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jillian mukavetz

@arielsoceans.bsky.social
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writer, teacher, musician, photographer, beginner diviner, traveler, mom, bella and bloom 🐾

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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 05/11/2025
profiles in poetics: Denise Duhamel “How do we honor our mothers after they have passed? The person, the legacy, the body, after death? This interview is not meant to address the failings of motherhood, but rather, as Denise Duhamel states, “maybe Pink Lady is about my look at the female body—its…
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profiles in poetics: Denise Duhamel
“How do we honor our mothers after they have passed? The person, the legacy, the body, after death? This interview is not meant to address the failings of motherhood, but rather, as Denise Duhamel states, “maybe Pink Lady is about my look at the female body—its capacity to do so much in a lifetime.” ... (intro) wqcs are now active on substack 🌷this journal is supported by its readers.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 28/10/2025
belonging is about being seen and chosen - not assigned. - esther perel
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 26/10/2025
i also miss environments where communication is music. i miss playing music with friends. it’s a completely different level of expression and communication. like riding horses. you can talk horse or you cannot. you can play music with someone and instantly become friends.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 26/10/2025
there can be no hierarchy between humans. but what is not love is not love. it is this simple. and when you know what is not love you do not need to react nor participate.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 26/10/2025
i do think that it is entirely different traveling to places versus living there. especially when english is not the common language. cultures are very different. i’m not so sure about portugal & intimacy. however i feel a very strong draw to the land and sea here. maybe the mukavetz’s were here
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 26/10/2025
the evil witch mother torturing the children is an aquarius moon wound. I am no longer playing to this card, nor will i participate. and my mother is protecting me.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 26/10/2025
walks with leo asleep on my chest belém ajuda
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 24/10/2025
Balance connection and separateness: Perel notes that true intimacy thrives from closeness and "otherness" and individuality between 2 people. The ability to see & appreciate your partner's separate existence is risk and unpredictability, which are necessary for desire and eroticism to flourish.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 24/10/2025
Validation and self-worth: When a partner responds to this vulnerability with validation and understanding, it strengthens a person's sense of esteem. It shows them that their inner world is not only seen but also accepted, helping to transcend feelings of isolation - e p
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 24/10/2025
esther perel : "Into-me-see": Perel defines modern intimacy as a deep, reciprocal exchange of feelings and thoughts, where each person allows the other to "see" into their innermost self
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 22/10/2025
profiles in linguistics: Frankie Rollins (II) “… We look at how we were raised, perfectionism, and the capitalist patriarchy of our environment through opposites. We encounter the absurdity of love and companionship. We find deep sorrow alongside deep celebration, and question “the mystery of…
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profiles in linguistics: Frankie Rollins (II)
“… We look at how we were raised, perfectionism, and the capitalist patriarchy of our environment through opposites. We encounter the absurdity of love and companionship. We find deep sorrow alongside deep celebration, and question “the mystery of those opposing feelings”. We behold love’s randomness, and think of how it “al so, might live in us forever, long past the flesh and bone versions of our selves.” We accept our contradictions, and they are 
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 22/10/2025
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profiles in linguistics: Frankie Rollins
The academia ideal is supposed to support intellect, growth, and well-being through effective teaching and preparation for the future. But the foundational constant of assessment can easily turn into ...
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 20/10/2025
leo is six months today - incredible ❤️
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/10/2025
‘let us choose paints and mix them on the palette with no canvas before us to paint. … let us play hide and seek with our consciousness of being alive.” pessoa - the book of disquiet
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/10/2025
cabo de roca, a favorite place 🕊️
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/10/2025
was beautiful spreading a small pinch of sand of my mom. my body felt the grandness of it, but i’ve never been happier & felt more seen. even my fiddle teacher sees it, & she has known me since I was seven. this is the power of love in the face of shame.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/10/2025
‘shame has been called the master emotion because as it is internalized- all the other emotions are bound by shame.’ - john bradshaw
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 16/10/2025
if all is well there could be enough time, but will have to see. better she okay, maybe go to the cliffs saturday if better but hope
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 16/10/2025
we were planning to go to caba de roca to spread a little bit of my moms sand in the brilliant sun of the windy overlook. and then there were lillie’s and bella counting every where and instead we are at the vet. bella is not super sick but they are running blood work on her kidneys.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
my tv just turned on by itself after i completed my website and now it is showing me the most beautiful places from all around the world in a google screen saver. leo is asleep nursing. my mom
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 13/10/2025
today i wrote an interview of a book written about their mother nurse passing away in covid. at first i placed it aside but to all those i’ve written three in the ast two days and it is strength this week of my moms passing. the last question i wrote gave me goosebumps and i know, my mom is with me.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 13/10/2025
saint francis of assisi day is celebrated oct 4. one of my moms saints. i used for her prayer card & was the church of her funeral. her anniv is on the 16th. with leo there is such a soft tenderness now. i wish she was here but a feel her so warmly and it is love perhaps she always yearned to give.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 12/10/2025
would be so nice to play music with some old friends. 🥰 miss asia a little bit today. & fiddle baby leo is the best, & i still must play, for my spirit
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 10/10/2025
meditation check in, great .. i love meditation with tm teachers .. the effortlessness & kindness & softness. agrudev 🙏
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 09/10/2025
bell hooks on positivity & resistance
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
katie & i were also beerpong champions of korea on this day in 2012, & happy full moon in mars. & was the second time the mazda broke in 2021. wishing for peaceful fiery dreams.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 06/10/2025
this day today is the day i won my court case in thailand. just two years ago today 🌻
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
profiles in poetics: Maria Garcia Teutsch (II) “… In What She Saw in the Lotería Cards, we discuss the Loteria’s close historical origin to Tarot, Maria’s process and ritual, and the roots of her Mexican and Southern Gothic Heritage. Here we can see how syncretism works with her Mexican Catholic…
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profiles in poetics: Maria Garcia Teutsch (II)
“… In What She Saw in the Lotería Cards, we discuss the Loteria’s close historical origin to Tarot, Maria’s process and ritual, and the roots of her Mexican and Southern Gothic Heritage. Here we can see how syncretism works with her Mexican Catholic and Protestant upbringing in a blend that reimagines La Loteria; lyrics of life, of warmth, family, and passion.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 30/09/2025
i will start my 30/40 tradition tomorrow - free this time. let’s see what will come. i need to speak with my mom. wish she was here
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 24/09/2025
i wonder what leo should dress up as for his first halloween 🎃
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 23/09/2025
it feels good to be lost in the right direction - is an excellent way of putting things
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 21/09/2025
had my first tarot class on the moon decan with leo so good the whole time content in my lap. happy eclipse. so much to process & embrace.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 20/09/2025
spending some time with alice etched into the moss groves of sintra today
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
i just feel like finishing my original manuscript is apart of my transformation. i don’t mean to sound trite in the process, it’s been a long process. but yes just miss really close friends. ones without a hierarchy. i know time .. but it’s necessary for me & ale & leo & the world we live in.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
that said i have always been very transparent even when my subconscious was against me. but now we are back closely knit & the thing is i do need secure relationships with my friends as much as my partner. so when i feel manipulation I choose a different direction. my transformation is mine
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
the things that i am most scared of i write in my original manuscript that remains unfinished. I can’t see where it needs repair- i need to print it out. but yes i wish o had more unconditional love closer. more people in my court that could give me wisdom rather than asking me to pay for it. more 💜
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
the footing is not as strong as I would like it to be & that hard feelings still hurt, the body remembers, and i will process those feelings and end that cycle because i can never go back. but i want to share my love and triumphs with people and community. positive support.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
my dad doesn’t send messages he send a rare cute and i love you. i never received the love that i deserved. and now i am feeling this but i have no elders to protect me with their blanket. i have love but its feels far at times. I feel it so strong until people challenge it and then I realize
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
my dad doesn’t give me that. my closest parents are gone. i was reflecting on what a superpower this love internal love and how much more secure is the feeling. and realized why i crashed so hard in high school and what i have been longing for so many years
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
i was speaking to ale after our sintra day, we found this old tunnel hike between two castle bounds & found ourselves walking with the nossa and hustlers of signatures etched into the old castle walls. his mothers neighbor calls him son and was expressing how proud he was of us. but ive never met
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 19/09/2025
my mother also wanted to become a nun, but then lost her v to p. i wrote about it. she became an artist and her best friend my godfather was gay. this was the biggest reason she left the church / because of my uncle charlie. - i wish they could be here to spoil leo.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 17/09/2025
homemade chai pear kombucha
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 16/09/2025
wounds are complicated. keeping children safe is simple. and what of all the children inside of us. maybe i need to rewrite the beginning of my manuscript. i think i need an editor maybe, a writing buddy.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 16/09/2025
very excited to travel to nazare soon & visit family .. time feels strange atm . i sometimes wonder if it’s ever all possible to really be understood.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
we need to protect our mothers.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
i don’t think poems are meant to hijack our nervous system they can but it’s not sustainable nor healthy.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
also, a good poem does not need to include fear. what if what you fear is the absence of fear.
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 15/09/2025
why are we so angry with our mothers. what happened to mothers to want them to abandon. in my lineage what needs to happen. i can deliver messages from people who hate their mothers but what good is that for me. im a young mother and its never felt more right. so i mother your pain. but its not mine
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jillian mukavetz @arielsoceans.bsky.social · 11/09/2025
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Cool Stories About Art (@coolstoriesaboutart)
“You deserve a lover who takes away the lies and brings you hope, coffee, and poetry.” — Frida Kahlo
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