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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

Do i try and stay lob carb and make a low carb piece of garlic bread or do i go fries with a mayo based sauce? It’s my birthday week LMAO. and I do want to look cute for photos. Tell me illegal garlic bread. Thanks.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

If you’re a therapist who specializes with kids lmk. I need a second opinion about it all.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

Okay I’m done. I just need a break from work and parenting. I’d kill for a weekend in New Orleans with just my husband. 😭 but my mother in law can’t even take both kids down to her living space at the same time. Lol she has to do 1 at a time. And I’m like WHY.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

So we just had like an end of the night debrief of the convo today. And like I pointed out what I felt weird about and he was like totally valid. I see how that could be weird. Um. And I speaking out loud about it after a few hours alone of processing life. I feel Leo is safe. But I know something

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

We are also watching the Shane Gillis SNL episode rn. Happy to say I’ve hated EVERY TIME he’s been on and I’ve always thought he was a deplorable human being. Show style of stand up is so Dan Soder wannabe. And his sketches/acting are AWFUL.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 14/10/2026

Any chance I get to make a joke about a Rick Jackson commercial I will (unless he wins and I will need to move out of this state lol). My husband will go to the bathroom and I pause the TV on a commercial and I’m like “oh, thank god your back. You really need to see this commercial” 😭🤣

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 13/10/2026

The kids were playing uno and Lucy finally won and Leo hugged her and told her he loved her and was proud. 🥹

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 13/10/2026

The psychologist said that he seems really well adjusted and doesn’t seem to be experiencing anxiety. He is super imaginative and he never stops talking lol she doesn’t think that anything happened and something could have sparked something from what happened at the old school. They are going to

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 13/10/2026

My husband said drop off was fine. And they both ran into school despite Lucy declaring she never wants to go to school again this am. Lol we are meeting with the school psych at 4 and im anxious af about it.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 12/10/2026

I’m awake and unhinged lol I just ordered the hat I wanted in August for the bears. But need it for our party on Sunday. For my husband a bears tank top (he runs hot) and Leo’s jersey no longer fits so I got him a huge Caleb Williams t shirt lol gonna wear that FOR YEARS. (His jersey is DJ Moore

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 12/10/2026

Fell asleep in Leo’s bed. My husband called me at like 1230 finally and Lucy woke up. So I went in her room for awhile and woke up HUNGRY. lol so now I’m eating french fries at 4 am 🤣

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 12/10/2026

Everyone is still awake currently. And I love the bb boy I get to out to be tn. I bet Lucy is more tired. But I love the boy I get to sleep.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

We have to stream the bears from this person and he takes donations and they pop up on screen lol and the latest donation pop up was “Lambeau is gayer than boystown” and it made me LOL.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

I’m kind of excited it’s fuck the packers day and it will only be us and the kids watching football together. Lol

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

Our neighbor put up a sign that says “vote your bottoms and ossoff”. HOW CLEVER.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Gonna eat a gummy and go to my SILs for dinner. Except she asked me to make meatballs (thank god). And I made vodka sauce bc I hate whatever sauce she makes. lol so it’s gonna be a good night for me!!!!

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Now we are deep into Red Bull extreme sports videos.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

Leo has been commenting on people’s bodies recently and idk why. But I’ve been telling him it’s unkind to talk about other people’s bodies and that everyone has a different body and everyone’s bodies has different capabilities. Somehow it’s led us to strong man competitions lol and I looked at Lucy

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 10/10/2026

I don’t always like my husband but I know he’s a decent man. Lol and he’s not perfect. And because he’s not perfect I love to tell him that “it’s not all men, but it’s ALWAYS a man”. And that will live rent free in his mind.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Lucy has been home an entire week. Leo was home the last 2 days. I’ve been working. So has my husband. He can’t be with the kids bc he needs to be at his desk for his job bc it’s video editing/motion graphics. I was hoping to go grocery shopping since we are going to get a shit ton of rain and wind

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

He committed to watching the kids for 9-11 so I could work before the trampoline park. He needed to sleep in bc he stayed up too late. The kids went to wake him up at 850. He said he’d be down soon. Fell back asleep. Turns out he had therapy at 9 he forgot about. All around horrible decisions dude.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 09/10/2026

Ugh my husband is straight up pissing me off this week omg.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

We kept Leo home from school and emailed and the psychologist called to talk to us. She said she took the child on a walk and just asked questions about who his friends are and what he likes to play and like benign questions. And she will do the same with Leo on Tuesday. And like idk if it happened

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Leo told me it happened in the classroom bathrooms and he told my husband it happened in the playground bathrooms. And when we asked again this morning just to see what he said to both of us he said it happens every time he goes to the bathroom. So that’s interesting. We haven’t taken him to school

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

My MIL came up tn and was like I wanna say bye I’m not going to see them for 5 days. LOL. AVERAGE WEEK FOR YA.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Hailey on RHONY is insane bc wdym with your rent controlled apartment you’re concerned about semantics. She owns an estate on an island with 7 other people. It’s HER island (along with others) but it’s HERS. and she has an HOA. lol

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Me @ my husband: if you ever tried to k*ll me I would NEVER let you have a moment of peace in your life ever again. And just bc I had this absurd thought while watching criminal minds I might as well start now. Lol YOULL NEVER KNOW PEACE.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

But anyways I’m binge eating carbs and having a few drinks and then taking a gummy bc lord knows it would be a miracle to sleep in my own bed tn and where ever I am I need SLEEP. IM HEALTHY MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

And I’m having chicken tenders and fries for dinner BECAUSE IM SAD.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

This week is kicking my fucking ass and I can’t continue for my days to be like this. The kids don’t have school Friday or Monday. I have Monday off. But I’ve had a child with me all week. I haven’t been able to get work done. My MIL went to visit her friend. When they don’t have school on Fridays

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

And then I told my husband Leo didn’t want me to talk to him about it and he comes home from taking Lucy to urgent care bc she said her ear hurt. And I was like did you get my text and he said no and I told him and showed this picture he drew and he goes “mommy was telling me what you told her” DUDE

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Not Leo randomly saying “yeah, and he comes in the bathroom all the time when I’m in it and he says he’s going to touch my penis”. And now I’m pissed. Im trying to wait until after bedtime to email so I can talk to my husband and calm down. But what the fuck.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

And now I’m tired and honestly just sad.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Full blown mental breakdown because my husband napped when he was supposed to watch Lucy and just put tv on. And I needed him to play with her so she could watch tv later while I work. And it sent me into a spiral that I have no support and he’s like “why don’t you go out tomorrow night?” I HAVE NO

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

I got to experience what life would be like with one child again and tbh. Life was so easy. And she was so easy to entertain. No one screamed. lol

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

Kids are crazy bc wdym you were just a potato who couldn’t move and only drank milk.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

I don’t have the mental fortitude to deal with Lucy home and work so I am taking a sick day and i think we will go to the trampoline park. Lol we emailed her teacher asking about how and where they took her temp because they said it was 102 and when she got home it was 97.7. 🙃🙃🙃

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

We were both depressed and have been since we’ve moved in and I’ve hated a few things about the house and I’ve decided I’m going to start with our bathroom and deep deep clean and paint it and change the fixtures.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

I made French onion soup and wow did it hit a spot. Omg.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Ugh I feel like such an asshole. Last night Leo ran into our room and SLAMMED the door and it woke up Lucy. And I just was so tired and I snapped and was like “you slammed the door and NOW I have to go sleep in your sisters bed and my back is going to hurt” not even thinking

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

But lucy and her bff were quiet and we turn around and they’ve painted their hands. 😭😭😭

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

But the party we went to on Saturday night ended up being insane. Lol everyone was like idc what the kids eat or what they really do. The house is safe. LMAO and I went outside to check on Leo and their one daughter had a bunch of basil she was lighting on fire with a tiki torch 😭😭😭 I was like umm.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

My husband’s friend was so sad to leave. He truly loved a weekend full of family activities and he’s like this is the best time I’ve had in awhile. 😭🥹 our kids woke up today asking if they could send him a video of them lol

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

I was very jealous of their house and i just realized it’s one bathroom and no thanks. Lol

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

We are at Lucy’s best friends dads bday. And LOL their house is immaculate. Barely any toys visible. And I’m like hmmm. What is that like. 🤣 they are going to be shocked when they come to our house.

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I just kind of got into a happy argument with his friend about democratic politics. lol and then it came up Cornell 7 and I was like it’s not all men, but it’s ALWAYS a man. And I’ve said that for years about men. lol and then they started talking about a st pats in sav where his 5’6” friend

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

I’m really happy for my husband and he gets this time. 😭

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citylifelove.bsky.social @citylifelove.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Our house isn’t big or special. But it’s ours and it’s very lived in and our kids can be exactly who they want to be and they feel safe. And that’s what I want at this point in my life. Every year, we will remove more and more kid things. Idk. I don’t care about crayon on the walls rn.

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