over time, the sub begins to genuinely require the domina… femboidickie.com/blog/orgasm-traini… #orgasmtraining #femdom #orgasmcontrol #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

Training takes patience and persistence. Madam Director is very patient. He is learning to be persistent. #femdom #throattraining #submission #training #femboy #femboidickie @ellixraven.bsky.social

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

Orgasm training refers to the deliberate conditioning of a submissive's orgasm responses — establishing that they cannot orgasm without explicit permission, regardless of stimulatio… femboidickie.com/blog/orgasm-traini… #orgasmtraining #femdom #orgasmcontrol #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

The maid made a mess. The punishment was thorough. Dressed and disciplined — exactly the way it should be. #femdom #maidkink #uniformfetish #punishment #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

The most common issue in the brat/brat tamer dynamic is mismatched partners. A brat paired with a dominant who wants quiet compliance creates genuine conflict. Both people need to identify what… femboidickie.com/blog/brat-dynamic-… #bratkink #brattamer #BDSM #femdom #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

CBT + dick slapping = a very humbled boy. He asked for more than he could handle and got exactly that. #femdom #CBT #ballbusting #dickslapping #femboy #femboidickie @ellixraven.bsky.social

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

A brat tamer is a dominant who doesn't just tolerate bratting but actively enjoys it. The appeal is in the challenge — earning and asserting control rather than having it handed over immediately. femboidickie.com/blog/brat-dynamic-… #bratkink #brattamer #BDSM #femdom #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

He pushed it. He got what was coming. There's nothing like a proper spanking to reset a bratty boy's attitude. #femdom #spanking #impactplay #discipline #brat #femboy #femboidickie @ellixraven.bsky.social

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

A brat in BDSM is a submissive who expresses submission through resistance and playful defiance rather than immediate compliance. The bratting is a game with understood rules — not genuine disre… femboidickie.com/blog/brat-dynamic-… #bratkink #brattamer #BDSM #femdom #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

A devoted sub who loves what he gets. CBT done right — precise, controlled, and exactly what he deserves. #femdom #ballbusting #CBT #cockandballtorture #femboy #femboidickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

Edging is effective as both a standalone scene and as preparation. A sub who's been edged for an hour before any other play is in a completely different headspace. It's a state-change tool. femboidickie.com/blog/what-is-edgin… #edging #orgasmdenial #femdom #BDSM #femboiDickie

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

He needed a reminder of his place. Madam Director delivers it with her full weight. Part 3. #femdom #facesitting #smothering #queening #femboy #femboidickie

3 - Facesitting Reinforces Hes Not the Main Character

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FemboiDickie @femboidickie.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

The physiological effect of edging compounds over time. The first edge produces frustration. By the fourth or fifth the sub is in a completely different state — hyperaware, highly suggestible, extr… femboidickie.com/blog/what-is-edgin… #edging #orgasmdenial #femdom #BDSM #femboiDickie

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