iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 12/02/2026

Just an IT engineer making his way to the office on public transport.

A man, wearing glasses and a blue jacket, standing on a train platform with the early morning sun in his face.

Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 24/10/2025

Torn Current I drift where silence bruises the air, where wanting is a blade that never cuts clean. Two tides pull— neither merciful. One whispers stay. The other devours. I am what’s left when the body can’t choose which drowning to call home.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 16/10/2025

I'm still figuring myself out. … But at least I'm still here, still trying.

I'm still figuring myself out.
Still waking up every day, doing my best to hold it together, to show up, to care — even when it goes unnoticed or unappreciated.
I'm not looking for validation.
I'm just trying to live in a way that feels real - honest, imperfect, human.
Some days I nail it.
Some days I don't.
But at least I'm still here, still trying.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 16/10/2025

Time folds, a slow wing, what I was keeps dissolving, becoming the sky.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

Forever grateful for artists who soundtrack our lives. Bentley Robles, your music has been on repeat through the highs and lows—esp. Kiss My Friends + Chaotic Erotica. Seeing you live & sharing a moment was pure magic. The world is brighter (and louder) with you in it.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 21/08/2025

Fascism doesn't announce itself with a press release. It arrives in quiet, accumulating permissions: Deportations without due process. Book bans. Attacks on queerness. Normalized cruelty. Weaponized silence.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 08/06/2025

My friend Eddie is visiting from Texas. He’s a wine guy. And he’s currently going through every bottle in our collection. He’s like a kid in a candy store. 😂

Three people and a German shepherd with a lot of wine bottles on the floor as Eddie, who’s wearing a blue shirt, goes through every bottle and reorganizes our wine collection.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 06/06/2025

🌈✨ Pride Means Being Seen ✨🌈 Got my ears pierced this week — not just for the look, but to reclaim something I lost long ago; 45 years of blending in. Today, I chose to be seen. #Pride #QueerHealing #VisibilityMatters #BeSeen #ComingHomeToMyself

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 04/04/2025

Despite being very far from home, and missing those we love, it was a good first day in Mexico City.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 02/04/2025

Took a “me day” in SF. Coffee, a book, rain by the bridge. Found the Wave Organ—haunting and beautiful. Still sorting through heavy stuff, but today I gave myself space. And for now, that’s enough. Special thanks to my friend Miguel for the book recommendation and those who checked in. 🫶🏻

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 25/03/2025

I picked up Let Them by Mel Robins this weekend, after a long search at many bookstores to find it, I happened upon it at the bookstore at SFO. Very excited to read this!

A book titled the let them theory by Mel Robbins

The very first page of the book by Mel Robbins, the let them theory

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 24/03/2025

Finally spotted some pride in Texas. 🏳️‍🌈

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 18/02/2025

2025 has been relentless—loss, heartbreak, and a mind that won’t quiet. Meta only fed the spiral, cozying up to fascism while I spiraled deeper. I’m stepping back to breathe, to exist without the noise. If you’re still here, thank you. Just trying to find my way through the dark.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 14/01/2025

Reflecting. Recentering. Reprioritizing. Healing. Growing.

A statement, which read “The last few weeks have given me a lot to reflect on, especially about which relationships are important in my life. I’ve realized the importance of mutual connections—those that truly fill both cups and therefore, I will be prioritizing these connections while also giving myself space to heal and grow.

I’m taking this time as an opportunity to focus on my mental health and take some much-needed time to recenter myself before I start exploring new career opportunities.

Thank you so much to everyone who’s reached out to check on me during this challenging time. Your kindness and support have meant more than I can say.”

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 11/01/2025

Feeling heartbroken and overwhelmed. Losing my job and navigating so many emotions at once has been crushing. I’m grateful for Chris and the friends who’ve shown me love, but healing feels so far away. Trying to take it one day at a time, even when the weight feels unbearable.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 09/01/2025

Trying to motivate myself. This poem was written by ChatGPT.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 06/01/2025

First boo I’m reading for 2025: The Ethical Slut, 3rd edition.

A picture of a book: The Ethical Slut, 3rd edition

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 24/12/2024

I encourage you to copy and re-post this. National Suicide Prevention Hotline Call: 0800 689 5652 (UK) 1-800-273-8255 (USA) 1.833.456.4566 (Canada) #Text988 Call before you fall!! #MentalHealthMatters

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 22/12/2024

What a fun way to kick off the week before Christmas! Jinx and Dela Holiday spectacular on Thursday, followed by Golden Girls Live Friday.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 14/12/2024

Didn’t get an alert where I am. I’m near Half Moon Bay. I did. However wake to a loud bang as my deck heater fell over (deck is over the bedroom).

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 12/12/2024

Right there with Hitler, so he’s in good company.

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 03/12/2024

Ace (left) and Gracie—my babies!

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Kevin (He/Him) @compnerdkev.bsky.social · 01/12/2024

As suggested by my roast, I should post more pictures of my fur babies: Ace and Gracie! Ace (8) is the darker colored and Gracie (5) is black and tan.