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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

Beau passed a year ago today. We woke up to find he’d passed from a seizure overnight. I never said anything bc it’s just so painful. Its been so hard on Bikas. Beau was his safe space & now he’s going through his last years without him 😞 We miss him so terribly much. Our best yellow 💔

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 06/05/2026

They should have John Hamm narrate car commercials like he talks about valuables in #YourFriends&Neighbors

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Mad Men: Don Draper (Jon Hamm) Driving

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 04/04/2026

Hey, why don’t movie theaters have subtitles? I know a lot of them have assistive devices, but what about people who aren’t deaf but just can’t hear that well, neurodivergent people who zone out & miss lines, ppl who wear earplugs bc the sound’s too loud? I feel like like that would lift a barrier?

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a person with a tattoo on their wrist is pointing at a screen with a cc icon and a gear icon .

Alt: a person with a tattoo on their wrist is clicking a closed captions icon on a screen

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 04/04/2026

We just got out of #projecthailmary and it was sooooo good 😭 I need a Rocky @funko.bsky.social 🥰🪨

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 06/02/2026

Update: I canceled. But here's why. I requested an order for an Automated Breast Ultrasound from my GP, and checked that the hospital would take it. They said they would. So I'll reschedule when the order goes through.

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 04/02/2026

I have my first mammogram tomorrow 😭 I don’t want a complete stranger to touch my boobs. 😭 I don’t want to plop them on a surface and squish them hard between plates 😭 If this was a man’s penis they never would’ve thought squishing 😭

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Six @sixamcc.bsky.social · 03/02/2026

It’s UPDATE DAY🚨 so here’s what to keep in mind: ✅Remove your Mods folder ✅Backup your saves ✅Backup your Trays ❌Don't re-enable Mods if don’t feel ready for it ⚠️Check in with your favorite creators for updates 🛃Report new issues at help.ea.com LET'S GO!! Have doubts? sixam.cc/sims-4-updat...

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Sims 4 Update Day: 7 Simple Steps To Protect Mods And Saves

Stay safe on Sims 4 Update Day. Follow these 7 simple steps to protect your mods and saves, and keep your game running smoothly after every patch.

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 23/01/2026

I deleted my TikTok this morning because I got this popup & I couldn’t find an option to turn off my location on the app - or in my phone’s location services settings. I just looked for an article on that & there’s no one reporting on it & the @nytimes.com article says otherwise. Did I dream that??

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crin@Gamescom @crinrict.com · 12/01/2026

Sims 4 Patch day tomorrow. Time for backups and removing mods/cc or turn off your automatic updates. Please also re-read this: forums.ea.com/blog/the-sim... My blog post from 2015 is also still valid: sims4.crinrict.com/eng/2015/06/...

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Mods + Game Updates: Best Practices and Getting You Back Into The Sims 4 | EA Forums - 12938569

Sul Sul, Simmers, As many of you already know, after any base game update any mods or CC you have installed are disabled as you might need to update some of... - 12938569

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 12/01/2026

Can’t wait for tomorrow’s Coach update!! As a fan of Coach myself, it was really wild to get to produce this. And to have my Brooklyn bag in game! The team did such a beautiful job recreating these items 💗 #CoachSims www.ea.com/games/the-si...

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 29/11/2025

Went back to Greenville for Thanksgiving & got to see all the youths in my life 💗 So weird when kids get old enough to drive & live on their own. I’m still 30 ok 😭

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 19/08/2025

Time to update your TS4 games, y'all 💗 I'll share the patch notes when they're up, but for now, my team's part: MORE SKIN DETAILS!!! Get wrinkles, freckles, more stretch marks, age & dark spots, & rosacea. Read the Dev Diary I put together if you like for more info 🙂 www.ea.com/games/the-si...

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The Sims 4 Drops New Skin Details: Wrinkles, Spots, Stretch Marks and More!

The latest free update to Skin Details in Create a Sim!

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 08/07/2025

Our Dorian passed three weeks today. It's been especially hard dealing with this one, & I've not really wanted to post about it, but so many knew & loved him through my stream, so. I had him from a couple weeks old to 15 & a half. It was very sudden & I think that's made it harder. I want him back.

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Trillyke 🦋 @trillyke.bsky.social · 11/06/2025

Inspired by an extremely cute fit in Palia, this set includes a buttefly motif off shoulder top, a short puffy layered skirt, thigh high stockings and a pair of the most darling Mary Jane heels! ✨ #TheSims4

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Destiny 🎨 @destiesimbestie.bsky.social · 11/06/2025

not enough queerness on my tl so i am bringing the queer🫶🏻

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Yagatha @babayagatha.bsky.social · 07/06/2025

A very veggie tiny sprout ☺️🥦 #TheSims4 #Showusyoursims

A Sims 4 toddler with green skin and hair

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Palia @playpalia.com · 12/06/2025

Servers are down for maintenance! Friendly reminder downtime will last around 3 hours. In the meantime, check out the Radiance Rising (Patch 0.192) patch notes! ☀️ palia.com/news/patch-192

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Patch Notes 0.192: Radiance Rising Update

Soak up the sun with the Radiance Rising update! This patch is packed with fresh adventures, cozy customization, and breezy decor to celebrate the season! Whether you’re decorating, exploring, or disc...

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 08/06/2025

@techniq.bsky.social is this you I see on the #logitechgaming website?! 👀 cool to see you there! 👏🏻

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 01/05/2025

Thanks everyone for the love for Cookie. It’s been really hard, especially since I was just taking her in to get checked out. We miss her so much. We’d never give back the 5 years we had with her though. The love an older animal rescued from a bad situation is unlike no other. 💗

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 26/04/2025

We had to say goodbye to our Cookie yesterday. Was the sweetest little soul. 14 year old dachshund-labradoodle mix. Followed my husband home while I was live on Twitch. No more pain for her, but big sads for us. Schnoo-Schnoo. Princess Mononokee. Cookie-dook. Hot honey chicken nuggie. Beebeebee 💗😞

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 15/04/2025

Annual-ish reminder to add experience from the #gaming & #streaming industry to your resume if you’re applying for a job in it! Thought I’d share mine from 2020. It’s a little excessive but I was up against more experienced people. Went hard on the Sims theme since I was applying for Spark’d CM! 🥰

Image of my resume from 2020 showing not only work experience within 5 years but also my experience with The Sims, the community, gaming, streaming, & community management!

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Peacemaker @peacemaker-ic.bsky.social · 13/04/2025

Whispers Expanded - Unofficial Businesses and Hobbies Addon with 24 Items #TheSims4 #TS4 #TS4CC DL: simsationaldesigns.blogspot.com/2025/04/whis... Wasn't expecting to out this out on my birthday, but here it is 😅

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SpringSims @springsims.com · 13/04/2025

OMG OMG OMG!!! Creators For Haiti Team just surpassed $5k!!! @hopeforhaiti.bsky.social @tiltify.com If you want to help fundraise for Hope For Haiti or donate you still can! tiltify.com/+hope-for-ha...

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The Sims Nostalgia @thesimsnostalgia.bsky.social · 13/04/2025

Do you remember SimTown? (1995)

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ABNewcrest | Sims 4 Builds 🏡 @abnewcrest.bsky.social · 13/04/2025

New Sims mansion in the gallery: "Sea Salt Country House" 🛋 Fully furnished 🍀 Functional & playtested 🏘 Packs used: Horse Ranch, Life and Death ✅ No CC 📐 40x30 EA-ID: ABNewcrest #sims

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Gryphi @gryphi.bsky.social · 13/04/2025

Sleek Studio Apartment // The Sims 4 Speed Build: Apartment Renovation youtu.be/fYcryZupFmc

Neutral Studio Apartment full of plants in The Sims 4

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 12/04/2025

On another note, I've been trying to make a wealthy family for the Affluistta Mansion lot to go across from my family for the Gather in the Courtyard lot. The theme is a sort of luxury African feel and I'm trying but it's so big it's breaking my brain 😭

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 12/04/2025

Thought I'd answer a couple questions about the Pride flags from the recent #TheSims4 update! Hope it helps 🥰 3 new flag swatches: omnisexual, 5 stripe gay men's, & the 7 stripe gay men's. We split them up so in future we can add more without overloading each item with too many swatches. ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜

Image of 8 Pride flags from The Sims 4. This item includes community flags, & flags that don't fall under Gender Identity or Sexual Orientation.

Image of 6 Pride flags swatches from The Sims 4. This item includes flags that represent various Gender Identities.

Image of 11 Pride flags swatches from The Sims 4. This item includes flags that represent various Sexual Orientations. It also includes the newest flag swatches: omnisexual, 5 stripe gay men's, & 7 stripe gay men's.

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EnglishSimmer @englishsimmer.bsky.social · 03/04/2025

with so many bigots constantly being so loud recently, it’s nice to see that with the sims 4 the gays just keep winning tbh 💪🏼 every build is a different pride flag just got a massive upgrade with this sdx drop youtu.be/qNRZGyrj9uw

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Sims 4 just got even more gay! New Pride Items SDX Update

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Gryphi @gryphi.bsky.social · 08/04/2025

Colorful Pride Dorm Room 🏳️‍🌈 // The Sims 4 Speed Build youtu.be/iFcYe5V6ZPE

Dorm Room in The Sims 4 using the new Pride SDX Drop Items with a focus on the Lesbian Flag Colors.

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✨ Bailey ☀️ @baileyhowls.bsky.social · 02/04/2025

Niko in his new outfit and with the new decor in his office ❤️

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 02/04/2025

It's finally here!!! Show your Pride everyday! 🌈🥰💗

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 01/04/2025

I did it again 😭 I made a whole family & started their build but the build is so big I'm frozen with what to do next. Can someone tag in for me 😂🫠

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 16/03/2025

when a picture inspires you to fixste on a whole build ☺️

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 13/03/2025

I'm not super great at painting with my mouse, but I've made a few tattoos! Kinda loving them 🥰 Finger dots for both hands, some pretty makeup, a belly button ring, & a sort of rainbow style omnisexual tattoo! (my preferred identity term) 💗

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ashaife @ashaife.bsky.social · 10/03/2025

have a great monday, y'all 💗 also, sneak peek of my wip cat cafe ... why did it take me all weekend to discover we can do that?!?🥹

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