Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 02/10/2026Sometimes I wanna tell people the truth like… the real truth… “I like your shirt” is nice but boring. I wanna say stuff like, “I love how bowlegged you are” or “I love how close your eyes are to the bridge of your nose… makes you look a lil cross eyed but it’s cute” 130
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 02/10/2026That opaque flavor from Jeni’s is soooo good! But it definitely turned my poop black for a couple days! Look like I was dropping meconium😂😂 110
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 02/10/2026In a tract house that we share… somewhere that’s green 001
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 02/10/2026I hate a fat parent talking about their fat child being fat. Bitch YALL EAT THE SAME FOOD and neither one of yall workout or move because YOU don’t encourage it as a parent. Get your fat ass up and maybe the child will follow suit 010
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 01/10/2026The level of yearning I feel when I hear Brandy’s “When You Touch Me” is insane. I really be on the verge of tears 001
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 01/10/2026Everybody knows you say the number TWICE when you leave a voicemail 002
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 01/10/2026Lawd Trina husband done died… I wonder if Tamar has a song for him like she did for Gabe 000
Reposted by Doinda BendonJanet Johnsonville 🎭🇬🇭 @debbiecakes.blacksky.app · 01/10/2026Almost got sad. We don't have time for that! 221
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 01/10/2026🗣️🗣️WHAT MANNER OF MAN IS THIS WHOSE VOICE CAN CONTROL THE SEA!?!? 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 01/10/2026Lean into the love that people have for you. Cleo soul was right; even when you don’t love yourself, somebody is loving you. 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 30/09/2026And if I could really think, I’m sure it’d be blacker! my9movies.net/en 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 30/09/20269-5 just to stay alive to 9-5 just to stay alive to 9-5 just to stay alive to 9-5 just to stay alive to 9-5 just to stay alive to 9-5 just to stay alive 052
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 30/09/2026I just feel like so many of the people around me keep having these repeating ass stories. I need a refreshing change of scenery 010
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 30/09/2026Let me gon’head and take this preemptive shot of DayQuil cuz I ain’t finna get sick!! 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 29/09/2026I got to host a fashion show a few weeks ago and I’m so glad I did it. I was a wee bit uncomfy with the make up but the more I see it, I look like my mama and I’m WEAK😅😂😂 012
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 29/09/2026No, I don’t wanna pay the NYT $1 to read that article. Is there any place else I can read it? 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 29/09/2026I still have a slight crush on the first boy I met at Fort Valley, lol. He just called me a nickname he gave me damn near 16 years ago and I got all giddy inside. Love that for me. 140
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 28/09/2026By the end of THIS year, I will attend at least 4 gay events and make at least 5 net gay acquaintances. My friends call my “spicy straight” and “bi curious” and tell me I’ll Never find a man all the time. And they ain’t wrong, based on how I’m moving. 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 28/09/2026I don’t know why I’m here at this job today. Lowkey… I’m think I may be out the door soon cuz this position ain’t really necessary anymore and idk where they would move me. 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Martell used to be so fine to me. He looks EXACTLY the same but he’s ugly af to me now… 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 28/09/2026I don’t align with that version of myself anymore. He’s no good for where I’m going. 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 26/09/2026I love a man outdoors. Is he cutting the grass? Changing oil? Pulling weeds? Is he on the grill?!? Washing cars?? Count me in!static.klipy.comKkoophoria's 'I'm Sat' DanceALT: Kkoophoria's 'I'm Sat' Dance 030
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 25/09/2026I have to change my mind so I can change my life. I wish I could literally just swap it out but I can’t. Somehow I have to redesign the neural pathways into ones that think better and positive. 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 25/09/2026This is a dance off. If you see this, post a dance!static.klipy.comShoulder Roll Little Black Girl DancingALT: Shoulder Roll Little Black Girl Dancing 051
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 22/09/2026🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 The line of coke I feel like doing right now 111
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 22/09/2026Life is only lifing for those who are ALIVE!!! Make sure you get a little joy in the midst of all the chaos. 021
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 21/09/2026I’ve been deep in my teenage angst bag lately and I gotta say… Avril Lavigne is the queen of capturing these feelings in song!!! That white girl knew just what my 13 year old gay black ass was feeling 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 19/09/2026Too many questions!!!!! Just do what I’m asking! Please! 011
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 18/09/2026I’m never one to run from money so if I say I can’t do the gig, PLEASE KNOW I simply can not do it. 011
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 18/09/2026I just watched this man trap a wasp on TikTok and that was the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen 200
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Baaaaaby ain’t NOTHIN like a good nut scratch after a full day in dress slacks 😮💨 010
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 17/09/2026I got this one clinician who LOVES to text me tasks and I hate. I respond via email EVERY TIME. Maybe she’ll catch on one day. 000
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 17/09/2026I feel like this should be a therapy discussion but: One of the frustrating parts of being bipolar is that when my mood swings, people don’t swing with me. So when I’m super up, everybody loves me! But when I swing down, people are taken aback and remain so when I swing back up. 100
Doinda Bendon @dmniq.bsky.social · 17/09/2026That pizza I had for lunch is kicking my ass right now 000
