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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 8h

Everyone should know that I’m both a slut and a romantic at heart ngl.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 8h

Not me getting sad about not being able to live with both of my partners

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

What do you mean I need the unofficial transcripts from every college I went to…why do I need to out myself by putting down where I went to highschool…I’m days away from being 30 oh my god.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 15/10/2026

Started my grad schools apps yesterday and got so anxious about it I barely slept.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 11/10/2026

Working my first art market tomorrow and I have no clue wtf I’m doing plus I lost my new pen

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Oatmeal is back in the hospital, I get added to a class late, sick for weeks, flea infestation, guy tries to beat me up, guy tries to mug me, Scully almost dies, car is fucked…. What the fuck is going on

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Swear to god someone put the evil eye on David and me.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

It’s especially insidious because the argument being used against McKinsey is essentially “I’ll always believe CIS WOMEN before a MAN and he deserves it for taking the EVIL HORMONE” like come the fuck on.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Cis people forget how abusers work when the abuser in question is cis. Transsexuals can’t be DARVO’ed apparently.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Also I’m so sorry but if my wife and in-laws subjected me to transphobic violence in my own home (such as punching me in the chest during top surgery recovery, threatening to pull my drains, hitting me with a frying pan) I too would use any means necessary to defend myself and lose it.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

His ex-wife is also a child abuser. It’s recorded in court documents that she would call their child “a queer” and berate him.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Cis people forth at the mouth for an excuse to kill a trans person, especially when it’s child abuse. The child abuse allegations against Johnathan McKinsey are that he let his son wear dresses.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

My final take is that we need to stop letting weird anti-social faux revolutionaries talk to people crazy. Call them out for what they are and if you get “cancelled” by them and their followers that’s a good thing lol.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Literally gay bars and events for queer men get shat on and made fun of for being primarily sex focused (yay yippie!) and idk for not being weird about drug use (also yay yippie!) by the right and weirdo respectability oriented libs.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

My one take on this is weaponized identity politics is gonna be the end of us.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Fiancé just read the greenfield lesbian bar article out loud and like…idk man wish this had stayed insane local news lol.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Nearly all my professors are using AI this semester and I’m so fucking pissed.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

Yes the painting about how I developed a phobia of injections because of my time in vet med is so totally “hrt vibes”….anyways.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

Thinking about how my fwb-situationship looked at a painting about one of the most traumatic events of my life and went “it’s giving hrt vibes” -_-

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Tom Wallach @mdwallach.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

I want to make sure everyone in the city is aware that SUNY Downstate operates a large and extremely skilled LGBTQ and gender affirming care clinic, and we have repeatedly reiterated our intention to go to jail before we stop.

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Charles Pulliam-Moore @charlespulliam.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

Seen a lot of people responding to this with “I’m just going to pirate the show,” and I want to gently remind everyone that the central idea in this piece is that there’s no way to engage with the Potter franchise in any capacity that doesn’t benefit Rowling and her bigotry

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

School starts and my formerly rat infested apartment building has fucking fleas again??? Just fucking kill me.

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sWitch, A Real Live Dead One @switch-is.online · 21/08/2026

point blank here: if you want less "narcissistic abusers" shut the fuck up about them and actually read about what abuse already is instead of diagnosing someone who treated you like shit with Superabuser Disease and making up shit about how no actually what you went through is special and different

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

I keep pisisng in these Florida bathrooms.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Oh shit I didn’t know that bit about that tweet (sucks that people latched on to it in that way). But I do think that for a certain subset of people, disability status is used in this very weird and awful self-infantalizing way where they never have to learn and grow.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

People really think anyone who’s autistic is a giant baby who can’t be awful and definitely can’t be held accountable lol. Also what’s that tweet where it’s like “damn you bitches can’t do anything” because like…yeah

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

This is one of those moments where someone needs to go “hey that’s not autism…that’s just misogyny”.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Oh hell yeah you’ll be set lol. Also if you’re looking for something specific I really like using EBay lol.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Oh tbh you just need to find someone with a sewing machine and chill with them lol. Literally getting into garment care and diy alternations has saved my ass lol.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 12/08/2026

Honestly go find a queer mending club/ a mending cafe near you. I’ve hemmed so many of my pants and learned how to use a sewing machine for free lol.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

Maybe it’s because I’m Eastern European but I think they should allow doping in sports.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 10/08/2026

I’m…oh wow that really is a choice

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Anyways I just saved a 100% linen shirt from being tight and wrinkled forever.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 07/08/2026

Love that I graduated therapy and also became a clothing nerd. Somehow these two things are connected.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

I mean I did get high after this but at what cost?

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

Went to an ENT because I had a sinus infection that wouldn’t go away. When he went to numb up my nose he said “everyone one says this feels good” and sprayed my nose with an unknown substance. It was Oxy and I failed my surgery clearance the next day. He’s being sued for doing this to his PTs btw.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 06/08/2026

Recent commission I just finished. If you’re interested in getting art work from me, send me a DM

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👁️🍄🪸 @bloomfilters.plus · 05/08/2026

can you guys retire "the right wing / chuds don't know what to do with trans men and forget they exist and will be So Confused by them!!!!" already. they are fully aware trans men exist and the thing they do to trans men is violently abuse and murder them

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Also bonus doodle of how I’m feeling rn

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

Anyways thanks for scrolling through this, I do appreciate any views, downloads, donations, and obviously sharing this around! Thanks.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

bignastyhomo.itch.io/thank-god-i-... Thank God I Don't Look Like My Mom Anymore is a hand drawn short comic-zine that strives to answer one of the biggest questions that has come up in my many years of therapy: why does my mom hate me so much?

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Thank God I Don't Look Like My Mom Anymore by BigNastyHomo

A short zine about part of my mom's whole deal.

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

bignastyhomo.itch.io/trans-adoles... The Trans Adolescence zine is a basic guide to the Transgender Emergence Model and how it relates to the stages of adolescence and identity formation.

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Trans Adolescence Zine by BigNastyHomo

A short intoduction to the Transgender Emergence Model for cis people

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

bignastyhomo.itch.io/hygiene Hygiene is all about my updated shower and self care routine, hopefully you might learn something new about transitioning and selfceare.

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Hygiene by BigNastyHomo

A comic about my selfcare routine

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

bignastyhomo.itch.io/i-25 A short story I wrote about one of the most bizarre ghost encounters I've ever had.

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I-25 by BigNastyHomo

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Baph(He/him) @bignastyhomo.bsky.social · 05/08/2026

bignastyhomo.itch.io/you-cant-mak... You Can't Make Me Choose is a manifesto/ autobiographical zine about my isolation as a gay transsexual man.

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You Can't Make Me Choose by BigNastyHomo

A manifesto/ autobiographical zine

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