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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Nine months into parenthood, we’re talking AuDHD, motivation, task initiation, the maternal load, RSD, losing elections and the Parent Strike. New Divergently Parenting episode 🎙️ open.spotify.com/episode/20xl... #AuDHD #NeurodivergentParents

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

We've done another reel! In advance of our latest episode being published, we thought we'd give you a sneak preview. Here's Sonay talking about #MaternalMentalLoad when you're an #ADHDParent. Keep an eye on our socials for our latest episode, coming very soon!

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 13/05/2026

We say this every time, but we mean it—sorry it’s been so long! Childcare is a lot, especially if you’re AuDHD. In our latest episode, we talk late pregnancy, the first few months, and what we’ve been up to. #AuDHD #NeurodivergentParents #NewEpisode open.spotify.com/episode/59a7...

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Sonay Erten @sonay27.bsky.social · 08/03/2026

My first International Women’s Day as a mum and the first time I can start to answer whether women can have it all. The basic answer: no. I’ve had to return to some form of work earlier than I wanted to because there is very limited support for self-employed mums.

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 08/03/2026

Divergently Being celebrates all the incredible women all over the world, neurodiverse and neurotypical alike. #Rights #Justice #Action #GenderEquality

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 18/11/2025

I understand a certain millionaire politician from the limited company known as Reform is saying that SEN children, shouldn't have sensory accommodations in classrooms. He's specifically taken issue with ear defenders. I want to know why he has an issue with disabled kids, to be honest.

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 02/11/2025

New episode! Listen here on Spotify. I know it's intermittent, but pregnancy, coursework and life don't respect a podcasting schedule. open.spotify.com/episode/6ZIu... #AuDHD #Podcast #NewEpisode #DivergentlyMarried

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Mothin Ali @mothinali.bsky.social · 16/10/2025

All the different shades, all the races, all the religions, all the cultures added together, mixed in a melting pot, to make this beautiful land, even more beautiful! This is what makes me proud to be British!

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 18/10/2025

I see the chancellor is having another crack at making disabled people's lives worse again. Why should we have to pay for their financial mismanagement? www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/poli...

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Reeves plots £1bn cut to Motability scheme for disability benefit claimants cars

The scheme provides cars and tax breaks to more than 800,000 users

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Sonay Erten @sonay27.bsky.social · 18/10/2025

Had a great time attending Bromley Disability Pride this afternoon - a lovely afternoon of poems, songs, dances (including one where I joined in!) and an allotment talk. Also got to meet the Mayor of Bromley (a fellow neurodivergent lawyer) and chat about neurodiversity and disability inclusion.

Two people standing indoors against a green wall. The person on the left is wearing a green coat over a black outfit and white trainers. The person on the right is wearing ceremonial red and black robes with a white lace collar and a gold chain of office. Both are smiling at the camera.

A woman wearing a green coat and black top stands smiling in front of a banner for “Bromley Experts by Experience,” a Deaf and Disabled People’s Organisation. The banner lists types of disabilities and lived experiences supported, and there is a table in front with plates of apples and various packets of crisps

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 12/10/2025

Happy 2nd birthday to the hairiest member of our team, Sylvie!

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 10/10/2025

We here at Divergently Being support #WorldMentalHealthDay 2025 and would encourage anyone who needs help to reach out, and for the rest of us to help and #BeKind.

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wolfstirfry @wolfstirfry.bsky.social · 06/10/2025

Just watched this, and it really is enraging how much of a non-answer the government gave on improving #SEND provision for #Neurodivergent children. Absolutely infuriating. My wife and I are both #AuDHD with a baby on the way, and I worry what it will be like for us.

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 24/09/2025

So the Orange Wrecking Ball (thanks @scaramucci.bsky.social) says #Paracetamol causes #Autism. The MHRA, NICE, NHS, and anyone with a functioning brain says otherwise. We all know what causes autism. #Autistic parents.

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 17/09/2025

We've got a new episode up! It's been a while again, but when there's a baby on the way, and everything else, well, we try our best. In the meantime though... Listen here on Spotify: open.spotify.com/episode/4RF9... #AuDHD #Podcast #NewEpisode #DivergentlyMarried

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 16/09/2025

Two years to the day since our first podcast episode! The time flies by. For now, we're just working on our next episode which will be out soon!

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wolfstirfry @wolfstirfry.bsky.social · 12/09/2025

Absolute nonsense these new rules. www.bbc.com/news/article... Not ND-friendly in the slightest.

bbc.com

New Lowestoft school rules are overly strict, says parent

The rules around classroom behaviour include a countdown from three to one.

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 31/07/2025

We've got a new episode up! Sorry it's been a while, life got in the way a lot, but in this episode, we sort of explain why. Listen here on Spotify: open.spotify.com/episode/5Ga8... #AuDHD #Podcast #NewEpisode #DivergentlyMarried

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 21/06/2025

Sorry it's been a while, life sort of took over. Have a listen to our latest episode as to why... open.spotify.com/episode/0QBj...

open.spotify.com

We have an announcement - huge, the biggest!

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 26/05/2025

Watching Walking with Dinosaurs. Interrupted by the dog growling at the carcharodontosaurus. #gooddog

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 15/05/2025

NEW EPISODE! RFK Jr’s terrifying autism registry plans, Amnesty exposes DWP cruelty, RSD when others are hurt, and finding small joys (like rhubarb!) in tough times. 🎧 Listen now: open.spotify.com/episode/4NfE... #Podcast #ADHD #Autism #DisabilityJustice

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 02/05/2025

📹 Trusting Intuition: When to Dislike Someone In this reel from the latest episode, we talk about that gut feeling — and how neurodivergent folks often spot things others miss. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #Intuition #NeurodivergentWisdom #TrustYourself #DivergentlyBeing

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 01/05/2025

📹 Sonay’s PIP Update This clip from the episode shares Sonay’s personal PIP journey. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #PersonalIndependencePayment #DisabilitySupport #ADHDAwareness #DivergentlyBeing

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 30/04/2025

📹 MP’s Disappointing Response In this reel from our latest episode, we talk the disheartening reply to Sonay's email about the upcoming benefit changes, and what it reflects. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #PIP #DisabilityRights #NeurodivergentVoices #DivergentlyBeing

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 29/04/2025

📹 James Talks About the Change in Understanding In this clip from our newest episode, James reflects on the dangers of using outmoded diagnostic criteria. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #NeurodivergentGrowth #SelfDiscovery #ADHDAutism #DivergentlyBeing

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 28/04/2025

James talks about feeling a kinship with @mhairiblack.bsky.social due to a shared neurodivergence. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #Autism #ADHD

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 27/04/2025

📹 Life on the Travelator James and Sonay discuss how being AuDHD is somewhat like being on the Travelator from #Gladiators. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #NeurodivergentCouple #ADHDMoments #PodcastLife #DivergentlyBeing

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

📹 How James Writes Essays In this clip from the latest episode, James talks through his very ADHD writing process — chaos first, clarity later. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #ADHDStudyTips #EssayWriting #NeurodivergentStudent #DivergentlyBeing

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 25/04/2025

📹 Getting Stuck in Your Story This reel from the episode explores the stories we tell ourselves — and how they can trap us more than help us. 🎧 Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #SelfTalk #ADHDAwareness #Narratives #DivergentlyBeing

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Divergently Married @divergentlymarried.bsky.social · 24/04/2025

📹 Evil Genius Dog's New Trick In another reel from the pod, our evil genius dog has mastered a new trick, and we are suspiciously proud. Listen on Spotify: buff.ly/RConpYX #DogLife #NeurodivergentHumour #PuppyTricks #DivergentlyBeing

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