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Branduff

@daddyfarmer.bsky.social
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PNW. Divorced dad. Fur. Used to be known as bear, or bear bear. My life was unmade over the last few years. Now I’m just a Homesteader on a farm without a family to homestead with.

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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
Seems like I’m too old to sleep on couches anymore. Boo. It’s going to be a very long day.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
In other news; Looks like I’m home alone Friday and Saturday this week.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 23/06/2026
Today I performed the final duty of a son; laying the remains of your mother to rest. It was a beautiful day. You’ll rest right where you wanted mom; bathed in the beam of the lighthouse - just like you asked. There are no words to express the regret I feel for being away the last 27 years.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 04/06/2026
CW: suicide I lost my son to suicide in 2021. Last night, an old coworker died by suicide. People in that darkness often cannot see the love around them. But it is there. And when they are gone, that love has nowhere to go but grief. Please stay. There are other options. Change is still possible.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 31/05/2026
I haven’t had a vacation that wasn’t dealing with death or a major crisis since 2021. Maybe 2027 will be my year to have a real vacation again.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 17/05/2026
Okay the stupid rooster anime is a lot better than I thought it would be. lol.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 20/04/2026
It feels like the universe is systematically removing all joy from my life. Food. Relationships. Family. Home. Career. Sex. People say that the universe is just making room for all the joy to come - sadly it feels like I’m just circling the drain.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 12/04/2026
Found my sticker!!
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 09/04/2026
It’s a lonely life.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 06/04/2026
Baking you a cake for your birthday kiddo. You would have been 29 today. We miss you to our bones. I’m sorry I couldn’t protect you from yourself.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
More photos of my magical mainecoon familiar.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 29/03/2026
Posting some photos of past travels.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
Home alone with food poisoning. Yay.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 12/02/2026
Mmm. 3 hours of sleep. Now to drive for 3 hours. Work a full day. Then 3 hours home.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
#furryart #nsfw-ish
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
#furryart #nsfw-ish
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 04/02/2026
Posting an old #fursona of mine brought back to life.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/01/2026
Whelp - time to open carry. Friends who have problems with guns - get over it. People are literally being executed in the streets by the government. It’s time to defend your life and the life of your loved ones. Arm yourselves.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/12/2025
Happy Christmas mom. First Christmas without you here. The family has fallen apart without you there as the mortar to hold it all together. I regret not spending more time with you as an adult.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 23/12/2025
Year in review. Divorce Mom (only parent) got sick Mom died Managed out at work 2026 starts with a new job. I want to be hopeful but after 4 consecutive shit years, I’m just trying to brace myself for the body blows.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 12/11/2025
I love that the White House is turning into a garish facsimile of a Parisian whore house. Can we let the Canadians burn it down again please?
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 11/11/2025
It’s not super surprising. He’s on a corporate payroll from a donations perspective. Again - the party of the wealthy masquerading as a party of the people. Republicans. Democrats. No different - both parties are bought and paid for. www.followthemoney.org/entity-detai...
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 10/11/2025
My magical familiar. #MaineCoon
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Dubbz Beaw @dubbzbeaw.bsky.social · 09/11/2025
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 05/10/2025
PSA: you can’t have principle debates or discussions with fascists. All you can do is punch them in the face until they go away.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 17/09/2025
I have a lot of internalized disgust for what I see in a mirror. Maybe that means that I’m not ready to be social yet? I don’t know. All I do know is that I don’t want to subject anyone else to someone as gross as me.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
I wonder if Melissa Hortman and Charlie Kirk are having an interesting conversation in the afterlife.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 23/07/2025
Projecting this out. 1.1 billion dollar loss in the first quarter of the Trump admin. First year 4.4 billion. Year 4: 17.6 billion is losses. Hope those oligarchs on their board of directors are getting that they are wanted out of the administration they enabled.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 23/07/2025
Rest in Peace Mr. Osbourne. You inspired generations of musicians and changed music as we know it. Thank you for all the nights as a teen in my bedroom listening to your music. You helped me through a lot of shit. 🖤🥀Thank you. You will be missed. You’ve more than earned your rest 🥀🖤
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 22/07/2025
Transmen need kilts. #ftm and #Transmen - If you think a kilt looks too feminine on you - you’re wearing it waay too low. Your navel goes under the waist of the kilt - the fabric hangs from the top of your hip-bones and the pleats downplay curves. If it’s accentuating hip bones - it’s too low.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 21/07/2025
All those AI agents really help with cyber security response huh?! Dolts.
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Robin Bradford @tuphlos.bsky.social · 12/07/2025
Oh.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 11/07/2025
1. I am blind on the left side of my head and this significantly impacts how I take in and react to information. 2. Been to Burning Man 3 times. 3. Own 2 Unimog projects and a decommissioned ambulance 4. Ran a house for wayward girls.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 04/07/2025
Happy Birthday America. I wish I could be happy for my country - but we are infected with a cancerous form of unchecked capitalism. Capital has been elevated to a higher importance than people. Growth that’s pursued for growth sake is cancerous. We are riddled with tumors that we call oligarchs.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/06/2025
“One of the greatest human failings is the preference of being right rather than being effective.” This quote struck me this morning and has given me an opportunity to ruminate - thought I’d pass it along.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 18/06/2025
Back in the PNW. Apparently I have to be social this summer. While I do look forward to being social - I do not look forward to having to recount the “wtf happened to you?!” story repeatedly. I should just summarize with: sometimes the universe hits the “life reset button” for you.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 01/06/2025
Got laid off the day before mom’s funeral. Yay. Wish it didn’t feel like my life was ending too. #fml #EverythingIsGoneNow
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 26/05/2025
The closer I get to 50, the more I am realizing how true this photo really is.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 25/05/2025
Double dose of melatonin tonight. Can’t feel if I’m not awake.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 25/05/2025
Asked an AI why I hurt so much this weekend. Got a scary accurate response. Hopefully this will help me reason through the emotion better. It’s nice to feel heard and validated tho, even if only by a machine.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
They say hyper independence is a maladaptive coping mechanism to trauma. My therapist says that I have very good reasons for being this way, and the last few years of experiences have only reinforced the pattern. That my ability to pick people good for me is broken - so this is how I survive.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
Ultimately, All, that internalized abuse turned to cancer and mental illness. The wisdom she teaches me is to remove the toxic influences from my life.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
Mom still teaches wisdom, even after her passing. She wrote to me in her final letter that love is the precious of all emotions. Self love is equally if not more important. She always saw the best in the others, even if they were abusive towards her.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
These experiences have given me a new perspective on people in my life and my ability to vet out toxic folks.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
Going through the hardest chapters of my life so far and I’ve noticed a repeated occurrence - when the going gets tough and I need support the most - no one is there.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
I’m forced to accept that some people who chose to stay in my life have only done so because I’m a way for them to make ends meet financially. If you only talk to me/think of me when you need money then don’t think of / talk to me anymore. I don’t need more false friends and fake relationships ☹️
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 24/05/2025
My therapist informed me today that I am apparently, doing this the most difficult way. Sounds like I’ll be very emotionally distant with everything for awhile.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 22/05/2025
Been so stupid busy with personal crisis this year. I think my friends have had more sex with my partner than I have this year. Fml :( In other news/ uranium glass.
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Branduff @daddyfarmer.bsky.social · 17/05/2025
I feel like the last 5 years have removed at least 10 years from my life span. Maybe more. Mom died at 67. I don’t expect I’ll do much better. I’ll just be keep toiling away trying to rack up positive Karma. Maybe it’ll help my next life suck less.
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