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Call me Kate

@chronickate.bsky.social
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Hi, I’m an expat living in rural New Zealand with my kiwi partner and I homeschool our son. Some days are harder than others. I have this account to vent about chronic pain from my congenital deformity so not to burden my family more than I already do.

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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
Getting better never coming only getting worse. I don’t know how to cope for 15 more years, I swore to myself I would.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 23/02/2025
It is nice to know things are finite in a way, however grief has a funny way of sneaking into our days. I hope you can find peace in this passing. Xx
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
My condolences to you.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
We went to Kawau for a picnic on my partner’s 30th birthday ^_^ it’s so beautiful out there.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 20/02/2025
Yesterday really ate at me and I ate at my self. Today is another day, the rainbow reminds me so. Though waking up tired and sore, I try to see the positives and find joy everyday. #rainbowoutmywindow #chronicpain #anewday #disability #mobilityimpaired
A rainbow over my back yard with a fence, pool and trees.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 19/02/2025
I don’t know why I let it get to me but it sure does irritate me profusely when someone acts as if they know my condition and compare it to someone they knew 60years ago and I how I look great by comparison and I “should be happy”.
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a woman in a blue and white dress is saying `` oh ok , yeah sure '' .
ALT: a woman in a blue and white dress is saying `` oh ok , yeah sure '' .
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
The morning has crept up on me quick. My gumption is running out and the whole day is ahead of me. #itneverstops #negativespoons #chronicpain #congentialdeformity #clubbedfootwarrior #homeschool #15moreyears
My son with a back sweatshirt, mixing cookies with a Minecraft recipe book as a guide. Supplies scattered on the blue bench top: flour, baking powder, measuring spoons and paper towels as well as oranges and lemons from our tree.Bowl of chicken salad: Delicious home grown lettuce, avocados and cucumbers. Sadly the chicken is not homegrown.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
What an inspiration!
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
Looking forward to it. ^_^ thanks for sharing your love for adventure.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
It certainly feels like a lot until you hear about others struggles. I can I only imagine what your daughter deals with and you as her parents wanting to help ease her troubles. Sending love and strength to you and yours. Thank you for sharing a bit of your (and her) story.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
Until you have to wee. 😅😅🫣
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a close up of a cartoon character 's face with purple makeup
Alt: a close up of a cartoon character 's face with purple makeup with eyes closed and both open quickly then the character rises up.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
Thank you for trying to understand. I was born with severe clubbed feet. From “correction” i now have degenerative ankles & feet and muscle atrophy in my lower legs. It may be somewhat like having CRS in the foot and leg, can’t say for sure. I’m glad to hear your daughter found some relief though.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
I absolutely fell in love with Notrthland, it’s part of why I moved to New Zealand. One day, hopefully, we may make it our home.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 18/02/2025
I host a seniors strength & balance exercise group. Some days their abilities outshine mine and my mind sounds off, loudly. True, it’s part of understanding the needs of modification of exercises but gosh… my head tells me they deserve better. #impostersyndrome #chronicpain #mobilityimpared
The image show a giant spider like creature with tentacle arms and a girl underneath it holding a bag and an umbrella. To me it’s a visualisation of my mind hounding me with imposter syndrome, feelings of inadequacy and productivity anxiety.Me in a grey shirt and extra large sun glasses in front of a field of sunflowers standing big and bright.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 17/02/2025
That is so cool!!!
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 17/02/2025
We live in New Zealand. :)
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 17/02/2025
Today has been relatively good. We were very busy but got plenty done with our day and still had some fun. I’m spent and have sat, now it’s setting in. 😮‍💨 #chronicpain #mobilityimpaired #homeschool #homemade #15moreyears
Loaf pan with banana bread topped with chocolate line sprinkles, colourful line sprinkles and dark chocolate chips. Young boy playing in pool on an overcast day.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 16/02/2025
I have used the spoon analogy for a while but didn’t realise it made me a #Spoonie. I am behind the times I suppose. Learning to work with my disability and to be kind to myself in the process. #deterioratingcondition #mobilityimpared #chronicpain
Mervyn Williams 1986 Six Blue Bars, Acrylic on Canvas. Textured and painted in blue in top of the lines and yellow on the bottom to appear as an optical illusion. Homemade custard ready to become crème brûlée, they’re one of my specialties.
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Call me Kate @chronickate.bsky.social · 15/02/2025
My mind berates me to do more and more and my feet scream no every excruciating step. I started this page to be semi anonymous and complain without as much guilt. I honestly just can’t wait to be done with existing, hard to want to keep going at times. #chronicpain #mobilityimpaired
Fresh banana bread with dark chocolate chipsA variety of locally cut flowers in pinks, yellows and white.
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