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Embracing daddyhood

@blondbear.bsky.social
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A middle aged blond bear learning to embrace his dad side. ngl.link/blondbear

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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
My current abdominal state. I’m super bruised because I’m on blood thinners.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
I'm 9 days post-op. Things are starting to move around and settle down in my abdomen, but I'm still really bruised and the incision is still moist and angry. I'll post a photo with a graphic image warning later when I can get one.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 27/09/2026
After living decades as a fat man being told how ugly, physically repellent, and unwanted I was, you can understand my reaction here: A physically fit, hot man my age who looks like he would be very popular in porn woofed at me on SCRUFF and said hello. I immediately assume catfish or phishing.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Home now. Yay! Here’s what the surgical site looks like. Warning, it’s a bit gross.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Day 3. I can move a bit more.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 20/09/2026
Day 3. Moving hurts. Like level 9 pain. Never should have done this.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
I’m out of fucks here so I’m letting my cock just fly free here. Nurses aren’t phased and I’m not waving it at them.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
At the hospital for my hernia surgery. They made me get naked. I did not get sassy and ask them to buy me dinner first.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Naked book review! THE INUGAMI CURSE by Seishi Yokomizo
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
When I was in the green room at the haunt, someone held up a copy of HP and the Cursed Child and asked if I'd read it. I said I haven't and never would. She asked why. She had not heard of Rowling's anti-trans activities. I also mentioned the gay baiting. She put the book away to be returned later.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Point taken. Thank you for the warning. I should obviously not post when I’m exhausted. 😴 ngl.link/blondbear
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
You have no idea how much I needed to hear that today. Thank you so, so much.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
Saw some really pretty new inks for fountain pens, and scrolled down to see they were Harry Potter themed. Nope. G'bye. Not doing that.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
After my haunt shift I couldn’t sleep. I’m exhausted. I hurt. Still can’t sleep. It’s frustrating.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Naked book review: MURDER TAKES A VACATION by Laura Lippman
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
During the break I finished my puzzle. It’s a melon and a slice of melon. There’s a taiko drum in the upper right mini puzzle.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
Having a bleh night at Halloween rehearsal. One of those nights where I feel like there’s nothing left for me here.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Without saying your age, what is your favorite movie that came out when you were 20 years old?
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Ariel Thingamabobs
Alt: A scene from the animated "The Little Mermaid" of Ariel asking "You want thingamabobs?", opening a box containing the thingamabobs and she says, "I've got twenty."
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
I'm seriously considering opening an OF or JFF, especially if I hit 2000 followers on here.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Played with my dick this morning since no one around here seems interested.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Damn. I'm in the mood for a three way but it's late and no one's awake so I'm just going to grab my Fleshjack and watch some porn, I guess.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
Having a sit down as I hate to wait for a crust to cool before adding the filling. I’m sweating profusely.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
Another new pair of underwear.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
I have to do some work in the kitchen. Sadly I have no one to sit calmly on the floor with my dick in their mouth while I mix cookie dough.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
Trying some new briefs. Is it me?
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Ewww, I just got a huge blood clot coated in Aquiphor out of my donor ear.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
I'm home. I'll take pictures of the areas tomorrow when I'm allowed to shower because right now they hurt like a motherfucker and their gross looking with blood and betadine. I'm not showing that to anyone. Unless you really REALLY want to see that.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
Odd. When I reply to to some folks, I get a message stating that the original post was in some other language and do I want to write in that language. Is BSky translating stuff for us now?!
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Unfortunately I survived surgery. Now we wait for phase 2.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
I hate hospital grip socks. So much.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
It’s surgery day. I’ve been in the waiting room for half an hour.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Damn, depression is such a bitch. I'm super low again. It's like I never had TMS at all. All that work for roughly three months of relife and now I'm back to hoping I don't wake up the morning. I really wish this could stop. It's making me super crazy.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Had my bandage changed.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 23/08/2026
While perusing stuff on xhamster, I got curious as to what I'd get described by someone posting a video I was in. You know the kind of title: "[$TYPE OF MAN] breeds [$DESCRIPTION OF BOTTOM]" Not that I've made any porn. Probably not likely to ever happen.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
In between times where they sliced parts off of my ear today, I was reading a Superman collection and the evil group was a bunch of Bitcoin bros that met at a coffee shop on Wednesday evenings and Superman couldn't stop these meetings because it was crypto night.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
Hey there! I’ve been better. Between unemployment, surgeries and nothing going right I’m surprised I’m still here. ngl.link/blondbear
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 22/08/2026
Thank you! I definitely won the genetic lottery when it comes to hair. I’ve had some men want to shampoo it or slick it down for me but hasn’t happened yet. ngl.link/blondbear
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Here is my hernia. Look how big it is. It makes me hate myself. I’m scheduled to have it fixed on September 18th. Finally.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
Im blushing! Thank you. I’m 57 and I don’t have a passport so a European vacation is not possible right now sadly ngl.link/blondbear
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
Struggling a bit today. Wish I could figure out a way through this looping bad depression.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
Thank you! 😈🍆 I’ll have to do more! ngl.link/blondbear
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 18/08/2026
I want to start a fetish group for Star Wars fans that meets at bubble tea places and call it Boba FetLife.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
Thank you! I needed to hear that. When I have sex (which is rare) I usually straddle the face down guy and fuck him. Sometimes on his side with one leg pulled up. ngl.link/blondbear
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 17/08/2026
It’d be difficult with the pants around my ankles so you’ll have to settle for the jacket and boots. ngl.link/blondbear
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 16/08/2026
It's been a rough few days mood wise. Feels like I will have to live without hope or dreams for the rest of my life since nothing I do works nor ever seems to move forward. Feels like I've wasted the last 40 years of my life and I just want it to be over because it's too late. :-( FML.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
My first naked book chat as inspired by @tomtuttle.bsky.social
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
Who knew talking books was so exciting! Anyone need a bookmark?
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 15/08/2026
Taking a cue from @tomtuttle.bsky.social I’m recording my first naked book talk. I even wore a ring for the occasion.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
Dinner tonight. Homemade though the fries were frozen.
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Embracing daddyhood @blondbear.bsky.social · 11/08/2026
I'm scheduled for a hernia repair on the 18th of September. Faster than I anticipated. Yikes. But at least one part of my body that I hate will be fixed.
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