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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 12/10/2026

As someone who also struggles with this, it doesnt always work, but usually what helps me to calm down is to tell myself that most people dont give a crap, so i dont need to be so tense. It's hard when they stare daggers, though. 😓

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

It's the same thing in the reverse too.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

Taken in the context of its entire history, there's no implication that the democrat party has ever been anything other than a tool to pacify and marginalize everyone further left than it.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

Yes, and incidentally that is exactly why I take issue with referring to severely cruel people as "monsters". It's a thought-terminating cliché, and it's the same exact way those cruel people think about others in order to justify themselves.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

You're thinking a bit too much in systems. Anarchism isnt about creating a utopia. Anarchists play an important role in calling out problems with existing social structures. There can never be a perfect way to organize society, but that means we gotta look for ways to make it better, not give up.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

That monstrous quality is just as profoundly human as our general capacity for empathy is. Both of these things contrast us against the rest of the animal kingdom.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Fully agree with you. Slight tangent, but i was recalling how I once thought I was the exceptional man in my life who did care about women, until I eventually realized that I was a woman...

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

I used to be into competitive smash bros and those people genuinely were the reason i left that community behind.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Shou Fukan would never say this.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

I might have misjudged your intentions. I was on a blocking spree related to posts about forcefem around the time i first replied to you, and i was seeing red and probably shouldnt have tried to talk to anybody on socmed. 😓

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

There's a silver lining to the indifference of nature, it also means that in a sort of way, the world accepts you as a part of it without judgement.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

It's the language, and the way it's being framed, as if transness is somehow better than being cis, as if being more feminine is somehow better than being less feminine on a fundamental level, and as if cis people are just 'eggs' waiting to be 'cracked'. Feels gross, I dunno how else to explain it.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

"Oh you want to murder me? Well I don't want to be murdered. Can we settle for half-murdering me as a compromise?"

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

I swear folks like this seem to think in such an abstract way about politics, as if it's a little video game with units you move around instead of real life with real people. Stinks of privilege.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

I deconstructed from mormonism only to see liberals act the same way about voting as the delusional cult members act about praying.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

You either didn't care to learn why Israel as a state was founded, or you do and support it as a colonial project. In either case, trying to seriously engage with you would be fruitless. Israel's existence is Israel's fault. States dont have a right to exist.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Well let me just say that *as a queer trans woman* I am fucking glad that I wasn't groomed into it by people like you who act like creeps about it.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

It wasnt done out of spite for the youth, it was done to exclude people of color from getting educated as easily as white men. Allowing such a thing would have been a threat to the white supremacist hegemony.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

It's the fucking meme where one side wants human rights and the other doesn't and you're standing in the middle with a sign that says "compromise?"

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

This one killed me. I'm slain. 😭

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

The question of why is pretty easy to answer, in truth. It's because they think it's a good thing for us to be powerless and victimized. They always shift to denial if you call them out on it, but a defense of the status quo ultimately boils down to that. It reeks of bullshit.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Vincent/Cloud hybrid mix... The Clincent

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

The entire country has been a colonial imperial project from its founding. There is no 'fixing' that.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

I mean... That is still very transmisogynistic of them to do.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Personally, I would never wish for such a thing, and if i possesed such an object and knew it really functioned, then I would try to destroy it.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

You forgot about killing them. That's another option.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Gives the same energy as the term "minor attracted person" 💀💀💀

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I mean people like this make me feel like violence is the answer and it takes a lot to make me ever want that. 😓

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I would go further than that. I think being a fan is generally unhealthy and needlessly worse than simply liking a thing.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I'm so sorry... My experiences are similar to what you described too... I hate this fucking shit, reliving my traumas because people wanna crawl out of the woodwork to defend the type of shit that has made myself and many other victims unable to be functioning people. It makes me want to explode.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

It's not about revenge, it's about the fact that he's a danger to those around him. Also, what you'd rather have your abuser do has no relevance here. You dont get to speak on behalf of his victim.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Whle I understand, please don't do that... 😓

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

No. Wrong. He kept it a secret on purpose. There's no good intention behind that, the same way there isnt any behind rape. He elevated himself to a position of social status where he could have access to more potential victims.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

You wanna share a space with a rapist? Be my guest. I'm going to stay far away and tell everyone else to do the same, because anyone around him could be a potential future victim. There's no reason why anyone should trust him. We dont owe him anything.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

This is literally the worst thing that is possible to do to another person. Be so serious right now. You're foaming at the mouth to defend this vile shit. The contents of a literal septic tank are worth more than a rapist.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

I suppose it might, but speaking as someone who is super into sentimental fantasy stories, I don't like bad ones. 😭

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

The sentiment is that we're living in a hegemony that is run by rapists for rapists, and that the entire system enables and protects these behaviors to such an extent that people are getting fed up and revolutionary about it. Full stop, the world is absolutely better with less rapists alive in it.

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Darcie @darciedoran.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Depending on what they did, I dont really care if they live a better life. Sometimes people are just irredeemable, and the only proper answer to the problem of their existence is death. To suggest otherwise just makes me think you havent seen the depths of just how truly evil people can be.

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