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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 16h

#3GoodThings 1. Artists unionizing 2. Potatoes with stuff on them 3. The mystery writing of Benjamin Stevenson.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 22h

Good morning, blueberry waffles of Bluesky! Today's kindness upgrade is therapy. We got this!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

Good still technically morning, ocean views of Bluesky! We are back from a vacation in Narragansett and feeling refreshed; today’s kindness upgrade is putting the house back together and my usual writer-in-residence work. Stay kind!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

(Tone: unironic) I am choosing to believe the Ticketmaster issues today are because the PWHL fans are SO excited we’ve overloaded the servers.

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PWHL @thepwhl.com · 02/10/2026

Conferences have entered the chat 💬 Introducing Western and Eastern Conferences for the 2026-27 Season! Read the full press release here ➡️ bit.ly/4ALg12q

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Good morning, lengthy cat snuggles of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is the last appointment of the week. Stay kind!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

October pin challengers: a flaming triceratops skull for a return to some old manuscripts ready to come out of the trunk; Pyramid Head to kickstart the depths of spooky season; and a reminder to never stop trying.

Three enamel pins: a flaming triceratops skull, Pyramid Head from Silent Hill 2, and an a stone archway looking out at a mountain vista with the words you might still do great things in the sky

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

If you do this and it is at all accurate every character I have ever written will threaten you for it.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Good health news 2. Hockey with the MenHL team I started with 3. Pancakes

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Good morning, cool autumn breezes of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is a doctor’s appointment for me. We got this!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Like @mikechenwriter.bsky.social, I multiclass as a sports person and sff writer. It's a very effective build if you take the right feats.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Being excited to eat my own cooking 2. Umbrella Academy 3. Naps

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Good morning, queer romance subplots of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is a meeting to help plan FK’s transition to his birth family. You matter so so much!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Wait, wait, it's been two months. Foster Kid's return to school ate some of my ability to tell time. That's still good for two months, though!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

A Making Things Log: Since I started writing full time around a month ago, I have completely finished a revision round and sent the R&R to betas and drafted two flash stories, as well as managing to stay on top of my newsletter, Patreon posts, and budget. It's not 40 hours a week, but it's victory.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Breakfast with my favorite human 2. Hockey to watch tonight 3. Time to catch a nap

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Good morning, seasonal special interests of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is another appointment (2nd out of 4 for the week). Saving one life still matters!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Difficult conversations not actually ending the world 2. Bonus reading time 3. Plans with friends

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

Good morning, toasted bagels of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is two flavors of therapy and some hangout time with grownups. You matter!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Good afternoon, satisfying gameplay loops of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is some work to help DCYF do their jobs and protect kids (everyone is fine but sometimes there need to be phone calls). Stay kind and have a fantastic weekend!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Managing to use my writing garden 2. Mostly-successful conversations with Foster Kiddo 3. Quiche

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 24/09/2026

Good morning, autumn mornings of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is doing some work with AABB. We got this!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Surprise bonus time with Spousebot 2. Proper fall weather 3. A chance to use my writing garden

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Drawing boundaries and having boundaries drawn in loving, thoughtful ways 2. Friends to talk parenting issues with 3. Being able to name my trauma

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Good afternoon, brisk little walks of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is appointments. That and our rolling donations to the orgs fighting for us has to be the fight sometimes. Stay kind!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Time to nap after a busy morning 2. Squeezing in some writing time despite a bad case of donwannas 3. Ted Lasso

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Mashed potatoes mixed up with canned tuna and peas. No seasoning except whatever got used in the potatoes. I revisited it out of nostalgia and not even core memories could save that.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Your Monday cat cleanse, with bonus sleeping pug.

Bruce the orange cat getting pets as he sits next to a black pug who is absolutely sacked out.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Good afternoon, laboratories for democratic socialism of Bluesky! Today's kindness upgrade has already had me up since 5:30 to do my quarterly labs, get kiddo to practice, and pick up prescriptions, so the rest of it is relaxing. Take care!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Hockey is about to be on my radio, and I tuned in to Sharks radio just in time for an interview with an exec from PWHL SJ. I love to see the MenHL doing cross-promotion, keep it up.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Getting a chance to try new things thanks to my weird little city. 2. A light chores day. 3. A nap.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Good morning, empty calendars of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is a little self-care break for the grownups in the family — FK has a football game tonight so we are getting a slightly longer break before we have to full-contact parent (and of course I’ll be at the game). We got this!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Oh come on I’m at least worth a cursory proofread right?

Email from Author Patterson James calling me Author Tyler Hayes that starts with the same fawning pablum that every slop scam tries and never works

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Latitude to deal with a schedule snafu with little impact 2. Parent friends to help me with parenting 3. Some time in the garden

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 17/09/2026

Good morning, refreshing mint flavors of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is the last of this storm of appointments; tomorrow looks to be a normal day. In the meantime, we all got this!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Being regulated enough I am looking forward to eating veggies 2. The latitude to take a rest day in a world that is hostile to the concept 3. My electric hand massager

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. The flexibility to help all the people who need helping 2. Getting to be proud of FK for making his own decisions and standing up for himself 3. Another revision round in the books and out of my hands!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Good morning, surprise musical interludes of Bluesky! Today’s kindness upgrade is day 2 of appointments. We got this!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Face time with a child care expert to help us keep the challenges with FK under control for the last little while. 2. Interesting new mayo to try 3. Having friends

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 14/09/2026

Good afternoon, handmade masterpieces of Bluesky! This week I am averaging 2 appointments per weekday between the three of us, so my kindness upgrade is literally that. We got this!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

We finally cracked it — those are the sporting facilities for local high schools. Which their websites don’t name and which are not listed separately from the schools in maps apps. The AI-slop schedule identified other named fields as belonging to schools but not these.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

As arguments in the ebook vs print discussion go, I really think “I can read ebooks one-handed and with less weight on aging hands and wrists” is underrated.

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

RI people, I need help finding something the Internet doesn't want to help me with. I have an event that according to multiple sources is at "Veterans Memorial Stadium," but no source I trust is telling me where that is (and there might be TWO of them? The schedule looks like slop.). Halp?

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Managing all the stuff on our itinerary for the day 2. Figuring out a plan for managing some ongoing stress 3. Vegan hot dogs

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Good morning, big satisfying stretches of Bluesky! Today's kindness upgrade is therapy for me after a long week of handling things for FK. As always, gotta do the regular maintenance. Stay kind!

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Tyler Hayes @bytylerhayes.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

#3GoodThings 1. Setting boundaries and getting healthy responses in return 2. Time enough for workouts and naps 3. Seeing kindness and hope win elections again

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