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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 23h

I’ve been working with her since before I started transitioning so it makes sense, I guess 🙃

Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 23h

My therapist is moving on to a better job so I won’t be able to continue doing sessions with her and I’m happy for her, I’m just a lot more cut up over it than I thought I’d be

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 17/10/2026

Can I ask where you get your skirts? I’ve been wanting a long one but haven’t found one that felt right

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 16/10/2026

Show me a picture on your phone that has your energy but isn’t a selfie

A corvid dressed in a ruffled collar and silly hat, they are carrying balloons under their wing
Below it says “I the fool”

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 16/10/2026

Do you have a preference for when you’re referred to as rue or ruiner?

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 15/10/2026

Fwiw, this has led to a really slow transition, but I’ve had time to consider every small change and it’s been really helpful

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 15/10/2026

I took a lot of little steps that felt directionally correct like getting tattoos and piercings at first, realized in 2020 there was some gender going on, and then sat on it until I read a book that pushed me to _try_ hrt Once I had the option to get it and it was real I knew it was right

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 15/10/2026

I just wish I could stay on the same post when I did so I can repost on the other account easier

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Jacquelyn Gill @jacquelyngill.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

Aaron Swartz, coding prodigy and hacktivist who helped develop RSS and was a co-founder of Reddit, died by suicide after facing $1 million in fines and 35 years in prison for felony charges, just for downloading pdfs of research papers with the intention of making them accessible to the public.

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 13/10/2026

I’m blessed today, thanks so much 🥰

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 13/10/2026

Do you have any favorites? I’m always in the lookout for recs

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 13/10/2026

Brainworms have decided I don’t look gay enough and I don’t even know where they’re getting that from

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 13/10/2026

Haus this comic is amazing and also viscerally uncomfortable

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 13/10/2026

I did a craft project in first grade (~6yo) about the different types of clouds and can still name most of them

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 13/10/2026

The first job I ever wanted as a kids was to be a weather forecaster because I liked clouds

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 11/10/2026

Tried going to a sauna for the first time today since my wife really likes them and she’s so right, they’re great Just wish I felt comfortable using the women’s changing room 😓 ended up changing in a unisex toilet instead

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 09/10/2026

I regularly go out of my way to check on people when they're not doing well, and try to include newcomers to any group I'm in

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 08/10/2026

That’s lovely! Best of luck at the new role, you’re gonna do great ☺️

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 08/10/2026

Gonna start spelling my name correctly in non-work contexts and see how it feels

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 08/10/2026

2 weeks here but I’m so excited for the break

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 07/10/2026

It was closer to 10:34pm, and I have a grasp on like 2/3 of it I hope you feel better in the morning 💜

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 03/10/2026

Is domp domperidone? I wanna get the girls bigger if I can

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 02/10/2026

That makes sense, and sitting through boring classes is a huge pain (or at least it always was for me)

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 02/10/2026

Feel free to shoot me a dm if you want to talk about it 💜 I’m sorry it’s feeling so bad

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 02/10/2026

Would you believe there are 6 years between those photos?

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Fiadh 🏳️‍⚧️ @dogged-deer.northsky.social · 02/10/2026

A lot of email services let you set an “undo” feature which just delays the send by a few minutes so you can change things if you spot it as you send it!

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