Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 02/08/2026The attacks on Anthony Fauci show self-preservation can’t compete with blind tribalism, culture wars and mob gullibility. 151
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 02/08/2026Why doesn’t she just leave? Because that’s when the threats to safety, her kids, her relatives, and her pets are acted on. 031
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 02/08/2026The harassment of Anthony Fauci is a triumph of cultural wars over human intelligence. 051
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 18/05/2026NSW ‘blitz’ on Family Violence arrests? Women are killed every week in Australia. Perpetrators should be arrested in real time, not gathered up later like clean-up Australia day. www.abc.net.au/news/2025-11...abc.net.auHundreds charged with DV offences in four-day blitz across NSWMore than 750 people have been charged under Operation Amarok XII, though support services say they are desperate for funding to match this police response. 0127
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 07/05/2026In one century medical research and vaccines have doubled life expectancy. Politicians who harm trust in medical science are unfit for public office. 0122
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 07/03/2026Misogyny is not limited to Iran. The only person in prison from the Epstein files is a woman. 12611
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 01/01/2026The best goals are psychology goals. This year.. Less oversharing – Not everyone with ears is your friend. Less inner critic. – speak as kindly to yourself as you do others. Less ‘people pleasing’ - No one respects a doormat. What else? 281
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 26/12/2025I know it's fashionable to reject New Year's resolutions. But it’s still a good idea to adopt better habits. And if you start now, a few days early, you give yourself a head start for 2026. 241
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 25/12/2025Sending hugs to anyone feeling the pressure to be happy today. You are fine, just as you are. 0100
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 22/12/2025Time off is great. But if you need the holidays to 'recharge', your job is slowly killing you. 051
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 20/12/2025This Christmas protect yourself from gaslight. Value your reality over their arguments. 040
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 20/12/2025Food is a great metaphor. Like picking and choosing at a buffet, I connect with some people and walk past others. I decide. 061
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 15/12/2025Double down on mental health. Improve gut health, sleep, exercise, time with loved ones, pampering, mindfulness and gratitude. Create safety, and routine and find some meaningful activity. Self-care is everything. Don't leave it to chance. 173
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 10/12/2025Australia has now banned social media for all kids under 16. I can already feel their mental health improving. 061
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 28/11/2025The best parenting tip is the one nobody wants to hear. - 'Your kids will ignore everything you say, and copy everything you do.' 091
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 28/11/2025When I accept I can't change anyone, I can listen more deeply. Upon being heard, the person discovers their truth; they grow and change. Such an awesome contradiction. 041
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 09/11/2025In his book “The Road Less Travelled." Scott Peck warns against 'Cheap Forgiveness.' That is, forgiving others too easily to avoid the painful feelings associated with the hurt done to us. This actually blocks healing. Do you agree? 170
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 07/11/2025Elon Musk wanting more money shows money never gives long-term fulfilment. He’s like an addict getting a fix, and thinking of the next one. 171
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 04/10/2025Do you feel guilty when you look away from the unpleasant things happening in the world right now? 350
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 04/10/2025“You don’t need to be famous. You don’t need to be flawless. You only need to show up — fully — for the life that is still yours.” - Patricia Routledge: 060
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 29/09/2025Beyond the red flags..don't miss the good stuff. 0258
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 25/09/2025"When I look at the world collectively I’m pessimistic, but when I meet with individuals I am optimistic." - Carl Rogers. 193
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 18/09/2025Dear ABC. The world just saw one of your employees verbally attacked by the world's most powerful man. Please check that he is okay. And don't just tick a box. Actually support him and reaffirm his job security. 32811
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 18/09/2025'Don't hold back. The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.' - Irvin D. Yalom 040
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 11/09/2025‘Empathy’ is not a new age term. Empathy comes from the Greek for emotional involvement. Empathy was found by humanistic therapists to be catalyst for growth and therapeutic change. Empathy makes better therapists, partners, parents, friends and leaders. We need more empathy. 2326
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 01/09/2025I never met a happy racist. Accepting diversity is a parallel process to self-acceptance. People either develop both, or neither. 0123
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 01/09/2025How do we encourage people to grow out of racism? 392
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 27/08/2025The sound of gaslight. That didn’t happen. And if it did, it wasn’t that bad. And if it was, that’s not a big deal. And if it is, that’s not my fault. And if it was, I didn’t mean it. And if I did… You deserved it. 041
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 27/08/2025With so much ugliness in the world, deliberate distraction is legitimate self-care. “Denial can be healthy if it allows time for the individual to absorb harsh realities gradually.” - George Vaillant. 051
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 25/08/2025'How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.' - Wayne Dyer. 140
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 25/08/2025A lot of gaslighting goes unnoticed. If you are suddenly side-tracked, confused or explaining yourself you’ve been gaslit. 061
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 24/08/2025It helps when I remember the universe is under no obligation to provide me with only good experiences. 182
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 21/08/2025I have clients who like to discuss their issues with AI in between sessions, and often they receive great insights and feedback. Then they can't wait to tell me about it thus showing, at the end of the day, we humans will always prefer humans. 081
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 19/08/2025If you want your partner to be submissive you aren’t ready for a grown-up relationship. 051
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 18/08/2025Family Violence will reduce significantly when IVO breaches are treated as indictable offences. Most people are surprised that police can issue warnings or fines, like traffic offences, even for repeated breaches. 062
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 17/08/2025Carl Jung said accepting the opposites within one’s ego is the path to growth. This includes taking ownership of one’s masculine and feminine sides. Unfortunately, ‘toxic masculinity’ blocks this process creating a generation of incels and angry man-babies. 092
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 16/08/2025Should parents be worried about the ‘manosphere’ and toxic masculinity? 260
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 12/08/2025"The lack of meaning in life is a soul sickness whose full extent and import our age has not yet begun to comprehend." - Carl Jung. 050
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 12/08/2025🧵 Here’s a thought experiment. You’ve been overdoing the food, booze, and couch scrolling. You feel tired and sluggish, and you decide to see the doctor. But you tell the doctor you don’t just want the regular advice given to everyone. You demand... 1/3... 161
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 10/08/2025Beat the winter blues. During August (Southern Hem) daylight hours gradually increase leading to earlier/brighter mornings. If you position drapes etc to let in the morning sun you can increase serotonin and improve mood. -free! 0102
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 09/08/2025Humans are the only animals that kill each other, not out of necessity, but over ‘ideas’. The final solution was motivated by ideas of racism, right-wing nationalism and 'racial purity'. The Cambodian ‘killing fields’ were motivated by left-wing nationalism and anti-intellectualism. 1/2.. 151
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 07/08/2025This convicted sex offender fought to remain in parliament. What does it say about us that he thought he might win? www.abc.net.au/news/2025-08...abc.net.auMP convicted of sex crimes loses bid to stop parliament expulsionConvicted sex offender MP Gareth Ward has lost his bid for court orders to prevent his expulsion from NSW parliament. 291
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 05/08/2025"Grief stays the same. It’s our life that gets bigger." - Lois Tonkin. 040
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 31/07/2025Whenever I watch ‘An Officer and a Gentleman’ I want to be Richard Gere – handsome and gets the girl. A narcissist watches the same film and wants to be the Sergeant – shouting, causing fear, and controlling everyone. Anyone who prefers control over love is a toxic danger to be avoided. 071
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 29/07/2025Imagine spending the rest of your life not seeking approval. 140
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 27/07/2025I don’t argue with narcissists because it’s never about facts. For them it’s always about entitlement, control and winning. 1124
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 27/07/2025It’s okay to look away from horrific world events for your own mental health. It means you have a good heart. You can always come back and shout again later. 0225
Brad Desmond @braddesmond.bsky.social · 27/07/2025Carl Jung was born 150 years ago today. Thank you for showing every part of the personality has value, and just needs to be claimed, owned, and put to use. Happy birthday. 094
