Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 20hwait so this really has nothing to do with Discord the company at all? this isn’t even one of their “partners”? it’s just a Discord bot, and the email addresses belong to Double Counter’s customers, not arbitrary Discord users, so it’s a deliberately misleading headline 010
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 21hthank you, i really appreciate your response 🩷 things always feel worse at 2am, during the day it's easier to believe that things can get better 010
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 07/10/2026i am struggling so much these days, i don’t even know where to begin to talk about it everything feels overwhelming and bad and it’s hard to believe that things will ever get better 120
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 07/10/2026it’s not clear what the connection is between that and the slight probability imbalance of doing something like random_u64() % 10. the article is correct that random_u64() is almost never what you want but i don’t see how that difference matters all that much to fuzzing 010
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 06/10/2026when is bluesky gonna get around to adding the thread count UI to this thread 😹 020
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 04/10/2026to be honest i don’t know how to identify unreal engine 5 on sight, and i never played RuneScape before, but i’m actually really enjoying Dragonwilds even if it is often visually a bit too dark 010
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 30/09/2026yeah this is the key. but if you’re taking an arbitrary type then it’s probably Unpin and so the Pin wrapper doesn’t do anything. requiring the caller to hand you a Pin<Arc<MustPin<T>>> is just too awkward for general usage 000
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 30/09/2026after thinking about it, i think something like StableDeref is still the right way to do this generically, since Pin only has this invariant on the Pin::new_unchecked() method. Pin really only works when the self-reference is inside the pin, not outside it. 100
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 30/09/2026which opioids did you try? if you tried something that isn't a mu agonist then i wouldn't expect it to work. if you've tried oxycodone that is a mu agonist so it would be a good test 110
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 29/09/2026there's emerging evidence that buprenorphine can help folks with BPD. it's going to be hard to convince doctors to actually try this, but bpd.fyi has information on it if anyone wants to trybpd.fyibpd.fyi — BPD Treatment Self-Advocacy (Patient-Run)bpd.fyi is a patient-run resource for people with Borderline Personality Disorder exploring treatment options and self-advocacy. Documents lived experience… 120
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 29/09/2026i'm actually wondering why you use Pin at all, since you aren't exposing the pin to callers. similarly i'm wondering what issue you ran into before adding MustPin, given that callers don't see the Arc at all and only get &T 110
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 29/09/2026poking around the related crates right now i also just found a crate `owning_ref` that more directly does this same thing. Neither crate uses Pin either, instead they use traits that encode the notion that "the Deref is stable even if the pointer is moved" 100
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 29/09/2026have you seen the yoke crate? it can be used to solve this same problem, though it's designed to be used with zero-copy deserialization of data. i tried rewriting your example with it though I had to add a `T: 'static` bound play.rust-lang.org?version=stab...play.rust-lang.orgRust PlaygroundA browser interface to the Rust compiler to experiment with the language 110
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 29/09/2026i’m not sure this actually caused a problem but there’s nothing stopping the closure given to project() from returning unrelated &'static data. that does break the assumption that ptr points inside val but since it’s 'static, ptr is still valid for as long as val is 120
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 29/09/2026this motivated me to go figure out where iOS Safari hides Page Zoom and knocking it down 2 steps makes it a lot better 011
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 29/09/2026it’s a little hard to read this on mobile since not a lot of content fits on the screen. your fonts are a tad on the large size, your body text line height is really tall, and your code font looks to be even larger than your body text. any chance of shrinking it a bit? 220
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 28/09/2026everyone’s focusing on the aro part but i gotta say, Rain’s description where “it hurts, but in a good way” makes me think of BPD 130
Reposted by Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌(CHECK PINNED) Deer in Places they Shouldn't Be @deershouldnt.bsky.social · 28/09/2026idk if these chefs know what they're doing 424835
Reposted by Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌Kate @katef.bsky.social · 25/09/2026in no small part it was fun because of people who are no longer here 1353
Reposted by Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌Cynthia 🐈 @cynthia.dev · 25/09/2026this randomly reminded me of a friend of mine saying I should open The Catgirl Protocol port 3 on my server to let ppl connect to `:3` Port 3 which is conveniently no longer assigned to anything by IANA since they deassigned compressnet in Feb 2025 I just don't know what to put on that port yet 🥴 291
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 25/09/2026oh interesting. i’ve been wondering about trying to read the whiteboards too i read a bit but the text wasn’t that easy to see. i’ll have to try what you just said 2100
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 25/09/2026there’s a photo on top of the TV? the TV is so small how do you even see it? 1100
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 24/09/2026melatonin pills should only be used if you have a circadian rhythm disorder and you’re trying to shift it. if this headline is relatable, go talk to a sleep specialist. 121
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 24/09/2026you can get a lot of the way by writing the public API first and just stubbing out all the impls with todo!() 000
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 23/09/2026i didn’t cancel Nitro when Discord first announced the age stuff, because they actually heard feedback and paused it and promised to do better. i didn’t have high hopes but this is worse than i expected. time to cancel Nitro 093
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 23/09/2026Consider Phlebas, it’s the first of the Culture series by Iain M Banks. the whole series is definitely worth reading 020
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 23/09/2026excession is so good! i think about that one pretty regularly i wish i could recapture the experience of reading it for the first time 030
Reposted by Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌cinnamon 🐇 🏳️⚧️ @plushie.holdings · 22/09/2026the lesbian polycule was NOT happy when i said that we should absorb some hunks 0774
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 21/09/2026the For You feed knows me pretty well, every time i load it the first post is a photo of a deer 030
Reposted by Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌Trashcamell 🏳️⚧️>>ASC @trashcamell.bsky.social · 17/09/2026Have you met a deer?? 2476101
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 17/09/2026i’m actually kind of surprised that all this AI stuff hasn’t already produced a good way to auto-transcript that can identify speakers 000
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 16/09/2026hmm after poking around if i actually open it in Apple Podcasts it has an automatically-transcribed transcript but it doesn’t identify the speakers (and of course there’s no guarantee about accuracy either) 110
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 16/09/2026is there any chance at getting a transcript? i really struggle with audio-only content but i’d love to be able to read this conversation 100
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 15/09/2026you have much more divine spark than i do at least 000
Lily, Lesbian Deer 🏳️⚧️🦌 @deer.lgbt · 15/09/2026it’s such a bummer though i was excited for a moment to be able to share the professor layton games with my kids 020
