Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 16hThe only accurate info they have on me is years out of date - they correctly surmised that I had dogs and degus because I used to buy pet food regularly, but those guys have all passed on by now. 0151
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 16hI can recommend sharing an Amazon prime account with your entire family - the data they’ve collected on me is completely incoherent because 5 people use my account. I’m simultaneously an old man that likes fishing, a parent of young children, a tech nerd. 1394
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 20/09/2026that they‘re suddenly responsible for an unsupervised 5yo. I think you can talk about what a wild overreaction it was to give her jail time, without trying to say she was right in her decision-making. 110
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 20/09/2026100% disagree here, kids drown all the time at family pool parties with a dozen adults standing right there, because it’s quick and quiet and you don’t notice it happening unless you’re actively focusing on them. You can’t rely on someone to keep your kid from drowning if they don’t even know > 120
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 04/09/2026Are you saying that to yourself? Because you invested a shit ton of energy in trying to do bigot-whispering in a space where the bigots aren’t here to hear you, just a bunch of trans women who didn’t need you to condescend to them while backing up conservative talking points. 000
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 03/09/2026Where are the bigots you’re writing for? You commented on a thread by a trans woman. I promise you that transphobic bigots are not Talia’s audience. Please don’t speak to xer like you think xe or xer followers need the bigot handholding treatment. 110
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 29/08/2026Oh damn. I thought this was going to be another “mental illnesses are fake” thing but it’s actually the bleakest thing I’ve ever read. 020
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 21/07/2026The “space” you’re in is a comment thread in my wife’s replies. You have stepped into someone else’s space and made an arse of yourself. Nobody is trying to drive you off Bsky as a whole, but this specific thread? Yeah it’s not your space, get out. 041
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 21/07/2026Your values say that bigotry is okay against people you’ve deemed acceptable targets, which is why you whipped out some absolutely vile transmisogyny as soon as trans women started disagreeing with you. You are just another bigot, simple as that. 0191
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 21/07/2026I have called people out for being misogynistic about JKR actually, despite loathing her. So has Talia. It’s quite a normal thing to do when you have actual values that you believe in and don’t just pay lip service to. 1381
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 21/07/2026Autistic burnout sucks, I know, but it doesn’t give you the right to tell trans women that they aren’t women (which is what you did when you said Tate doesn’t affect “their community”) and cheerfully admit to using reactionary bullying when you feel it’s justified. Take the L and log off. 071
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 01/07/2026I love those puzzles ❤️ they remind me of my grandma lol 000
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 25/06/2026If you haven’t read Talia’s book Estro Junkies yet, you should 😇 060
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 16/06/2026UK is such a high-context culture that I think even neurotypical visitors often get a taste of the ND experience! Every interaction can have so many layers of hidden meaning and it often feels like there’s a joke you’re not in on, and you can offend people without even knowing what you did wrong. 040
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 14/06/2026I saw the discrimination towards Eastern European migrants increase as people felt more emboldened, I heard about them being told “we’re getting you out of our country”. Maybe if I’d been in a more liberal area I wouldn’t have been as acutely aware of the hate behind it. 120
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 14/06/2026Okay thinking about it from a kinder perspective, maybe this seemed more obvious to me because I lived in one of the most conservative, Leave-voting parts of the country. I was speaking to coworkers and acquaintances who were very open about voting Leave to get the foreigners out. 120
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 14/06/2026I fear that anyone claiming this was unclear is either lying or very stupid. 130
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 14/06/2026I was a young politically ignorant liberal at the time, so I was *barely* paying attention, and it was still obvious! Like, I was very aware that it was all based on anti-immigration and anti-human-rights sentiments that were a Very Bad Sign for our future, just from general observation. 150
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 28/05/2026It’s not Jess’s job to engage with and persuade everyone with a different view to theirs on bsky. If they tried to do that, they wouldn’t have any time to do their actual job as a legal researcher who is one of the most important and hard-working advocates for trans rights in Britain. 180
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/05/2026(SENCO = special educational needs co-ordinator, it’s literally her job to identify and provide accommodations for kids with special needs) 121
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/05/2026Yep. My mum is a TA in a primary school and she asked the SENCO about RSD because my niece struggles with it. SENCO had never heard of it and was completely dismissive when my mum tried to tell her about it. The edpsych blaming ADHD on single mums was like 10y ago, but the RSD thing was last week. 121
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/05/2026Yes she is cavorting around bouncing and kicking out her little feet 🥰 (not really but the mental image is adorable) 150
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 16/05/2026I was the cis proofreader and I loved it, I’m def going to make some of my friends read it who are more normal, less trans-socialised cis women lol. 040
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 14/05/2026Ah well if that bastion of journalism recommends it then it must be standard everywhere. I’m sure they report on the murders of trans women much more sensitively. 0300
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 14/05/2026Go find me an example of a news article using they/them to refer to a cis person in the context you’ve described. It should be easy, since it’s the standard guideline and all. In fact, why don’t you just show me the style guide for one of the many press outlets that recommends this? 1340
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 13/05/2026I guess their argument would be that they’re choosing to compete for the money, and being forced to endure feminisation as a side effect. It’s “oh nooo I’m being fooorced 😏” fem. (Which is most forcefem anyway I guess) 040
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 13/05/2026I realised the other day that when spanking kids is legal, they have to put a max age in the law where it stops being ok. In England, slapping someone is assault unless they’re 2-16yo and you’re “correcting” them in which case it’s fine. Who put that in writing and thought “yeah this is normal”?! 190
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 13/05/2026Also writing strongly worded emails to the company that makes Frubes telling them to think of autistic children before they change the packaging, bc now she’s lost that safe food. That might not help her but it made her mum feel a bit better. 0392
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 13/05/2026Things that have helped this 5yo: being allowed to graze through the day, offering several food options to choose from, being allowed to watch TV while eating so she’ll actually sit still long enough to eat a meal. All “bad parenting” by some standards, but letting her starve would be worse! 11249
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 07/05/2026This has happened to me before too! I wrote to my MP years ago urging him to vote against a proposed ban on queer inclusive RSE in schools. He replied reassuring me that he too was very concerned about queer propaganda in schools and fully intended to vote for the ban. Thanks dude. 010
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 05/05/2026The first paragraph is a screenshot of a post. The following paragraphs are responding to the screenshotted post. 100
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 03/05/2026I recently saw a video of someone sharing their “paranormal experience“ with a woman who looked and acted weird and said that she hadn’t slept in 3 days because god had entrusted her with a message, and then mysteriously disappeared. This was presented as some sort of demonic encounter. 🤦♀️ poor woman 010
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 29/04/2026That’s so cute and exactly the kind of association I want 🥰 010
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 27/04/2026(I was briefly considering returning to posting on here more, but I’ve been unable to access the site at all for the last two days because an error made it stop working on mobile browsers, and today it is taking forever to type a post because the site barely works. I’m done.) 070
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 27/04/2026It’s the “which are a huge turn-on for Jim” of it all that makes me sick - I FULLY support everyone’s right to play with hormones and have fun with it, regardless of gender/sexuality, but why are we framing this like it’s all about titillating men? 🤮 18714
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 02/04/2026Obviously that doesn’t change what the comments are saying, but I feel like the context is important - these probably aren’t people who claim reading as a great hobby or personality trait, they’re just random people who may well not have touched a book since high school. 020
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 02/04/2026I know it’s fun to shit on booktok, but I’m almost certain I’ve seen the video these comments are from and it’s not from booktok at all, it’s literally just a silly video by a couple whose content is mostly humour and usually has nothing to do with books. 132
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/03/2026One of them literally used the phrase ”if you smell shit everywhere you go, check your own shoes” and when I said that concept doesn’t apply when a marginalised person is talking about experiencing bigotry, I was heavily downvoted. 000
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/03/2026Personally I haven’t used Reddit since I saw a convo on r/CuratedTumblr where people were saying “if a trans woman of colour says she struggles to find queer community because she keeps running into racists and transmisogynists, that means she’s purity testing and thinks she’s better than us” 100
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/03/2026Yeah, there definitely is also a very small but loud and wrong crowd of trans women that do seem to have a problem with *all* trans men just for being trans men, but I know you’re not one of those at all. 010
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/03/2026(I don’t use Reddit so I can’t help with the rest of your question but you seemed to think she was talking about all trans men in general so I wanted to clarify that) 000
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 18/03/2026When she says tMRA, Chhavi doesn’t mean “activist for the rights of trans men”, she means “Men’s Rights Activist who is trans”. If you’re familiar with redpill manosphere MRA rhetoric you will see the difference. the vast majority of trans men are not tMRAs. 110
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 17/03/2026Sorry but I have to ask - are you calling him a tard, or did you just unnecessarily censor the word turd and accidentally make it look like a way more offensive actual slur? 110
Blaize @blaizebhatt.bsky.social · 07/03/2026“Now time to take a big sip of coffee and read the last part of the chapter…” 😃☕️ 140
