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If you’ve lost a person, a dream, your health, or your hope — reach out. 1:1 support nationwide (adults & children/adolescents) Catharsis Theater for Loss & Grief Relief www.caligrief.com Facing the hurt together.

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s. e. smith @sesmith.lol · 07/04/2026
Anyway, we have ample research on how living under a state of sustained terror and stress causes life-long health problems as well as intergenerational epigenetic effects. This feels like it's making you sick because it actually is making you sick.
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 04/04/2026
I spent a year talking to teens about why they were using role-playing chatbots, and something surprising happened: By the end of the year, the teens stopped using the chatbots. Observer effect? Or that chatbots fall into patterns that eventually get boring? www.nytimes.com/2026/04/04/t...
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What Teens Are Doing With Those Role-Playing Chatbots
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 28/03/2026
To register for our free monthly Grief Catharsis Theater event this Sunday, March 29, from 1–4 PM in Los Angeles (downtown Culver City), please use the Eventbrite link below: www.eventbrite.com/e/grief-cath...
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Grief Catharsis Theater for Loss and Healing (March)
A free, monthly space where unfinished grief finds witness, catharsis, and relief. All are welcome. Established in 2023, continuing today.
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 19/03/2026
In 2022, I did a story about life in "the metaverse," spending 24 hours as an avatar with no legs meeting the people using Facebook's VR-based social network, Horizon Worlds. www.nytimes.com/2022/10/07/t... Met interesting people who seemed enthused about it but this was my conclusion:
Screenshot of text that reads "For now, though, the company is still constrained by the physical world, and by the fact that most people, apart from those currently in the metaverse, aren’t keen to spend hours and hours of their day “in the plastic.”"
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 17/03/2026
Katie on Katie. @katierobertson.bsky.social profiles Wired editor, @katie-drummond.bsky.social, who has been making the tech optimists very mad lately. www.nytimes.com/2026/03/17/b...
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Wired’s New Editor Doesn’t Care if the Tech Bros Are Mad
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 11/03/2026
Thomson Reuters is best known for its media outlet and legal research tools, but it is also a huge data broker that provides investigative tools to the government, including ICE. Its Minneapolis workers aren't happy about that: www.nytimes.com/2026/03/11/t...
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They Don’t Want Their Company’s Surveillance Tool Used by ICE
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 02/03/2026
How the rich have gotten richer since the 2017 tax cuts, and how it's affecting everyone else. A case study in Wyoming: www.nytimes.com/2026/03/02/u...
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Welcome to Wyoming, the Frontier of America’s New Gilded Age
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 26/02/2026
People are revealing sensitive personal information to A.I. chatbots — including plans to commit violent acts. What should the companies do when it happens? www.nytimes.com/2026/02/26/t...
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When Chatbots Are Used to Plan Violence, Is There a Duty to Warn?
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 14/01/2026
Took the FTC's remaining two commissioners a year to vote to finalize the agency's settlement with GM over the automaker's selling data about how and where people were driving their cars. www.ftc.gov/news-events/... (I broke the news back in 2024 that GM was doing this.)
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FTC Finalizes Order Settling Allegations that GM and OnStar Collected and Sold Geolocation Data Without Consumers’ Informed Consent
The Federal Trade Commission finalized an order with General Motors and OnStar settling allegations that they collected, used, and sold consumers’ precise geolocation data and driving behavior data
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Sherrilyn Ifill @sifill.bsky.social · 08/01/2026
Make it viral.
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 06/01/2026
Putting the brand on every possible thing
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 05/01/2026
For some positive news: the effects of congestion pricing in New York City. It has significantly decreased how much time my own commute takes so I'm a big fan. www.nytimes.com/interactive/...
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Congestion pricing after one year: How life has changed.
How life has changed in the New York area, according to data on traffic, transit and the responses of 600 readers.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 03/01/2026
The Grief Wave 🌀 recently bereaved in several directions (1/8) As we move into year two of The Grief Wave, I keep returning to a line by Muriel Rukeyser: “The universe is made of stories, not of atoms.” Grief rearranges the story before we’re ready.
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 09/12/2025
"The advent of realistic videos has been a boon for disinformation, fraud and foreign influence operations" www.nytimes.com/2025/12/08/b... What is the positive use case for an easy-to-use fake video tool?
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A.I. Videos Have Flooded Social Media. No One Was Ready.
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Kashmir Hill @kashhill.bsky.social · 07/11/2025
Allan Brooks, the corporate recruiter from Canada I wrote about in August who went into a 3-week-long delusional spiral with ChatGPT, sued OpenAI Thursday, alongside six other plaintiffs. They blame ChatGPT for their mental breakdowns and for four suicides. www.nytimes.com/2025/11/06/t...
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Lawsuits Blame ChatGPT for Suicides and Harmful Delusions
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 04/11/2025
(1/5) 🕯️ When grief gets dark, companionship brings light. This week’s Grief Wave explores what sustains us when loss feels endless — connection, courage, and care. Read: The Grief Wave – When Grief Gets Dark 👉 caligrief.substack.com/p/the-grief-... #Grief #Healing #Help #Bluesky #Love #Loss
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The Grief Wave – November 4, 2025 | When Grief Gets Dark
How we find light, connection, and courage when loss feels endless
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 28/10/2025
(1/5) When grief gets hard, what we often need isn’t strength — it’s steadiness. This week’s Grief Wave looks at how we find clarity and connection when everything feels heavy. 💜 Read the full issue: caligrief.substack.com #Grief #HealingTogether #TheGriefWave
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The Grief Wave | Brian Stefan | Substack
✍️ Exploring grief, healing, and humanity in all its tangled beauty. Click to read The Grief Wave, by Brian Stefan, a Substack publication. Launched 4 months ago.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 24/10/2025
1️⃣ When grief gets stuck, love is still moving. 💔 This week’s Grief Wave explores what happens when sorrow feels frozen — and how love, memory, and movement help us find our way through. 🌊 Read: When Grief Gets Stuck 🔗 caligrief.substack.com/p/the-grief-... #Grief #Healing #TheGriefWave
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"The Grief Wave" Newsletter – October 24, 2025 | When Grief Gets Stuck
How love, memory, and movement help us find our way through what feels unmoving.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 17/10/2025
(1/5) 🕯️ Where What Hurts Meets What Heals Grief isn’t an ending — it’s an opening. A moment to face pain, hold meaning, and rediscover connection. This week’s Grief Wave explores how memory and community help heal what remains. 🌊 Read: open.substack.com/pub/caligrie... #TheGriefWave #Grief #Healing
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"The Grief Wave" Newsletter – October 17, 2025 | Where What Hurts Meets What Heals + Catharsis Theater for Loss (10/18)
From loss to renewal, this week’s stories trace how memory, language, and community help us heal what still aches.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 15/10/2025
1/5 HCR’s latest piece is a storm warning for democracy 🌩️ open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... The shutdown isn’t just politics — it’s a slow bleed of trust and care. Historians like Richardson hold the light, reminding us where we fell — and how to rise again. @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 14, 2025
The government shutdown, which started on October 1, is entering its third week.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
(1/5) A proposed Triumphal Arch—gold winged statue and all—rises from the Potomac in Trump’s imagination. Facing Lincoln’s Memorial, it casts a shadow not of triumph but of forgetting. 👉 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... A reminder: architecture tells our national story. @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 13, 2025
Last Tuesday, President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 13/10/2025
(1/5) History isn’t a monument—it’s a mirror. Heather Cox Richardson reminds us that when leaders rewrite the past to sanctify power, they set fire to truth itself. Today’s proclamation about Columbus reveals not reverence, but revision. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 12, 2025
On October 9, President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 13/10/2025
(1/5) History, HCR reminds us, is not an archive but a mirror. Today’s reflection shows power turning inward, silencing truth-tellers and calling dissent “hate.” Democracy feels like an organ under siege—wounded, yet still alive. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 10, 2025
All of President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 12/10/2025
(1/5) HCR’s Oct 9 essay feels like watching a storm gather over the republic—each gust an abuse of power, each flash a warning of what’s at stake when truth becomes partisan. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... Democracy, she reminds us, isn’t won once—it’s defended daily. @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 9, 2025
Today Trump appointee Lindsey Halligan did what President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 10/10/2025
(1/5) History bends like a river, and today’s current is swift and dangerous. Heather Cox Richardson reminds us that when justice is bent into a tool of revenge, democracy itself trembles. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 9, 2025
Today Trump appointee Lindsey Halligan did what President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 09/10/2025
(1/5) History bends in moments like this. National Guard troops on Illinois soil against the governor’s will. A president invoking the Insurrection Act’s shadow. What HCR calls out is not just politics—it’s democracy’s breaking point. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 8, 2025
Yesterday, journalists observed members of the Texas National Guard at a U.S.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 09/10/2025
(1/5) 🕯️ Echoes & Endings honors Jonathan Lear (1948–2025). A philosopher & psychoanalyst, he showed us that wisdom is not in avoiding pain but in facing it with courage. His work on Radical Hope and mourning helps us imagine how to live when futures collapse. 👉 caligrief.substack.com/p/echoes-and...
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🕯️ Echoes & Endings | Jonathan Lear (1948–2025)
A life that proved patience could be revolutionary, transforming our understanding of what it means to be human by first understanding what it means to be chimpanzee.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
(1/5) History is not only memory, it is warning. Heather Cox Richardson reminds us: power abandoned by elected leaders does not vanish, it seeps into the hands of unelected actors. ⚖️ Read here: open.substack.com/pub/heatherc...
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October 7, 2025
The Office of Management and Budget (OMB) today floated the idea that workers furloughed during a government shutdown are not guaranteed back pay when the shutdown is resolved.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 08/10/2025
(1/5) 🍂 The Grief Wave — Oct 7, 2025 Grief is never loss. It is also a lantern — casting light on memory, presence, and the path forward in one another’s company. 🌊🕯️ This week’s edition: honoring a leader, supporting children, new laws, & healing gatherings. 👉 caligrief.substack.com/p/the-grief-...
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"The Grief Wave" Newsletter – October 7, 2025 | Threads of Grief, Threads of Care + Catharsis Theater for Loss and Healing
Reflections, resources, and events for navigating grief
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 07/10/2025
(1/5) 📰 HCR’s latest essay: a map of America at the edge of memory and meaning. Project 2025 is no longer a plan in the shadows. It is becoming a lived reality. The question is not just politics but survival of democracy itself. 👉 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 6, 2025
If White House deputy chief of staff Stephen Miller is at the head of the administration’s deployment of federal agents against undocumented immigrants, it appears that Office of Management and Budget...
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
(1/5) 🌊 New from The Grief Wave Grief 101: When Children Grieve (Part 2) How do we talk to kids about death without overwhelming them—or leaving them in confusion? This piece explores practical, compassionate ways forward. 📖 Read: caligrief.substack.com/p/grief-101-...
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Grief 101: When Children Grieve (Part 2)
Practical strategies for supporting young hearts through loss
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
(1/5) 📰 Heather Cox Richardson reminds us: America is at a crossroads where perception collides with reality. Leaders invoke war zones that do not exist, and the grief of a nation deepens when power bends truth into fear. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 5, 2025
On Friday the Minnesota Star Tribune reported a conversation on the messaging app Signal between one of Stephen Miller’s top deputies, Anthony Salisbury, and a senior advisor to Secretary of Defense P...
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 05/10/2025
(1/5) 📰 HCR's essay feels like a mirror to America. Trump’s absence is replaced with AI grim reapers, zombies, and mockery of democracy. The question is no longer politics. It’s: what happens when power feeds on fear? 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 3, 2025
Although President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 04/10/2025
(1/5) 🕯️ The Grief Wave (Oct 3, 2025) | Echoes & Renewal + The Second Funeral Grief is not only about loss. It is also about resilience, meaning, and community. This week’s edition explores justice, science, memory & connection. 👉 Read: caligrief.substack.com/p/the-grief-...
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"The Grief Wave" Newsletter – October 3, 2025 | Echoes & Renewal + The Second Funeral (October)
Exploring how memory, resilience, and community carry us forward
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 03/10/2025
(1/5) 🕯️ In Chicago, a raid tore through homes in the dark of night. Families zip-tied, children crying, neighbors calling it an “invasion by our own military.” HCR traces how these actions connect to a larger authoritarian push. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 2, 2025
At about 1:00 on Tuesday morning, federal agents from Border Patrol, the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), and the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives (ATF) raided an apartment b...
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
(1/5) 🌊 New essay on The Grief Wave: The Tangled Net #14 — The Weaponization of Nostalgia 👉 caligrief.substack.com/p/the-tangle... From Brexit to MAGA to Modi, nostalgia has become the most powerful political force of our time. But what it’s really tapping into is something deeper: grief.
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The Tangled Net #14: The Weaponization of Nostalgia
When longing for "home" became the most powerful political force of our age
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
(1/5) A nation’s stage is set. While millions brace for a shutdown, the president plays with doctored videos like a jester in a collapsing court. HCR reminds us: history records not just policy, but the spirit in which power is wielded. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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October 1, 2025
Last night, as the government barreled toward a shutdown, President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
(1/5) 🕯️ Echoes & Endings | Jane Goodall (1934–2025) She showed the world that patience could be revolutionary—that empathy belongs in science and that every life, human or chimpanzee, has meaning. Full tribute here: 👉 caligrief.substack.com/p/echoes-and...
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🕯️ Echoes & Endings | Jane Goodall (1934–2025)
A life that proved patience could be revolutionary, transforming our understanding of what it means to be human by first understanding what it means to be chimpanzee.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
(1/5) A stage set at Quantico: 800 military leaders rushed to D.C., only to watch a theater of bluster. A flag backdrop, speeches echoing Patton, but silence told its own truth. History’s pen records both words spoken and words withheld. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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September 30, 2025
Last Thursday, September 25, Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth suddenly announced he was calling about 800 of the nation’s top military generals and admirals, along with their top enlisted advisors, to m...
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 01/10/2025
(1/5) 🌊 New issue of The Grief Wave: Music, loss, resilience, & the courage to begin again. 🎵 Viral bagpipes + tradition 🌊 Children’s grief explained 🎀 40 years of breast cancer awareness 📜 Telehealth & reproductive care updates 🎭 October gatherings 👉 caligrief.substack.com/p/the-grief-...
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"The Grief Wave" Newsletter – September 30, 2025 | Music, Loss & Renewal + October Gatherings
Stories of music, loss, resilience, and the courage to begin again
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
(1/5) Shutdown looms, healthcare hangs by a thread, and leaders walk away without a deal. Heather Cox Richardson’s latest reminds us that politics is not abstract—it is about people’s survival, their health, and their dignity. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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September 29, 2025
Senate minority leader Chuck Schumer (D-NY) and House minority leader Hakeem Jeffries (D-NY) left a meeting with President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
(1/5) 💔🧒 Children grieve too—often more deeply than we realize. When adults try to shield kids from loss, we may create more confusion instead of protection. I explore this in my latest essay: 🔗 caligrief.substack.com/p/grief-101-...
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Grief 101: When Children Grieve (Part 1)
Understanding how young hearts process loss
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 29/09/2025
(1/5) A deep fake MedBed promise. A golden Oval Office. Troops eyed for Portland. HCR’s latest reminds us: when spectacle replaces substance, democracy trembles. History warns that illusion is often used to mask erosion. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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September 28, 2025
Late last night, President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 29/09/2025
(1/5) Yesterday’s Epstein files cracked the façade. Logs spill like ghosts from a locked room. Instead of truth, Trump tosses distractions—Earhart, vaccines, conspiracies. History shows us: when power fears exposure, it points elsewhere. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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September 27, 2025
Yesterday, Democrats on the House Oversight Committee released items from a third batch of documents associated with the criminal investigation of convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 27/09/2025
(1/5) 📜 History has echoes. Today’s headlines about Medals of Honor at Wounded Knee are not just news, they are the sound of unfinished grief in America. HCR traces how political maneuvering and broken promises shaped a massacre that still reverberates. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc...
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September 26, 2025
Today Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth announced that twenty men who were awarded the Medal of Honor for their participation in the 1890 Wounded Knee Massacre would keep their medals, despite more than ...
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
(1/5) 🌊 The Grief Wave | Sept 26, 2025 Grief is never only an ending. It is also a beginning—carrying memory forward, reshaping us, and binding us together. This week’s stories explore courage, tradition, and resilience. 👉 Read here: caligrief.substack.com/p/the-grief-...
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"The Grief Wave" Newsletter – September 26, 2025 | Endings as Beginnings
From military service to sponge cities, from silent crises to shared hope
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
(1/5) 📜 HCR's Letters from an American reminds us: democracy bends but must not break. Yesterday’s essay traces threats to federal workers, courts, and the very rule of law. Reading it feels like holding a mirror to America’s grief. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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September 25, 2025
Today, with the popularity of President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 26/09/2025
(1/5) 🌊 New in The Grief Wave The Tangled Net #13: The Death of Local Knowledge When grandmother’s wisdom is replaced by algorithmic advice. We live in a world where centuries of lived knowledge fade quietly under the glow of apps and “best practices.” ➡️ caligrief.substack.com/p/the-tangle...
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The Tangled Net #13: The Death of Local Knowledge
When grandmother's wisdom gets replaced by algorithmic advice
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 25/09/2025
(1/5) 🌊 HCR reminds us that history is not just dates and policies. It is the struggle of memory against forgetting. Yesterday’s speech at the UN shows how power twists, reverses, and retreats—while lives hang in the balance. 🔗 open.substack.com/pub/heatherc... @hcrichardson.bsky.social
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September 24, 2025
Hours after delivering his delusional and offensive speech to the United Nations yesterday, President Donald J.
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California Grief Center (CGC) @caligrief.bsky.social · 25/09/2025
(1/5) 🕯️ Echoes & Endings | Kongjian Yu (1963–2025) A visionary who believed cities should dance with rain, not fight it. His sponge city philosophy reshaped how the world thinks about resilience. 🌧️🌱 Full tribute: open.substack.com/pub/caligrie...
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🕯️ Echoes & Endings | Kongjian Yu (1963–2025)
Remembering the visionary who taught cities to dance with rain
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