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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!!

@divorcedmenover40.bsky.social
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Divorced over 13 years ago, host of two divorce recovery podcasts, - The Divorce Devil Podcast a nd Don't Pick the Scab Podcast. Husband, father, son, and always trying to see why the half-empty glass is half full.

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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/01/2025
Who would have thought a plant-based nutrition would assist people in their divorce recovery? youtu.be/5Ujd1pLPtP8
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Plant-based Nutrition in your Divorce Recovery? || DIVORCE RECOVERY MEN OVER 40
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/01/2025
The premise of the movie back in the 80's Cat People.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/01/2025
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Divorce Devil Podcast 047: Forgiveness, It is for you, the art of no f&^ks, Generational curses and Forgiveness in order to get to Heaven.
Wow… This podcast is pretty in your face and brutal. Definitely, Rachel and David differ in the need for forgiveness after divorce. New Jersey ‘no f&^ks’ has many…
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/01/2025
Synonymous with the term forgiveness!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 01/01/2025
It can be a bitch to control - Anger during and after a divorce... divorcerecoverymenover40.com/blogs/f/5-wa...
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5 WAYS NOT TO LET THE ANGER GET THE BEST OF YOU DURING AND AFTER
Anger is a prime result of a divorce.  The feeling of being wronged and going through emotional hell can be at the forefront of your everyday life.  Trust me, I know, I was there almost 10 years ago. ...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 23/12/2024
Curiosity killed the cat? Judgment closes the door to understanding, but curiosity opens it. When you feel anger, fear, or sadness, don’t judge yourself. Instead, ask, 'What is this emotion trying to tell me? youtube.com/shorts/7Wp87...
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Curiosity Killed the Cat? || DIVORCE RECOVERY MEN OVER 40
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
Just sayin'!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 20/12/2024
Just sayin'!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
A popular one for men over 40 with their divorce recovery.... youtu.be/9VvmrwurNA0
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The Nice Guy Syndrome and Masculinity in Your Divorce Recovery - Michael Read || DPTSP 067
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 19/12/2024
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 18/12/2024
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 18/12/2024
Yep!!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 18/12/2024
Totally worth it. Looking back, I don't know how I did it but you put you co-parenting shoes on one at a time and hit it face-on. Kids all turned out pretty good considering the sh!tshow they had to endure.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
Just sayin'...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
Never stay for the kids..
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
If you have that situation..... love your kids more than you hate your ex...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
Dr. Tara.... I have a divorce recovery men over 40 podcast and I would love to get you on the show. Co-parenting is one of my popular subjects. Reach out to me if you are interested. dontpickthescabpodcast.com
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In this episode of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast , host David interviews Ryan Christensen, a professional hypnotist, military veteran, and author of Winter Peace: How to End Inner Conflict and Make Success Inevitable . Ryan shares his journey of overcoming autism, bipolar disorder, and a life of emot...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 17/12/2024
Tom... drop me a line when you are up and running. I have a divorce recovery podcast for men over 40. Love to have you on the show.... dontpickthescabpodcast.com
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In this episode of Don't Pick the Scab Podcast , host David interviews Ryan Christensen, a professional hypnotist, military veteran, and author of Winter Peace: How to End Inner Conflict and Make Success Inevitable . Ryan shares his journey of overcoming autism, bipolar disorder, and a life of emot...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 13/12/2024
Revenge could be considered self-care angry cousin.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 11/12/2024
A definitely positive step in decreasing parental alienation.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 11/12/2024
The ultimate trifecta!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 10/12/2024
When they shutdown my dental office during COVID, I flipped 30 bicycles on Facebook Marketplace because you couldn't find a new bike from China, because everything was closed. Anything dealing with outside - biking, camping, sports.... just got so popular. Like Trading Places...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
Day 2 / Divorce Recovery Advent Calendar / Build Your Support Network youtube.com/shorts/NYijs...
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DAY 2 -BUILD YOUR SUPPORT NETWORK - ADVENT DIVORCE RECOVERY CALENDAR , DIVORCE RECOVERY MEN OVER 40
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
DAY 1 / DIVORCE RECOVERY ADVENT CALENDAR / Embrace your Emotions. youtu.be/tBu6rmAYhbc
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DAY 1 - ADVENT CALENDAR DIVORCE RECOVERY MEN OVER 40: Embrace Your Emotions
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 09/12/2024
Divorce, sometimes, is a necessary evil.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
Just sayin'!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
A win is a win....
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
A true American Success Story. Realize it, Be motivated by it, capitalize on it and profit on the distorted American Dream and eventually succumb to it. Great show.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
Ice, ice baby...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
I'm self-employed too. I went without health insurance for 10 years due to an unfair alimony court decision. I've had insurance through my new spouse for 2 years. Blessed and fortunate to have it now. I so get those who are self-employed and can't afford it. Such a reality.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 07/12/2024
We all have our moments, realizing them is a good start.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Punishment is so overrated. Staying in that state just takes up precious parking spaces in your brain that can be used for something better. I found that moving on, forgiveness or whatever you call it.... is priceless.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Wish I had this practice in my co-parenting phase. It would have been a lot easier. youtube.com/shorts/OGYTl...
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Hummmm?
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
But does Viagra help with dryness?
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Time to go out find your happiness and enjoy yourself with realistic expectations.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
What is a divorce card?
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Knowing when to say when is the ultimate aha moment!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Straight to the moon!!
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
Isn't there products or solutions for that?
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 06/12/2024
All my three kids are grown and gone now, but back in the day co-parenting with my ex was hard. The divorce was very negative and brutal. We still can't converse to this day. But, I knew that I 'love my kids more than I hated my ex'.... So I made it work with the 50/50 week on and off.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
Had a discussion with a friend yesterday - his ex has never let him go and still gives him grief when she can after 25 years. He has moved on and got married and all. She has not. I tend to think she is still in love somewhat for that long of a time or she would have let it go. Thoughts?
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
In my divorce recovery, I started dating way too early. After a few crash and burns, I figured that I needed to work on myself and heal from within not dating someone in order to heal. Tough lesson but a necessary one.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
It's amazing how we attract the same type of person we are divorced from. That happened to me quite a lot. I guess it was part of the process, recognizing what type of person was not good for me.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
Did the men start to thrive after a new Mrs/partner?
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
And no one around to pick up the dog poop in the backyard and unload the dishwasher.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
Building IKEA together.... youtube.com/shorts/d0W0S...
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IKEA Silence - A Couple's Unspoken Agreement || Divorce Recovery Men over 40
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
How would you move on with your life in that situation? Kinda negates the self-care part.
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Don't Pick the Scab Podcast - Healing is Not Overrated!! @divorcedmenover40.bsky.social · 05/12/2024
How awkward was dinner?
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