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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 16h

In 2-3 years you really can be somewhere you never imagined, that's why it's so important to keep going. #Batober

Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

There is something so utterly endearing and heartwarming when receiving little gifts from friends. They really brighten my day and remind me not only of our friendship, but that I am living in a way that endears me to others to give me such a gift. Growing up as "the annoying kid" it means a lot 😭

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

So I really mean end of this month. But it's definitely gonna happen and it's the first new car I've ever bought. Can't wait to get into a manual again. My teenager car was a 5 speed focus and I loved driving it. Also eying another charity plate... so many cool ones here.

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Bad chapters can still create great stories. Wrong paths can still lead to the right places. Failed dreams can still create successful people. Sometimes it takes losing yourself to find yourself. #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

Ambushing me as I wake up. They are so cuteeee. The screenshot looks so good 😭

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Might get a new car this week. Gonna name it Sharkanator and hopefully get the conservation plates which go to donate to the Atlantic Shark Institute and has a big shark on it!

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 07/10/2026

Life becomes much lighter when you understand that your job isn't to control how others think, act, or feel. Your job is to stay rooted in who you are, act with integrity, stay devoted to your evolution, and let go of everything that isn't yours to carry. #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 06/10/2026

The strongest are gentle. The smartest are quiet. The wealthiest are simple. The happiest are private. Real power doesn't need to prove itself. #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 05/10/2026

"Maybe they're going through something..." Did you treat anyone like that when you were going through something? Empathy is good, but there is a point where people need to be held accountable. Pardoning ill behavior isn't kind, it's unhealthy for all those involved. #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

When you keep giving without limits, people stop appreciating efforts and start expecting entitlement. Takers don't have limits. #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Love living in a place that priorizes local business and sells it in our local market. #RhodeIsland

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

The goal is not always to feel good. It's to stop abandoning yourself when you feel bad. #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

If you believe there is such a thing as too much garlic, I dunno if we can be friends.

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

"I used to believe that if I treated everyone with kindness, they'd return it. But life taught me otherwise. People will be who they are, believe what they want, and act how they chooss regardless of how it affects you. At the end of the day, actions speak loudest, not words." #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 02/10/2026

Saw the movie trend and decided to throw my own up. I honestly have zero idea how many times I've rewatched some of these. Especially Labyrinth.

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Cracked open a cold one to decompress before some cleaning and my RP buddy makes me chuckle. Glad I always gave off that vibe. I do be a gremlin.

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Sorry for the wall of text. Just my personal thoughts and reflections about myself than anything else. And moving forward/coming out as Two-Spirited and GNC. Now that my ADHD, anxiety, and OCD is managed properly, I feel comfortable with these thoughts and realizations. 🙏🏳️‍🌈

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Kindness should never be taken for granted, because even the nicest people have their limits. #Batober

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Reminder guys: some thoughts are inside thoughts. You don't need to post every hot take online and then act surprised when you're disagreed with. If you must talk about it, perhaps a trusted friend is better than a public, online sphere...

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

I remember when people used to rave about how nice Bsky was compared to X. Seems it just needed some time to cook and all the folks from X to move here to become just as toxic. Kinda wild how people will be jerks from behind a screen and moniker. Y'all wouldn't talk to people like this irl.

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

Tomorrow begins bad bat month. Our regularly scheduled program will be interrupted.

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

Me at work later for a mandatory attendance vendor dinner

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

I play a Darkfallen... am I excused?

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

Congrats and to many more! I shall drop Helf Ambessa for now 🥰 thanks so much for the opportunity Syro! Art by Eluvianart

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Big Bad Bat 🦇 @apothiptera.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Love having such amazing friends. My guilds, my online pals, my husband, it's crazy to see where I am today and where I was years ago. Thanks everyone who is in my life! I really am grateful for you all.

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