Ed Lemay @edlemay.bsky.social · 19/08/2026We talk about a variety of biases, some that are often not helpful, such as projecting lack of care or interest in alternative partners onto one’s partner, and assuming negative meta-perceptions when people have low self-esteem. But we also talk about some biases that seem generally helpful. 110
Ed Lemay @edlemay.bsky.social · 19/08/2026One of the more counterintuitive findings in relationship science is how much of what we "see" in a partner is actually something within us. I talked with Shankar Vedantam about projection and other biases in how we see people on the latest episode of Hidden Brain.hiddenbrain.orgHow to Be a Better Partner - Hidden Brain MediaWhen we look at the people we love, how clearly do we really see them? This week, how our fears, desires, and insecurities can shape our perceptions of our partners — sometimes creating the very reali... 121
Ed Lemay @edlemay.bsky.social · 24/11/2024I am a social psychologist with interests in all sorts of relationships and how they intersect with beliefs, expectations, and motivations. 050