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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 07/02/2026

I know almost no one sees my posts here, but I had an amazing date last night and I have to boast about it. She is hot, 15 years my junior and we are both excited for our 2nd date on Thursday. 😁

A young woman and a man in a selfie on The Edge, NYC. NYC is lit up in the background. (the picture was taken at night)

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 18/12/2025

Like all good things, my relationship with my GF has ended just shy of 3 months. It started out really great and we had made long term plans, but I just couldn't overcome the secrets and inconsistencies. So, with that it is time to move on and hopefully find a woman that is a better match for me.

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a man sits on a ledge overlooking a city at sunset

Alt: a man sits on a ledge overlooking a city at sunset

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 30/11/2025

I would not be surprised by that. I had some gay roommates in college and I have seen things. When I rented a room from a gay couple, I went to their dinner parties until their friends began hitting on me (the couple was very respectful of me and would correct their friends when needed) Good luck!

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 29/11/2025

When you know, you know. But you have to 'kiss a lot of frogs' first. I went on over 2 dozen 1st dates, over 7 months this year, after my ex left. I met my GF at the 7 month mark and she is absolutely amazing! 😁 (picture from our 1st date) Good luck if you are searching!

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 28/11/2025

I'm thankful for my loving GF. This was the message I sent her after spending most of the day with her.

Screenshot of a text message to my GF that says, "As I sit here thinking about us, I can't help but tell you how much I love having you in my life.

For this Thanksgiving, I want you to know, that I am truly thankful for you. You bring me so much joy and happiness that I just can't put into words how much you mean to me. 🥰🥰

😘😘😘"

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 21/11/2025

I guess I'm going to be doing the food shopping for our relationship. 😂 (we don't live together... yet) And yes, we have different primary languages.

Food shopping list in a text message in Spanish.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 16/11/2025

And they are better than cable because they don't cost you anything to watch them.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 16/11/2025

There are lots of FAST channels available that do exactly that. Some include, the Roku channel, PlutoTV, Tubi and so on. They are free to stream and have tons of 'live' channels.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 21/10/2025

She is the best thing that I have ever found on the internet. ☺️

Photo is of a man and woman standing on a green lawn with trees in the distance behind them. The woman is cuddled into the shoulder of the man, clearly showing they are in a relationship.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 13/10/2025

I completely agree, but it shouldn't be close.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 08/10/2025

Not high enough. It should be a blowout.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 03/10/2025

Update: the date went amazingly. I should be seeing her again this weekend. 😍

Me and my date Isabel at sunset in Brooklyn.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 02/10/2025

I know once we meet up, I can show her that I'm really not like other guys (which she has seen via text) and hopefully she will show me that I can put trust in her. It is important to remember that we date to determine compatibility. It isn't just women approving men. Wish me luck... 🙂

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 02/10/2025

It has been a rocky journey to get to this date, but I think we are actually set to meet tonight. I must say that I am very excited about the date based on how passionate our conversations have been via text. #Dating

Image of a woman in a black tank top looking at the camera. Her name is listed as Isabel with her age of 38.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 21/09/2025

And another date just dropped... 🥴

Screenshot showing me and a date from a dating app splash screen. The text says, "Ready to date with Kesley?"

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 19/09/2025

After being overwhelmed with too many dates, I let 2 matches go, but I had a first date planned for tonight already. Then I got 3 new matches... Now it is likely I will have at least 2 more first dates in the near future. (my first dates usually end up being 3-5hrs, so I can only handle one per day)

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 16/09/2025

I'm afraid the number of people that will understand this reference is very, very small. I've lived in Jersey for over 40 years and didn't know Weis existed until I moved to Sussex County in 2022.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 16/09/2025

I think there is LESS family support now than when I was healthy. It sucks.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 05/09/2025

Live your life to where you get messages like this. My date was a Chinese immigrant (in the US 2 years) that speaks very limited English. We talked a lot through a translation app, but I was still able to make her feel valued throughout our date. I will be seeing her again.

Screenshot of a text message saying that I made my date feel a sense of safety and comfort she has never felt before. She also said that our impromptu date was very special to her.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

And yes, I am very vocally opposed to ICE and what they are doing. Fuck MAGA.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

I hope you realize that there are a lot of us white people that truly care about black and brown people. I have gone a step farther and dated a black woman (over 5 years) and a Mexican woman (about a year). I just wanted you to know that we are out there and support you. (I'm a 45yr old white guy)

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

The 2 black woman I've been with can't stop reaching out to me up to 20 years later. 🤷 (both are married to white guys) Full disclosure, I dated one of them for about 5 years. I have no qualms about dating another black woman and it will likely happen sooner than later. One of my matches:

Picture of a black woman named Mellisa with text saying "You matched 15 days ago" along with her age and location.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

When I dated my black girlfriend (over 5 years), it was absolutely amazing the hate we got from black men. Yes, the white racists were around too, but wow, the black men were PISSED. (My ex was 5'2" and about 110lbs) I would love to date another black woman even if my ex treated me like shit.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

They can.. if you allow them to. If you are smart enough to get a VPN, you also block the vast majority of trackers/cookies. Using an encrypted DNS also prevents your IP from being seen by most ad networks. TOR also exists.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

Supreme Court let it go into effect. The Supreme Court is just a wing of the Trump administration at this point.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/08/2025

Did they ever move forward? I mean look at how poor and uneducated the entire state is.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 08/08/2025

Hardly. I've just been around long enough to know that when my parents when in their 40s, everything wasn't about the silent generation. If it wasn't all about the racist '60s day-in and day-out, we might not have ended up with Trump. I'm over it and comments like yours proves my point.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 08/08/2025

Clearly not appealing to the current generation in their prime (Gen X). I can't wait till our society stops pandering to Boomers and sticking a middle finger up to the rest of us.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

Photo dump of my travels in July.

Brooklyn Bridge looking towards Manhattan

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 06/08/2025

Hey now! I'm 45 and recently single. I will admit that I have baggage, just like anyone else, but I'm definitely a nice Leftist, well except for MAGA, bigots and the like. 😁

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

With that many teens in the house, I imagine they are trying to hide AWAY from the teens. They look like they are deciding how to break out of the house if the madness continues. 😂

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 28/07/2025

When I adopted my first dog, his owner passed away when he was about 10yrs old. He was food aggressive, (I didn't have kids, so not an issue) but as soon as I put in guardrails and fed him a few times by hand, he was no longer aggressive. He even became kid friendly.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

That is definitely possible, but I think it has more to due with the burn risk to HER. A hot stove, pan, etc is very unsafe for someone that faints easily. It is very easy to flip a pan's contents on yourself as you are falling and if you are passed out, it could sit on your skin until you wake up.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 27/07/2025

This is SO accurate. Three years ago I was driving a Porsche and living with my long term girlfriend in a 4 bedroom house. This year I am homeless, on food stamps and my ex left me. Almost all of it is due to my illness accelerating, disabling me. I'm still waiting for SS Disability.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 25/07/2025

I wish I could, but I am not in the position to at this time. Good luck.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/07/2025

There is a difference between depression and sadness. Depression is caused by a chemical imbalance whereas sadness is typically caused by an external event like the death of a family member or a friend. Obviously depressed people can also be sad due to said event.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 03/07/2025

I love the wishful thinking of another election. You need to pay attention to EVERYTHING going on, not just one absolutely terrible bill.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 30/06/2025

I was on the retired NYC fireboat John J Harvey (built in 1931) on Saturday (6/28) and they activated the deck guns by the Statue of Liberty. It was a very moving experience with everything going on.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/06/2025

We have Boomers fucking up our country right now. (Trump, Senate, etc) They DEFINITELY are not the best ones to look at for implementing programs that are important for the younger generations/progressives. I think all Boomers need to retire and let the younger generations take the reigns already.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 23/06/2025

Yea, those are important factors to consider, but even doing it once a day would annoy me. The more things I can set and forget, the better. I could probably add that I have a chronic illness that severely limits my energy too.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

I didn't see the Jaws reference, but I did see King Kong. I wonder what other Easter eggs are in there now.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

So can cold. Any extreme is unhealthy, especially for the elderly and those with a chronic illness. I'm one of those people.

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AnynameIwant @anynameiwant.bsky.social · 22/06/2025

This might have just been ICE throwing someone under the bus. It is well established that ICE does this VERY frequently with female prisoners.

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