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Erika Castillo

@erika.soy
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🏳️‍⚧️ Being my most charming self: witty, curvy, storied, unmistakably real. Every little piece stitching together the woman I am! #Sci-Fi 🛸 #Photography 📸 #CCNA 💻 #Horology ⌚ #Queer #LGTBQ #BBW #DatingAfter50 #LoveisLove linktr.ee/SexyErika

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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 09/10/2026
Happy Friday! ❤️
Picture of mein a mustard yellow top with a ruched, gathered neckline, deep v, soft and flowy. My silver hair falls in loose waves around my face, catching a cool blue tint in the light. Big gold hoop earrings framing my face, one clip-on style visible on the right. Soft, knowing smile, a slight head tilt, looking right into the camera with warm, steady eyes. Dark, moody background with a gentle vignette that makes the yellow and the gold really pop. Quiet confidence in this one, close up and comfortable being seen.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 04/10/2026
Happy Sunday!!! ❤️
A picture of me I'm in my navy daisy print dress, white and yellow daisies scattered over little polka dots. My silver hair is back to the wavy style, falling soft and full around my face with a cool blue tint where the light hits it. Big, genuine smile, eyes warm and crinkled, looking right into the camera. Dark, moody background with a soft vignette. Happy, relaxed close up, just me feeling good and being easy to love.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 02/10/2026
Wishing you a great weekend! ❤️
Picture of me with a light blue tank top with a small graphic on the chest, skinny jeans, black strappy heeled sandals with a lace-up detail. Sleek straight bob catching the light near the door. Hand resting on my hip, easy relaxed smile, looking into the camera. Living room backdrop, TV and couch in view, a second pair of heels sitting by the shelf. Simple, casual outfit, comfortable and confident in this one.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 02/10/2026
This was my background as I huff and puff to a new me!
The San Gabriel Mountains are glowing that deep burnt orange and gold from the setting sun, catching the light on the ridgelines while storm clouds roll overhead. Right in the middle, a vivid rainbow cuts straight down through the sky, landing right at the base of the peaks, colors popping against all that warm orange haze. Rooftops and palm trees line the foreground, a glimpse of the neighborhood below. Dramatic, almost otherworldly sky, that perfect mix of storm light and rainbow you only get for a few fleeting minutes.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 02/10/2026
Good morning!!!! ❤️
I'm blowing a big pink bubblegum bubble, caught mid pop basically, lips pursed, looking off to the side playfully. Pale blue lace trim camisole, delicate and soft. My silver hair in that sleek straight bob, catching warm golden light. Door and wall blurred behind me, that cozy sunlit glow throughout. Fun, candid, a little silly in the best way, just goofing around with a bit of attitude.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 25/09/2026
Wishing you all a great weekend! ❤️
Picture of me in a soft cream floral babydoll top, flutter sleeves, flowy fit with a tiered hem. Skinny jeans, black strappy heeled sandals. My hair in that sleek straight bob. Hand resting near my hip, looking back over my shoulder toward the camera with a warm, easy smile. Living room backdrop again, TV, a fan, and some bags in the corner. Soft, pretty outfit, feeling good and relaxed in this one.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 18/09/2026
Happy Friday my BlueSky family! ❤️
Picture or me I'm in a red ribbed tank dress, simple scoop neck. My silver hair is back to the wavy style, falling loose around my face, catching a cool blue tint from the lighting. Small hoop earring visible on one side. Warm, genuine smile, direct eye contact with the camera. Moody blue-gray background, dark couch pillow just visible in the corner. Soft, relaxed close up, comfortable and happy in the moment.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 15/09/2026
How you all doing? ❤️
Picture of me turned to the side, showing off this sheer black floral blouse, small white flower print, flowy babydoll style fit. Skinny jeans, black wedge sandals. My silver hair in that sleek straight bob. Hand on hip, looking back over my shoulder at the camera with a calm, steady expression. Living room backdrop, TV and some boxes visible. Casual, comfortable outfit, easy confident pose.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 14/09/2026
Hi!
Picture of me showing off this red long sleeve top with a subtle textured pattern. Skinny jeans, tan strappy heeled sandals. Silver hair in that sleek straight bob. Hand resting near my hip, looking back over my shoulder at the camera with a calm, steady expression. Living room backdrop, TV and some boxes in the corner. Simple, cozy outfit, comfortable and confident in this pose.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 14/09/2026
Dehydration is real. Was so happy to loose 10lbs but, when I had to drink water to compensate, things changed! So, still a net loss but not as big as I had hoped for! Still not in the nutrition part of my journey yet, that still a few weeks to go, but just in exercise alone loosing weight is hard!
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 13/09/2026
Happy Sunday! ❤️❤️❤️💃
I'm in a cheerful yellow floral tank top, sleeveless, flowy fit. Skinny jeans, tan strappy sandals. Silver hair in that sleek straight bob. Hands clasped together in front of me, big genuine smile on my face, standing near the door in the living room, TV playing behind me. Bright, sunny outfit choice, happy and relaxed energy in this one.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 12/09/2026
New wig by the way for those of you playing at home! Was me in a blond hairstyle in your bingo card?
Bright pink top, off-shoulder style with a flowy, draped fit. Silver hair in that sleek straight bob, sitting just at the shoulders. Direct eye contact with the camera, calm, steady expression, small hint of a smile. Colorful, playful background, looks like some artwork or decor blurred behind me. Close up shot, simple and confident, comfortable in front of the lens.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 12/09/2026
Denim not really my thing! What do you guys think?
Picture of me showing off this sheer black floral blouse, small white flower print, flowy fit with a hint of the underlayer showing through. Skinny jeans, black wedge sandals. Hair down straight, that shorter bob style, hand on my hiap, watch visible on my wrist. Looking back over my shoulder toward the camera, calm and steady expression. Living room backdrop, TV in the corner, casual everyday look with a nice mix of textures and prints.Picture of me showing off this sheer black floral blouse, small white flower print, flowy fit with a hint of the underlayer showing through. Skinny jeans, black wedge sandals. Hair down straight, that shorter bob style, hand on my hiap, watch visible on my wrist. Looking back over my shoulder toward the camera, calm and steady expression. Living room backdrop, TV in the corner, casual everyday look with a nice mix of textures and prints.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 21/08/2026
Got it for $15!!! Not too bad! It is in great condition, may polish the acrylic cover! It works too! Great find! Wound it this morning and it seems to keep good time! #Horology ⌚
1 of 2 - A vintage Helbros watch with a gold-tone case, the classic red swirl logo sitting just below the brand name on a warm, slightly aged dial. The 12 is the only numeral, everything else marked by simple stick indices, giving it that clean, understated look from another era.

The strap is a stretch band with a woven, textured pattern in gold and silver tones, showing some wear that matches the character of the watch itself. The winding crown sits smooth against the case, and the second hand rests quietly on its own small subdial near the bottom.

There's real patina here, small scratches on the crystal, a softness to the gold finish, the kind of wear that comes from decades of being worn and loved rather than sitting in a drawer. It has that timeless, heirloom feel to it.2 of 2 - A vintage Helbros watch with a gold-tone case, the classic red swirl logo sitting just below the brand name on a warm, slightly aged dial. The 12 is the only numeral, everything else marked by simple stick indices, giving it that clean, understated look from another era.

The strap is a stretch band with a woven, textured pattern in gold and silver tones, showing some wear that matches the character of the watch itself. The winding crown sits smooth against the case, and the second hand rests quietly on its own small subdial near the bottom.

There's real patina here, small scratches on the crystal, a softness to the gold finish, the kind of wear that comes from decades of being worn and loved rather than sitting in a drawer. It has that timeless, heirloom feel to it.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 21/08/2026
Hello! #lgbtqia #QueerDating #bbw #queer #loveislove
Head tilted, dramatic close up, silver hair falling in soft voluminous waves across half my face. Moody dark background, lighting hitting just right to catch the shine and movement in the hair. Small, sultry smile, eyes looking off slightly rather than straight at the camera. Colorful floral top just visible at the very bottom edge of the frame. Sultry, striking, editorial kind of shot, real drama in the styling and the light.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 21/08/2026
Hi!
Bright coral orange top with a wrap front, deep neckline. Silver hair back to the longer waves, framing my face nicely. Caught in a circular mirror frame, giving the shot a fun, unique vignette effect. Warm smile, direct eye contact, that easy confident look. Small stud earring visible. Playful, creative angle for the photo, still comfortable and at ease even with the mirror framing trick.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 21/08/2026
I look good today! I should work from home more often!
I'm in a gray v-neck tee, black leggings, tan strappy sandals. Hair down straight in that shorter bob style, hand resting on my hip. Standing near the door in the living room, TV and stand visible behind me, casual and relaxed pose, steady look at the camera. Simple everyday outfit, comfortable and easy.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 21/08/2026
WFH! Good morning!!!
I'm in a charcoal gray v-neck tee, deep neckline. My silver hair is shorter here, styled straight in more of a bob, sleek and sitting right at my shoulders, a bit of a different look from my usual waves. Bold red lipstick, a soft knowing smile, looking off to the side rather than straight at the camera. Sitting indoors, dark chairs and a rustic wood backdrop behind me. Relaxed, candid kind of shot, comfortable in the moment.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 20/08/2026
Frack me!!!! It takes about 9 to 10 weeks (66 days on average) for a new behavior to become automatic!!! 7 more weeks of this before I start feeling like is natural!!!!
Another Rose Bowl collage. I'm in a white v-neck tee, black leggings, gray and red sneakers. Silver hair down. Left shot is me standing tall, hands behind my back, streetlights and dusk sky behind me. Top right is a close up selfie I took with the Rose Bowl sign glowing behind me, small easy smile. Bottom right catches me mid-motion, leaning against a ledge, more of the parking lot and trees in view. Simple, casual outfit for an evening walk, good energy across all three shots.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 20/08/2026
Good morning! 💞💋
I'm in a red halter top with a beaded, embellished neckline, sleeveless. My silver hair falls down full around me, soft waves catching the warm indoor lighting. Calm, gentle expression on my face, small smile, looking straight into the camera. Cozy background, a bit blurred and warm toned. Simple close up portrait, feeling comfortable and at ease.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 19/08/2026
Waiting......
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 19/08/2026
I should be doing better and pushing more! The orange bar should be at least 70%+
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 19/08/2026
Good morning!!!
I'm standing sideways, showing off this navy daisy print dress, cheerful white and yellow flowers scattered all over, short sleeves, fitted through the waist. Black platform sandals. Hand resting on my hip, hair down, looking back over my shoulder at the camera with a relaxed, confident little expression. Living room backdrop again, TV playing in the background. Cute, casual, springy kind of outfit, comfortable and easy to move in.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 18/08/2026
hi!
I'm standing in a sage green swing dress, sleeveless with a v-neckline, flowy and loose through the skirt. Black strappy heeled sandals. Hair down and straight this time, a bit different look. Standing near the couch, TV playing in the background, one hand tucked behind my back, calm and easy smile. Simple, comfortable, everyday kind of look, relaxed at home vibe.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 18/08/2026
Good morning!!!! (i know, i know, I need an eyebrow job)
I'm in a deep red halter top with a plunging neckline, thin straps tying at the front. My silver hair falls down full around my face, gold hoop earrings peeking through. Looking straight into the camera, calm and steady, just a subtle hint of a smile. Warm, moody lighting behind me. Close up shot, feeling confident and comfortable, just present in the moment.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 18/08/2026
One of the things I greatly lament is not learning PowerShell scripting when I started this road decades ago! pdftotext is freaking awesome!!!!! Just saved hours a week breaking apart PDF to log ingesting. pdftotext takes minutes to get PDF logs ready!!!!!!!!
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 17/08/2026
Hi!
Standing sideways, giving a full profile view of this pink floral maxi dress, small white flower print, fitted bodice with a v-neckline, flowing down into a long skirt. One hand on my hip, silver hair down, looking off to the side with a calm, thoughtful expression. Black wedge sandals peeking out from under the hem. The whole photo's got a striking selective color effect, everything muted except the dress popping in pink. Feminine, flowy, elegant kind of moment, just showing off the shape and movement of the dress.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 17/08/2026
Crimson & Clover for the win!!!
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 17/08/2026
My mood today!!! youtu.be/GpGEeneO-t0?...
youtu.be
Crimson and Clover - Tommy James & The Shondells
YouTube video by CaptnKiller
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 17/08/2026
Good morning! ❤️
Big genuine smile here, real joy on my face. Sheer black floral blouse with lace trim, small purple flowers scattered across the fabric, gold hoop earrings catching the light. Silver hair falling in soft waves. The lighting has a nice vignette to it, warm and a little dramatic. This one just radiates happiness, the kind of candid moment where I wasn't posing so much as just genuinely caught mid-laugh or mid-smile.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 16/08/2026
Today's look: red and white striped cold shoulder dress, playful chevron pattern where the stripes meet at the seams. Paired it with black wedge sandals for a little height.Simple, breezy, summery vibe, comfortable fit that moves well. #lgbtqia #QueerDating #bbw #queer #loveislove
Today's look: red and white striped cold shoulder dress, playful chevron pattern where the stripes meet at the seams. Paired it with black wedge sandals for a little height. Silver hair down and loose, showing off the outfit from every angle, side profile, front, and back. Simple, breezy, summery vibe, comfortable fit that moves well. Sometimes you just gotta do the full 360 to appreciate a good stripe pattern. #OTD
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 14/08/2026
Happy Friday!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm standing sideways against the door, showing off the outfit. Sheer black floral top with a delicate white flower print over a black underlayer, sleeves loose and flowy. Bold magenta leggings, black strappy heeled sandals wrapping around my ankles. Hand on my hip, silver hair falling over my shoulder, glancing back at the camera with a calm, steady look. Simple hallway backdrop, TV stand in the corner, just a casual home moment showing off a fun color combo.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 14/08/2026
Good morning my friends! ❤️
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 14/08/2026
Huffing and puffing into week 3!
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 13/08/2026
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 13/08/2026
keep coming back to this image of myself as a pillion. Not the one driving, not the one in control, just holding on. Arms wrapped around someone's waist, my face turned into their shoulder, trusting them completely with where we're going.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 13/08/2026
Good morning my Bluesky family! Wishing you an amazing day today! Love and kisses! 💞💋
Extreme close up, oversized black sunglasses taking up most of the frame, catching a little glare off them. Silver hair falling around my face, gold hoop earrings peeking through. Small, confident smirk on my lips, chin tilted down slightly like I'm looking at the camera over the glasses without actually taking them off. Colorful floral top just visible at the edge of the frame. Cool, laid back vibe, that kind of effortless "caught me at a good angle" candid shot.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 13/08/2026
Another huffing and puffing evening! Few more years of this!!!
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 12/08/2026
Moment of Zen!
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 12/08/2026
Met my new neighbor last evening. She is cool! I FORGOT HER NAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What's wrong with me!!!!
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 12/08/2026
Good morning!!!
Bright pink tank top, deep V neckline. Silver hair falling loose around my face with a bit of a natural sheen catching the light, maybe post workout or just a warm day. Close up shot, direct eye contact with the camera, that easy little smile again, relaxed and confident. Simple indoor lighting, nothing fussy, just a candid moment feeling good and comfortable being photographed up close.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 12/08/2026
Well into my second week and still huffing and puffing but not as bad as before!
A little collage of me out at the Rose Bowl at dusk with its neon sign glowing behind me in the top shot, a close up selfie with the sky just turning that deep blue. Blue and white floral tank top, black leggings, gray sneakers. The bottom three shots catch me striking different poses in a parking lot, streetlights starring out against the darkening sky, hand on my hip in a couple of them, standing tall and relaxed in another. Casual evening out, good energy, enjoying being out and about in Pasadena as the sun goes down.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 11/08/2026
Hi!
Selfie taken from a low angle, looking up and over at the camera with a cool, steady expression. Black faux leather dress with a fitted, structured bodice, sleeveless. Silver hair down and full, catching the light. Sitting at a desk, monitor and keyboard visible in the background, looks like a work-from-home or office moment turned into a quick photo op. Sleek, edgy outfit choice with a confident, no nonsense look on my face.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 11/08/2026
Late walk last night! I think I like night walks now, a lot cooler!!! Still very weird not wearing my wig! I don't feel complete without it!
Nighttime shot, I'm caught in profile, chin up, cap on, hair cropped short underneath. Light blue tank top. Behind me the street's lit up with neon, the Rose Bowl sign glowing in bright greens, reds, and yellows. Palm trees silhouetted against the dark sky, streetlight glowing in the distance. Classic Pasadena night out feel, out and about, caught mid moment against the city lights.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 10/08/2026
Hi!
I've got on a white cold shoulder top with a small print, one hand resting on my hip, black leggings, and platform strappy heels with a striking lace up detail in black and red. Silver hair down and loose, standing tall and confident in front of the door, giving a bit of side profile with that steady, "I know I look good" expression. Casual living room setting, but the outfit and pose have some real attitude to them, playful and self assured.
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 10/08/2026
I loose my manure every time I see people sending their dogs on to the rainbow bridge! It makes me think of mine and that he is 16 years old on a breed that is supposed to live 10-14!!! :(
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Erika Castillo @erika.soy · 10/08/2026
These earthquakes are getting closer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hope Colombia is not affected too much! 💕
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