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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 13/10/2026

If someone is serious about housing you your homelessness wouldn’t be a game to them…

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Verity was soooo good! Must watch! Go see! 😊 #verity

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

True friendship is never performative

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

When you don’t lie about who you are - your answers remain the same.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Before you tell someone to follow their dream.. support their dream - buy something.. just because, and go tell a friend to tell a friend…

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Nothing reminds you that you’re homeless like thinking about how you’re going to decorate your flat festively.. with no flat to decorate..

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Someone has literally deleted my housing application whilst I’m homeless… 😤

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

The weirdest flex is people trying to present you as a bad person for not leading people on that you’re not into…

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

The weirdest flex is when people get mad at you for not pretending to be someone you’re not

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Sometimes its not because you’ve had enough, but that you haven’t had enough…

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Grateful to actually have a bed to sleep in tonight 😩😩

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

If anyone thinks they have someone who is ok with the less than bare minimum they have to offer then let them go do that.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Don’t let anyone who doesn’t think you’re deserving of somewhere to live tell you that they love you..

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

What gives you hope?: “My narcissistic abusers said they were done with me and leaving me on the streets to fend for myself… and i’m actually quite good at fending for myself, I always put me first so I never let myself down or find myself at the mercy of what an abuser thinks I should have”

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

It’s ok for more than one person to be “perfect” -unlike those who feel they can only distribute admiration to one person at a time as if we’re in some sort of praise and admiration shortage, if you’re not in breach of a romantic relationship it’s ok to find more than 1 type of person attractive.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

I mean why wouldn’t you want to make it easier for a homeless person to get to work and get off the streets?

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

One thing I am grateful for is when narcissistic abusers reveal the lengths they go to try and prevent me getting to work to earn a liveable wage… without me having to say anything.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

Why isn’t there an unfollow button for everyone you follow?

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

When you were thinking about treating yourself to a Sunday Roast - but remember you’re homeless with no actual income so need every penny you can get.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

When i’m on the field and calling myself a “player”, I hope I don’t get so low bar and bottom of the barrel that I start to compete with the homeless

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

I’m not saying i’m bitter but I walked past a cake shop today and it reminded me that I didn’t get a cake for my birthday this year…

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Trying to compare and compete with me as jobless homeless man was the greatest compliment and prestige you could have ever given me - it’s literally making people stop to find out why 😅

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Oh, and don’t forget to actually behave and also treat people like you’re a “gentleman”

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 28/08/2026

Some people will never support you because acknowledging your work requires them to acknowledge your greatness and they’re still trying to convince themselves (and others) that they’re greater than you.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Sure, why aren’t you already doing that?

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

I need the clearest mind to get me pff the streets and into a home asap - distractions can be clouding and confusing..

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Who would like to extend my stay at Zedwell hostel? By any amount of days they can afford? Love you long time, love you more than cooked food, love you more than my imaginary instagram boyfriend…

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

When you’ve spent all day in bed because you haven’t slept in a bed for months 😩

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

I don’t know why ppl get on their high horse about someone they’re stalking watching porn - what would they do of that person was fucking? Woke up everyday to see them being slammed by some 6’9 8” hunk?! 🤣😅

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

Its getting to the point where every time someone tells me “i’m strong” - I wish I didn’t have to be…

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

I never asked anyone to save me - I said if you’re not saving me get out of my way because I need to save myself.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

Accepting that you cant manage people well and you’re struggling to keep everyone afloat is a noble thing to do.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

In a dog eat dog world, little room is left for a “community”

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

Need to work out how £700 can get me a new flat within a couple weeks 😩😩

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

Me, still searching for my new dream flat

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

Do you ever get the urge to unfollow everyone on social media and start from scratch just to preserve whats left of your mental health..

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

When you wish you could just go cook yourself some curry chicken.. 😩😩

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

There really is no point in going back and forth over it - Nathan Cofnas was fired for being racist, and producing work that had no scientific or intelligence lead (ironically) data behind it, and he’s mad about it. #nathancofnas #cambridgeuniversity #jasonarday

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 15/08/2026

I think someone said it right, its not racism its jealousy, because when you are excellent yourself, racist or not, excellence in others isn’t something you feel you need to take down.

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Cordayne Wander @cjwan.bsky.social · 15/08/2026