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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 8h

[cissexual voice] sex and gender are different!! sex is real and can’t be changed while gender is made up :)

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Rosh 🧡 @mothbutchism.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

trans women are also affected by misogyny, like, famously. It is imperative to include trans women and think of trans women in these discussions about misogyny. Stop using "afab" as a replacement for "affected by misogyny" I'm going to scream.

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Noah @noahwaybabes.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

no I don’t want to get pregnant, no I don’t want to “maybe stop testosterone one day”, no I don’t want to date a lesbian, no I don’t want to come to your sapphic and genderqueer event, no I’m not a “masc”. you do you but don’t act like I’m regressive for not wanting any part of it

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

and I’m not even in as bad poverty as I have been, I have been worse off by far, but it’s still not enough!!

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

if it’s not the dysphoria ‘never gonna make it’ it’s the poverty one I swear to god

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

can’t afford driving lessons can’t afford to live near any kind of inclusive community and can’t afford to get taxis back from events that run until after the last bus and train have stopped how am I meant to not be lonely

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skeeter devilpenis @guypussy.bsky.social · 27/07/2026

i do not identify as transmasc because i am a man. i am not on the masculine spectrum i am just a man

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I do occasionally shop on amazon and I use their wishlist feature to track shit I want to remember to buy elsewhere so I figured it would have been tracking something but I guess not lol

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Courtney Love Lies Bleeding 🫦 @hexadecibelle.fyi · 07/10/2026

🇬🇧 version: trying to contact your GP or GIC

screenshot from Control Resonant, with the text “Cannot Transition During Combat” above the player character

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Stellbound: Stellraiser II @antlervel.vet · 04/10/2026

Also, and I cannot stress this enough, “valid” means fucking nothing. It is a nonsense word. It is a thought terminator. It is a padlock on the inside of the closet

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mimi 🔞 [ team rub + working on cmsns 🎨] @notsoknightly.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

it is your monthly reminder that when speaking to/about trans men (and especially when talking about one particular trans man), to stop misgendering/de-gendering trans men by calling them transmasc instead of the trans men they are

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Revenge of Princesscore @princessrevenge.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

ive said it before but i think “u dont have to be trans to transition” is so much more helpful than “u dont have to transition to be trans” bc it prioritizes agency and self actualization over ruminating on identity indefinitely

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

testogel is definitely an option, and depending on whether the issue is doing injections yourself or injections as a whole, my nebido is done once every 3 months by a nurse and I don't even have to see the needle while it happens bc it's in my ass, so that might work for you?

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francis @dilfkink.kindboys.online · 04/10/2026

"it's valid to not transition!" kills. it kills people. please stop saying this shit. you are allowing suicidal people to languish in the closet and repress who they really are and want they truly need, all to soothe the insecure anxieties of cissexuals who aren't part of the cool T slur club. stop.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

do you ever think about how you’re going to spend your entire life poor and unloved

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

and this isn’t even just stuff like “you can identify as female and still be a trans man” or “you don’t have to meet the dsm or icd criteria to be autistic” but also stuff like “every subculture I classify as alt is just about music and politics” or “working class is when you have a northern accent”

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

genuinely don’t get why people are so intent on redefining groups to make them into whatever they want it to be

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

got blocked for this one. cis people in the labour party who claim to be allies do not give more of a shit about us than the rest of labour, exhibit 5839292

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

and even if more figures in the party are neutral than are invested in being anti-trans, the neutral people aren’t going to put in the effort to reverse the anti-trans policies and culture.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

does labour have a history of supporting lgbt+ rights or gay rights? because I’m not sure they as a party have ever been active supporters of trans rights, or that it’s an infiltration. labour is institutionally transphobic and the best we have had from them is neutrality towards us.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

genuinely not trying to be aggro but what would it take for you to decide that the labour party has become incompatible with supporting trans rights? surely there comes a point where asking labour to support trans rights feels like asking reform to stop being racists

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Phil McDuff @mcduff.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

A) focused on new builds only. Gross. B) reducing the deposit requirements is trying to work around the fact that the core problem - house prices are too high - is too hard for these bags of wet sand to deal with.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

my lack of cock is a cosmic joke

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I don’t want to talk shit about bottom surgery when I know it does do enough for many people but I just know what is currently possible wouldn’t be enough for me. I need a penis functionally identical to a cis man’s. I can’t get that, so it’d be a lot of pain and time to still be suffering.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

having a penis would genuinely fix like 45% of my problems and I hate that it will never happen

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lurking tiger @quixin.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

we all need to be more comfortable acknowledging that queerness is a lived experience and a material reality and the way other random people view you and the relationship you're in does actually matter and has real implications to how you navigate the world

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francis @dilfkink.kindboys.online · 24/09/2026

i have infinitely more in common with my muslim neighbors than i do right wing zombies who feign care for those of us they wish AIDS would have eliminated

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

there are plenty of pictures of ewan mcgregor with his shirt off I don’t need ai slop to see it

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

google image searched ewan mcgregor chest hair for normal reasons and there’s ai generated results. what are we doing here lads?

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

please tell me this wasn’t just me, I didn’t see the original video for ages and people kept saying it on like cute animals and characters they like and in my defence mashallah would also have fit there

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

getting made fun of again for how I thought my shayla was a meme mispronunciation/misspelling of mashallah for literal months >:(

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francis @dilfkink.kindboys.online · 21/09/2026

if you say "transmasc" in the same sentence as "trans woman" im fucking stealing something from your house

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𝔰𝔞𝔩𝔢𝔪 ☾ @w0lfertinger666.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

"WATCH THIS WATCH THIS IT HAS QUEER CHARACTERS!!!" is it good? .... "IT HAS QUEER CHARACTERS"

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

feels like pretty 50/50 these days whether or not people misgender me but idk if I look enough like a woman that it’s understandable or if they can tell I’m a transsexual and want to be mean

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

you look like you play the slightly dorky childhood friend who grew up into a potential love interest in an early 2000s sitcom

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

I hate landlords I hate renting I just want to have a home where I can both stay and afford to live

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

12 days until I have to leave my home and start paying £110 more a month to live in a place I don’t want to be in

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

if he’s undergone any transition-related surgery in the last 5 years, he would probably have needed to disclose it to be able to be signed off work for it

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

that might be what they’re arguing but it’s not the logic behind it. the pivot is in the argument, but not their logic at all. they remain entirely consistent logically and agreeing that their logic is right in some contexts is bad.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

I have to go up two floors to use the nearest disabled toilet at work now too btw

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

I don’t think this will be enough to make any of you give a shit about trans men but this guy would be able to survive while hunting for a new job if every bullshit “gotcha” you demons pull came with a payout

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

anyone who pulls the “errr what about trans men?? so you want a scary hairy MAN in the women’s bathroom???” owes this guy specifically fifty quid

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

before anyone calls me stupid: I am not american and also was 3 when 9/11 happened

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

read the quoted post first without clicking through and until I read the quote post I genuinely thought for a second this was about charlie kirk and how everyone came together to dunk on that fuckwit

quoted post from senator elissa slotkin: But that feeling of a shared bond among all Americans in the early weeks after the attack is something I'm so glad I got to experience.
Because it's the thing that I think we're missing the most today.

quoted with from erik hane: there are young people on this site that maybe don't remember or weren't alive for this so I just want to say:
this straight-up did not happen, and it's one of the most pernicious pieces of mythmaking in American culture. what happened was extremely vitriolic nationalism and insane
Islamophobia 1/3

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

if I live long enough, I will ensure I kill myself before I lose any capacity. I will not be able to prepare anyone in my life for that decision because they would then be legally implicated.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

for me and many others hospice/“care home” incarceration is second only to psych ward incarceration. this would have been our only other option.

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thom (again) @cyberneticrat.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

their logic is that cis women being subjected to the existence of anyone who doesn’t look or isn’t sufficiently like one of them is a violation of their dignity. it’s not highlighting any hypocrisy to say “yes you are right, it’s very scary and dangerous to be subjected to the presence of The Other”

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lurking tiger @quixin.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

the trans man gotcha would have never worked because it assumes that legislators would go "ohhh fuck you got me ohhhhhhhh we cant do these laws anymore you owned me on twitter" and not "anyone that makes cis women uncomfortable by appearance alone should stop participating in public life"

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