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ू(ʚ̴̶̷́ .̠ ʚ̴̶̷̥̀ ू) @faggots4squeex.bsky.social · 04/08/2026

its not surprising that she holds these opinions about nonbinary people. im too tired as a nonbinary person to have to unpack all of this, but we arent a monolith and not every nonbinary identity has to be agender. gender can also be viewed outside of the cisgender lens of it, you can be a woman

"Enbyphobia is not a thing" is not the same thing as saying "no one has any negative feelings about non-binary people and no one dismisses the existence or Validity (tm) of non-binary genders."
"Biphobia" is also not a thing, but that doesn't mean bisexuals aren't oppressed.

"Non-binary woman"
I am once again reminding everyone that
"non-binary" and "gender-non-conforming" are not interchangeable concepts.
You can't be a binary gender in a "non-binary" way, just like you can't be a "gay straight person" or a "cis trans person"

10% of Non-binary folks: "I hate how when I say I'm NB, people try to find a way to ask if I'm an NB Guy or NB Girl.
I'm NB! I'm neither of those! That's the point!"
The other 90% of Non-binary Folks: "I'm non-binary! But I'm AFAB so l'm basically a woman in every way that matters!"

PSA: "Enbyphobia" is not a thing.
It is, however, a very useful rhetorical device for positioning trans women as oppressing non-binary AFAB trans people who, by astonishing coincidence, benefit from systemic transmisogyny.
It's used to misrepresent how patriarchy functions to engage in DARVO.

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