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Nantes' #1 himbo

@donthatedontkill.bsky.social

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This is an account for cross posts from my indieweb site. mycabinetofcuriosities.com I come by to check notifications and comment back, but I'm more active on Mastodon (see website). Attempting to escape from Omelas

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 15h

Well the bike ride started well but ended in defeat. I got lost and.... Even writing that is making me feel some kind of way. I ended up having a cussing fit and took a look at myself and said this is having the opposite effect that it was […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 19h

I got it in my head to bike to Clisson today. This is around 30km. I'm a bit nervous, but I think it'll be fine... Here goes noting! #bike #clisson #Nantes #biking #cycling #exercise #wishmeluck (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Today I spent the day starting to set up basic things on my new CachyOS installation, and while this part is always a bit long, it's also a nice to take inventory of what I'm using, especially since some of those choices were made before I […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Trying to get my xbox controller to connect on CachyOS (booting through the test usb, maybe part of the problem). Not discoverable, even after the firmwear update. (Actually one was discoverable before the update.) Reading forum posts and the […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Please understand that if you ask me to join you and a friend I don't know somewhere where we need to be social and I ask you if they are going to be weird and exoticize me, one of the few wrong answers you can give is to start lecturing me […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Rough night. Couldn't get to sleep. Felt weird muscle tension and anxiety. Finally took half over an OTC sleeping pill at a little past midnight and now I'm waking up at noon. Ho ve. I thought the sleep was getting better. At least I was able […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

So as of yesterday, I'm on sick leave for burn out because of the situation at work. Part of how this manifests is being clumsy and also just not being as emotionally stable as I could be. So suffice it to say, when a piece of seitan plopped […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Me when someone just texts or DMs "hey". (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Hello, all! Can you all give me a recommendation for an alternative to Meets/Teams/Skype? Ideally one that you can send a link and then people can join from their browser. Open to any of your suggestions. And thank you 😃 #floss #foss #teams […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

One more coffee like that and I'll be as jazzed up as a war boy spraying chrome into his mouth and yelling unintelligibly about Valhalla. (Yes, I've been watching all the mad max movies in order.) #madmax #coffee #film #movies (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

I got through all of my SIgnal messages tonight! Yay! Tomorrow it's texts and fediverse and if I have time, the site where I'm selling/giving away a few things. But getting Signal down to zero unread messages feels like an accomplishment! (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

I looked at my 50-ish signal messages and some like 30-ish fedi notifications and said "not today". But yes tomorrow. I always have message back up when I go on vacation. (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Salut tout le monde ! Je prépare une page d'acceuil pour notre serveur. J'aimerais bien inclure quelques pages qui ont des tips pour le fediverse, idéalement francophone. Des pages qui expliquent comment bien utiliser mastodon, comment ça […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

I am at work. Pray for me. (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

I'm not doing well and I'm watching Dogville because I clearly hate myself. #movies #cinema #mentalHealth #Dogville #burnout #stress #work #antiwork (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Felt cute, might go insane later. #gay #gayselfie #selfie #lgbtqia #skinhead #dad #daddy #goingToLoseMyGodDamnMind (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

It must be that time again. #ango #zen #buddhism #zenbuddhism #spirituality #religion #fallango (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

As time goes on I realize, I have less and les to lose. I am dispossessed. We all are. So why not be true, why not be Antigone, why not fearlessly die on the hill.... What other option is there than the pity of generations after? (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

I'm gonna get horny on main for second and write this on my non Esperanto account but..... if you speak Esperanto, you're automatically 200% sexier than if you didn't. Confirmed by.... me watching people speak the language of hope (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Yesterday, CEO emailed in the 2nd 1/2 of yesterday. I didn't answer b/c as explained, I am extremely busy and will be + if continued. He wanted change our Conversation to today, asked again today and I said we have 1 person on vacation so […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Using the library is resistance. Resistance to the latest craze Netflix is pushing on you. Resistance to the idea that we can not share, we must rent from a private company. Resistance to a carefully crafted version of reality. Using the […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

I've been back in France for a little over 24 hours and in the few hours I went out to see some friends, I had people speak to me in unintelligible English, someone ask multiple times if I didn't want to just speak in English instead (despite […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Je sais pas si c'est un hot take ou cold dog water mais j'en ai marre du nOuVaEAu cHu et il est même pas terminé. #nantes (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

Going around the street fair at Folsom and instead of asking people their astrology sign, asking which Dogs of War faction they'd be in: Gayboy Berserkers, Smega Crazies, Punks or Skins? I think that despite appearances, I would be a Gayboy […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

"Is it a football match tonight?" No, no, it's just a giant mass of leather men, kiffers, puppies and other assorted kinksters in the street having a nice time. #folsom #folsomBerlin #folsom2027 #folsomEurope #kink #fetish #leather #gay […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

Been hanging out in pre Folsom for a few hours. Pushing down weird feelings feelings of insecurity but let's talk about that later. What I do like is the fashion show of it all. Seeing everyone's gear. Taking a few notes of my own. But also […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 08/09/2026

Though this is not necessarily productive of me and admittedly very petty.... I wish I could find a slightly condescending word like the way Amish use the word "English" to refer to the outside world. Except I would use it for people who […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

I think the answer is no, but... Is there a federated app like BookWyrm but for movies? Would anyone want that? #fediverse #movies #bookwyrm #films (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

I have my first shift at the coop and I'm nervoussssssssss #coop #food #coopsupermarket #scopeli #nantes #foodproduction (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

It's 2026 and everyone has social anxiety now. (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

I'm heartbroken today. A few weeks back I got into an argument about politics, which got heated and culminated in me saying, "so what you're saying is, me and all the other foreigners should just the fuck up?" To which my friend said "yes." I […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

I had completely forgotten about my teenage crush on the lead singer of Deep Blue Something (known for the "Breakfast at Tiffany's" song). I mean, swoon. I mean, come on: bookwyrm.social/user/donthatedontki… #music #crush #90s […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

Oops. Not me writing an email to the CEO with five other people in CC telling him to stay in his lane. 💅 (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

We lost the best the human. What shall we do now? #dollyparton #dolly (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Freudian slip? #git #merge #merde #french #dev #code (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Je pense que ce serait bien de partager cet article. J'ai parlé avec un ami hier soir qui était convaincu que LFI ne dénonçait pas la homophobie pour pouvoir faire des courbettes au public musulman (sans parler de comment l'islam n'est pas la […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

Talking to people, to friends lately, people I love and I cannot convince them to stop using AI, I can't convince them to use open source, to leave GAFAM, I can't convince them to protest, I can't convince them to dream of a better world. I […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

I'm not even sure how to verbalize my difficulty (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

(1) Hey buddy. How's it going? Ready to explore the backrooms?... (2) Think I might have seen something moving around in there... (3) Maybe we should go take a look... (4) Don't worry, buddy, I'll protect ya! (This is what happens when I get […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

So, today was the first time someone thought I was South African, which is honestly even worse than when they think I'm English (or correctly, American). (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Once again, I got a bit out of hand. It's Geoffrey's fault. (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

_Me to myself in an old timey New York femme fatale accent_ : "Doctah, I got a fevah*, and the only thing that can stop it is a kebab sandwich with samouraï sauce." *à hangover #kebab #hungry #food #filmNoir #hangover (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

Okay. This got out of hand. (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 09/08/2026

So, I got a theremini from the library about a week ago and I just now have been able to play something resembling that old classic Hot Cross Buns on it. This instrument is so cool but let me tell you, between the dyspraxia and shakey hands […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

Listening to the Requiem for a Dream soundtrack for the first time in a long time. I'm feeling a bit sad today and I thought, for some reason that seems really stupid in hindsight, that this would be a nice self-pity paty listening.I can now […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

THIS IS MY HOME! FUCK YOU. #FRANCE (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Coworker: You're radiant/bubbly (FR: "radiant") today. Me: It's the anxiety! 🫠 #work #anxiety #radiant #theHorrorsPersistButSoDoI (mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…)

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

I have once again entered a period of my life where it takes me five to seven business days to answer text messages and my replies start like old Victorian noble: "My dearest friend, the winner has been harsh and all signs point to an even […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

When I was in Greece, I made a list of things I need in my life to be happy. A way of finding my priorities for a situation that felt unsustainable. The list has 15 things and I decided to choose three to focus on. It's been interesting to […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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Nantes' #1 himbo @donthatedontkill.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

Okay, well, here me out. If I did make all my phone calls right away, then how would I feel the crazy relief I feel when I finally do them? Same for my to do list! I feel such a weight lifted. But I do think the phone call thing comes from […] mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/17…

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