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I'm Gary Domasin. I write "Ask Uncle Gary," a syndicated advice column. I answer with humor and plain talk, drawing on my work as a USC lecturer, an HMI-trained hypnotherapist, and a hairstylist with 20+ years behind the chair. AskUncleGary.com

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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 15/10/2026
Some of us grew up hearing "you can't." The job now is making sure our kids only hear "I'm proud of you." The cycle stops with whoever decides to stop it. #GenerationalTrauma #Parenting #Support/Guidance #❤️ #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
So I went on this date... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/so-i-went-on...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
Pole Fitness Dancer... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/pole-fitness...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
I’m the only one in my friend group... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/im-the-only-...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
How do I rebuild... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/how-do-i-reb...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
I just turned 40... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/i-just-turne...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
My husband told his family I was unfaithful... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/my-husband-t...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
Milk Man... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/milk-man/
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
I pushed him away, and he laughed... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/i-pushed-him...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 14/10/2026
Is it weird that I enjoy eating dinner alone? www.askunclegary.com/is-it-weird-... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
One of Us... #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/one-of-us/
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 08/10/2026
You don't need a supercar or PCH at sunset to get straight advice. You need someone who'll tell you the truth and skip the flattery. Bring your question on work, love, money, or family. Smart minds seek wisdom, not approval. AskUncleGary.com #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
A reader asked whether he should ask out his dentist. Great smile, lots of close contact, no clear signals. My answer: Look for a signal outside the chair. If nothing shows up there, let it go. #AskUncleGary #ProfessionalBoundaries #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/ive-develope...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
Watch who claps when things go well for you. Encouragement costs nothing. Support costs nothing. A real compliment costs nothing. The people who refuse to give any of it are telling you exactly where they are. #AskUncleGary #Mindset #GoodPeople
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 29/07/2026
Dear Uncle Gary, How do I stop doomscrolling without feeling like I’m missing the end of the world? Signed, Worried Scroller #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/how-do-i-sto...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 21/07/2026
Dear Uncle Gary, I recently spent the day with a longtime friend I hadn’t seen in over a year. We attended university together, and he and his… www.askunclegary.com/my-friend-ha...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
Dear Uncle Gary, I’ve been dating someone wonderful for about six months. We laugh a lot, the chemistry’s great, and I’m genuinely crazy about her. But … www.askunclegary.com/curious-but-...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
Dear Uncle Gary, Our son is coming home from college, and he’s bringing someone he cares about, his boyfriend. We love our son deeply, but… #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn www.askunclegary.com/good-christi...
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 13/06/2026
Last night, we gathered at the Huntington Library Rose Garden to celebrate the LGBTQ artists, donors, and scholars in our community this Pride month. It was great to see everyone who came out. #AskUncleGary #lgbt #gay #gaypride #pride #aneveningamongtheroses
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 02/05/2026
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 22/03/2026
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 11/02/2026
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 09/12/2025
𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy www.AskUncleGary.blog
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 01/12/2025
𝐀𝐬𝐤 𝐔𝐧𝐜𝐥𝐞 𝐆𝐚𝐫𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐦𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐈 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬. 𝐃𝐌 𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #Husbuddy
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 27/11/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 27/11/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 27/11/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 26/11/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 19/11/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 18/11/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 23/09/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 21/09/2025
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
#AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #HereToHelp I’ve just stepped into a national tour as the second hair supervisor, replacing someone who bailed for another gig. It’s been one week, and already I’m caught between two camps. 📍To read the full post, click on www.AskUncleGary.com link in the bio.
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
#AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #HereToHelp “Whenever I’d mope around as a kid, whining about being bored, my mom would say this line like a truth bomb: ‘If you’re bored, it means you’re boring.’ No pity, just a nudge toward curiosity and gratitude. It stuck.”
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
#AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #SoCalMag #HereToHelp My adult child just came out as trans. I want to be supportive, but I’m terrified of saying the wrong thing. Where do I start? 📍To read the full post, click on www.AskUncleGary.com link in the bio.
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
Dear Uncle Gary, My best friend just started dating my ex. They say it’s love, but I feel betrayed. Am I being petty, or do I have a right to be upset? Signed Betrayed #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #Betryed Dear Betrayed, You’re not...👇 👉📍To read the full post, click on the Substack link in the bio.
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
Dear Uncle Gary, I’m stuck in a job that pays well but drains my soul. Is it reckless to walk away without a backup plan? Signed Reckless #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn #Reckless Dear Reckless, You're absolutely... Click to read the rest. 👇 📍To read the full post, click on the Substack link in the bio.
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AskUncleGary.com @askunclegary.bsky.social · 09/09/2025
This gorgeous wall was created by a woman going through a nasty divorce. She smashed wedding crockery every day of the proceedings, then kept the shards & recreated this beauty. #AskUncleGary #AdviceColumn
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