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Ben

@benherotkboy.bsky.social
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Non-vanilla. I like when a woman takes charge and I know what it's like to be turned over her knee. F/m spanking enthusiast. Feminist. Appreciative, love to serve. Fun!

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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
It's like neverending, evolving trauma. I try to focus on something like music or art. I hope you can find something to help with coping!
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 10/10/2026
I'm so very sorry 😞
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Matriarchy Now @matriarchy.now · 09/10/2026
Masculine men don't simp for Nazis.
Masculine men don't worship billionaires.
Masculine men don't cry over pronouns.
Masculine men don't fear feminism.
Masculine men fight for the oppressed.
Masculine men fight fascism.
Masculine men are for equality.
Masculine men are self-aware.
Masculine men are woke.
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Matriarchy Now @matriarchy.now · 02/10/2026
Society says "young men are turning to the far right because of feminists" and not "young women are turning to feminism because of far right men" is because the first rule of patriarchy is to blame women for everything a man does.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
It's sickening.
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Lady Sublime @ladysublime.bsky.social · 25/09/2026
These boots were made for spankin'. ALL My boots were made for spankin', darlin'... I own many, packing several. Will you be bent over before or after I unpack? Lone Star Spanking Party Houston Nov 5-8, 2026 I'm running the Naughty Boys party. Lovely Ladies spanking the naughty out of bad boys.
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Matriarchy Now @matriarchy.now · 24/09/2026
The most beautiful woman in the world is the one who protects and supports other women. --SANDRA BULLOCK
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
🙁
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
😍💓💞
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Oh how I wish I could be getting that!! 🥺 ❤️
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Is that a real song?? I'm curious what it is!
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Happy birthday, Erica!! 🙂 🎉
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Matriarchy Now @matriarchy.now · 21/09/2026
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Miss Chris ✈️ London, England @misschris.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
My toys aren't as pretty or produced as others. They are just some handmade pervertibles made out of tack & chew toys. All my straps are made out of the best leather you can find for impact. Amish made latigo. It's perfectly broken in right from the moment you buy it. 🤩 misschristexastoys.etsy.com
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 19/09/2026
Happy birthday! 🙂 When I would tell my age back in my 50s I would usually add "…and I don't feel a day over 80!" Hope you have a nice day.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
I love this!! It's so wonderful that you found your passion for spanking and domestic discipline! 🥰
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
I'm sorry 🥺
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Missy @missyotk.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
How wants a hairbrush spanking . Email missy to book to see me.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
😳💓 🥵
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
And in many cases, such as inventions and scientific discoveries, men took credit for what a woman had done, and buried the truth.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Oh, I think it's partly psychological. Although I didn't get it myself, I went to a private school where they used it. It was frightening but electrifying at the same time. Once I was an adult and started doing sessions, I grew to appreciate the feeling of the impact. And the drama of it!!
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Despicable is far too mild a term for him. It's sickening that we're even in this situation.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
😍 indeed!
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Build the Matriarchy @buildthematriarchy.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
If Democrats win in November and don't do the following IMMEDIATELY, we should have a general strike: 1) Impeach and remove 2) Turn the Epstein files into trials 3) Defund Israel 4) End the war in Iran
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
An experienced prosecutor whose experience includes work involving child sexual assault issues. I would put Kamala Harris in charge of prosecuting the people in this current administration.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
Claudia Sheinbaum!
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Matriarchy Now @matriarchy.now · 09/09/2026
Women dressed in conservative robes and hoods, leaving a voting booth wearing common clothing.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
The frequency with which I was getting the flu dropped at least 90% once I started getting the flu shot. That was a good 15 years ago or more. I think I've had the flu once or at most twice since then.
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mainewomenforward.bsky.social @mainewomenforward.bsky.social · 07/09/2026
This cartoon was created by Pulitzer Prize winning artist Adam Zyglis for The Buffalo News in November, 2024. It hits even harder now.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 06/09/2026
I LOVE this!! We are clearly in End-stage Capitalism & the die off of the dinosaurs of patriarchy. There are huge battles ahead… so Matriarchy, empathy, and TRUE liberty and justice for all - with no one left behind - is the vision we must pursue with everything within us!
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Matriarchy Now @matriarchy.now · 06/09/2026
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 05/09/2026
🤬
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Miss Chris ✈️ London, England @misschris.bsky.social · 04/09/2026
Mark your calendars for Sept 29th and my Female Led Domestic Discipline Relationships class. This class does focus on Female Doms/Tops, but there are tips for male Doms/Tops, too. venusiansociety.com/femme-led-do...
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
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Lady Sublime @ladysublime.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
I'm not a FinDomme, but a professional FLR Domme. The difference? FinDom: Money is the fetish. Transactional. Humiliating. Compensated FemDom: Money facilitates the FLR. Professional. Structured. Seeking sub who knows the difference. More info coming. Re-skeet for visibility. #FLR #FemDom #TPE
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 01/09/2026
😅
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Aw, too bad!! 😏 🎻
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Maisie Williams ✊🏻
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
WTF??
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 30/08/2026
Boooo 🙁
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 29/08/2026
I try to log in to LinkedIn once every 10 years or so, just for good measure.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
I just love how you're thinking here!! 😁🥰
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Sasswillynilly @carolinetrued.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
We are 51% of the world. We build those babies inside of us...closest thing to a creator on this planet. Support women. Believe the victims, usually women. Stop blaming the women.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
I wonder. It's kind of sad.
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
It doesn't work for me, either 😕
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 27/08/2026
I understand ❤️
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
It's wonderful to see you post here again! ❤️ Please, Lady Sublime, I beg you not to ride in a car with your feet up like that, though! 🥺🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 If the airbags should go off, it would almost certainly result in broken bones and serious injury 😭💔😭
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
I believe they may be. I saw someone who is kind of an insider, attending social events among the "tech bros." He said one thing that seemed pervasive was that those who were in prominent industry positions were practically obsessed with the idea of immortality if we can "merge" with technology…
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Ben @benherotkboy.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Back when I was studying China, I learned about this society. I thought it was quite interesting! www.bbc.com/travel/artic...
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China’s ‘Kingdom of Women’
In the foothills of the Himalayas lies picture-perfect Lugu Lake, the home of the Mosuo people and the gateway to a mysterious land often dubbed ‘The Kingdom of Women’.
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