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A. Westgate (she/they)

@awilderwestgate.bsky.social
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queer, AuDHD, chronically ill | poet & artist | hopeful romantic | expert crier | part-time creator | full-time dreamer | perpetual tryer | Hobbit aspirer | linktr.ee/TheWilderNest

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Livingstans @livingstans.com · 04/09/2025
The perfect place to read Seaborn by @michaellivingston.com. 🌊Photo credit @awilderwestgate.bsky.social. #BookSky #Livingstans
A sandy beach scene where reader is holding Seaborn by Michael Livingston. The cover is blue and gold and shows a pirate ship and air ship.
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 23/03/2025
If this sounds like you, I shared some resources I've found recently and things that are working for me (as a chronically ill AuDHDer) to help trim the excess from my life: open.substack.com/pub/writingw...
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Trimming the excess
A messy middle post about working to create a right-sized life.
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 23/03/2025
"There is just TOO MUCH ALL OF THE TIME and I am not equipped to handle it all. I think no one is, really, but I am certainly among those with a smaller window of tolerance. I’ll never be a minimalist, but I need as much calm and coziness as possible in order to be genuinely well."
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 23/03/2025
A quote from my recent post on Substack: "An important thing I’ve come to realize about myself is that I have a low clutter threshold. And I don’t just mean physical clutter, I mean all clutter — physical, yes, but also mental, emotional, etc."
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Alt CDC (they/them) @altcdc.altgov.info · 05/03/2025
Good morning friends ❤️ Rise and Resist ✊Time to break out the poster board and markers! @standupforscience.bsky.social is this friday!
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Bilbo Yaga @bilboyaga.bsky.social · 02/03/2025
Many folks want to organize right now but aren’t sure how. There are many ways; that’s the hard part AND the beauty of it. This model by Leah Penniman, illustrated by Christine Tyler Hill, shows how comprehensive social change requires many strategies. We need all of us. Find your role and begin.
Four Wings Of Movement Collaboration 
- Leah Penniman

A butterfly is drawn with four segments of its wings, each labeled RESIST, BUILD, REFORM, and HEAL. Within each winglet, examples are written, and they’re described in detail along the edges of the illustration. 

RESISTING oppression via direct action—think Occupy, protests, boycotts, marches, treesitting, etc.

BUILDING new worlds and systems—think co-ops, community ownership models, land trusts, social networks, food hubs, organic farms, etc.

REFORMING existing systems to shift power and resources—think holding elected office, advocacy, institutional leadership, etc.

HEALING individual and collective trauma—think art and experience-making, storytelling, medicine-making, therapy, music, etc.
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
If you like list posts, here's my end-of-the-month roundup of mundane magics that have brought me joy and helped me stay sane (also features a poem I wrote for a grieving loved one): writingwilder.substack.com/p/end-of-feb...
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End of February | 2025
A roundup of mundane magics and writing worth sharing
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Lucy 🇺🇲🇺🇦🐾♿️💙 @juice2024.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
🇺🇲 #economicblackout #theresistance
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Michael LaBorn @michaellaborn.bsky.social · 25/02/2025
To meet my goal, I need to convince 199 people to subscribe to my publishing community… in two days. That’s… that’s a lot. But I’ve seen what this space can do. So let’s do this! If you can spare $5 or $12 and think Black & brown books matter, please subscribe! 💪🏽 Leftunreadbooks.binderybooks.com
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
No gods, no masters, no scope for the imagination
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
A recent poem I shared to Instagram - I've largely forgotten to use it the last couple of years. Most of my writing is on Substack (including this poem). #poetry
(Dated Nov 2024)

the rest of it

I don't know if my 3-year-old really believes 
my kisses can heal his boo-boos, but I know 
he comes to me with every bump and bruise, 
his arm or toe or chin held out to wait for me 
to kiss them, to make it okay again. 

There are so many problems 
I cannot solve, so much uncertainty, 
but I know I can kiss this bit of pain away, 
and something about that makes me feel like 
maybe I can face the rest of it. 

(@a.wilder.westgate)
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 24/02/2025
I recently wrote a guest post about friendship loss through a neurodivergent lens on my friend Hanna's Substack. 🧡 open.substack.com/pub/purposef... #AuDHD #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent
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Do You Still Think About Me?
A collaboration: Friendship loss through a neurodivergent lens.
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BillyD3 ☁️ @billyd3.bsky.social · 22/02/2025
Reasons to Live Through the Apocalypse

Sunrises. People you have still to meet and laugh with. Songs about love, peace, anger, and revolution. Walks in the woods.
The smile you exchange with a stranger when you experience beauty accidentally together. Butterflies. Seeing your grandparents again. The moon in all her forms, whether half or full. Dogs.
Birthdays and half-birthdays. That feeling of floating in love. Watching birds eat from bird feeders. The waves of happiness that follow the end of sadness. Brown eyes. Watching a boat cross an empty sea. Sunsets. Dipping your feet in the river. Balconies. Cake. The wind in your face when you roll the car window down on an open highway. Falling asleep to the sound of a steady heartbeat. Warm cups of tea on cold days. Hugs. Night skies. Art museums. Books filled with everything you do not yet know.
Long conversations. Long-lost friends. Poetry.

- Nikita Gill
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 05/02/2025
Why, yes, I *am* aggressively annotating this gorgeous edition of Anne of Green Gables and having the time of my life. #BookSky #AuDHD #joy
A beautiful floral covered edition of Anne of Green Gables being held with annotation supplies.
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 31/01/2025
I share my writing (poetry, personal essays, and monthly roundups with mundane magics and little blurbs about books I've read, etc) at writingwilder.substack.com
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Writing Wilder | A. Wilder Westgate | Substack
Poems and personal essays by a queer, neurodivergent, chronically ill parent hoping for a gentler world. Click to read Writing Wilder, by A. Wilder Westgate, a Substack publication. Launched 2 years a...
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A. Westgate (she/they) @awilderwestgate.bsky.social · 31/01/2025
Hi! I'm A. I'm a queer, AuDHD writer and married parent of 2 tiny humans & 3 fur babies (pictured: River Song, Tabitha, Kit). I love reading, crafting/art, and puzzles. I'm mostly here for comforting book/creative content & pet/nature photos. If any of that appeals to you, feel free to say hi!
A top-down photo of a brindle coloured dog with a cactus collar, laying against a slippered foot.A profile of a grey/tan/orange/black striped cat with dilated amber coloured eyes, looking at something off to the side intently.A black cat lying on her back with her eyes closed, contentedly getting pets and getting in the way of a project.
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