iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Happy Friday, loves! 🌹 Likes and reposts very much appreciated! ❤️ I'm just a cheeky little flamingo at rest in her natural habitat (a 5-starfish hotel). 🦩

A woman in black lingerie resting one hand against a wall, and balancing on one Louboutin-heeled foot, her back to the camera.

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Watch out for my lukewarm, lugubrious tell-all, Woe is Me, Etc.! Available soon in a dank corner of some morbidly victimhood-obsessed radfem blog near you! /s

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Sometimes I low-key want us 𝓭𝓮𝓶𝓲𝓶𝓸𝓷𝓭𝓪𝓲𝓷𝓮𝓼 to stop talking about how good our lives are, bc that discourse is accelerating market saturation, commoditization, and overall devaluation of our offerings... Ugh, I hate my life! It's so oppressive and bad! Woe is me, etc!

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I just bought my first jade roller and guasha stone like it's 2016. I never hear anyone talk about these anymore, but I'm totally certain it's bc it's such a necessary fixture of hot women's lives that it no longer bears noticing, and def not bc it was just a pointless fad 😶‍🌫️

Photo of a jade roller and guasha stone, still in the manufacturer's packaging

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I just dropped $500 at a Japanese bookstore and grocery... Not only will I host the best dinner parties, but I will also write love letters afterward (never to be sent) on my embossed floral gold leaf-gilded stationery while poring over high-design magazines. I'm weebin' out! 🥷

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Cheers, Vi! To sexpionage! 🍷✨️🍷

Although 😈...for arguments' sake, what if she were stringing along Elon or Zuck, and what if he were leading on Ghislaine or J.K.? Morality contains grey zones, but they're heterogeneously distributed. Circumstance matters

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I think of myself as a social steganographer

More like the continuation of one haha...

It's unethical for a woman to lead on a man who likes her romantically to get his money. It's also unethical for a man to lead on a woman who likes him romantically just to get laid. Anyone acting like one is fine, but not the other, is disingenuous. Not really a gender issue

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Annie Vesper @annievesper.bsky.social · 08/10/2026

I recently attended a dinner for supporters of ___ courtesy of a client who couldn't go himself, so he wanted me to go and give him the lowdown later. 🤭 I debuted a new cover story that fit the context, and it went over very well! 😆 I may be hot, but creativity is where I really shine

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Sorry to those awaiting email replies. I will answer by the end of the evening 💞

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Whoa! Thank you, person I've never met! 😍 I'm glad that there are ppl here who appreciate our conversations in the comments. 💞 Can't wait to have my first-ever experience in a sensory deprivation tank! 💆‍♀️

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Which is totally fair. But some pursued parties will take umbrage even with that, bc the pursuer can't read their mind. And label them an aggressor. I think most ppl are missing this subtle nuance and it causes a lot of problems on both sides

Tbc I believe that there comes a point when asking a partner for sex when you know they don't like it is absolutely nefarious and wrong. But up until that point, it can just be the pursuer thinking, "Maybe they just didn't like it then, but if I take a different approach now..."

I mean sure, incels say that women are bad/immoral for declining sex but obv we are not taking their opinions seriously as they are so remarkably emotionally stunted and intellectually limited in their arguments

Ppl never say the person turning them down is bad/immoral for doing so. So while both positions suck to be in, one carries more negative moral weight in our society Ideally, ppl would be w partners w similar drives, or open the relationship full-heartedly

I'm not saying there's a right and wrong person (pursuer vs pursued). Just that men are far more likely to be the pursuer in this scenario, which, in addition to anxiety, causes them to be seen as someone who *does bad/aggressive things to* women which causes them to be seen as bad/immoral

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I've also been the person in 2 relationships that was "pestering" the other about sex and got turned down a lot bc their sex drives were lower. That legit messes with your head, and makes you feel unattractive and pathetic. So I have actual empathy for horndogs.

I honestly think I get men more than most women. Call me a pick-me. But when I entered my 30s (and my sexual prime), I suddenly couldn't focus at all at work bc I was horny all the time, and wanted to screw men I wasn't even attracted to, it was so intense. It caused problems lol

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Related: I used to have recurrent yeast infections and thought it was just bad luck. A couple years ago, I started prompting every single man I've been intimate with to wash his hands beforehand, and I've not had one vaginal or urinary tract infection since then. Not one. Every man should know this

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Most men really don't get that putting almost anything in a pussy that's not water-based lube will often result in a bacterial or yeast infection, bc foreign substances change the Ph balance in there. It's not just sugar, it's pretty much anything.

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Wow! Men need to know this. Bc I always have men who want to give me a full body sensual massage and they do not want to change products and wash their hands for the different areas. I guess this is another area men have been misled by porn into thinking smth is safe when it's just not

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"how many people are really going to start carrying hundred dollar bills when they go out to eat?" My sweet summer child. 🥲 Do you know who you're talking to? 😂 Unrelated: Family-run restaurants absolutely love me.

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Wait so just to be clear, the creme can't be used in the genitals and the überlube isn't nice on the body? Tbc I'm actually looking for something that can be used on both without causing either irritation of skin or a vaginal infection

Ppl w sensitive skin: What massage oil do you recommend, that is safe for both skin and pussy? The ones that have been used on me made my skin break out—one was coconut oil-based, so none of that. Also, friendly PSA: you can't rub oil on a woman's genitals and then use a condom

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This sun and blue sky is a surprise! Seattle, you tease, you

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Yessssss! Those are two of my favorite dishes ever! The lamb mandi I ate in Malaysia almost made me cry, it was so good 😭

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I took Waymos a few times while in SF. Every time, as soon as I got in, I performed a trunk inspection 🫠 bc of that one story about a naked man hiding in one that I read earlier this year. 💀 Oh, and don't take one to the Ritz. 😂 I was dropped off an 11-min uphill walk away

When I'm in a different city, the simple task of making sure I eat healthy food regularly can be time- consuming. I've discovered that ordering enough Middle Eastern food to keep me fed for 2-3 days is a great solution. It keeps well in the fridge and cutlery is kind of optional

Photo of a table with various Middle Eastern food dishes in takeout containers on it

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Oh I didn't think you were insinuating anything! I was just clarifying for my...general readership! 🤭

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Obviously I'm talking about accessibility for ppl who depend on access to cheaper phones, not myself

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I then understood why almost everyone in even the poorest countries had a smartphone: there was a huuuuuge economy for cheaper models. I don't want that accessibility to change. I hope there are app developers that care about backwards compatibility/ accessibility, bc it's needed now more than ever

I was kind of embarrassed that I, as a citizen of a wealthy country, hadn't even known Nokia smartphones existed. And it did everything I needed it to. The only feature I really noticed it somewhat lacking in was background app activity (which was spotty).

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I walked to a nearby used electronics shop, the type where 3 customers could fit inside, there were 10 phones under glass, and the staff hung out barefoot and listless. I walked out w/ a like-new Nokia smartphone for the equivalent of USD$35. Yes, you read that right. Nokia...smartphone.

Sad. I went to a country I'd never been before at the beginning of the pandemic and 2 things happened: 1) I was compelled to stay a long time bc of border closures and an aversion to Trump's US. 2) My iPhone 6 battery got a perma-boner and the phone died (I mean, I was always touching it, so)

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We learned that we both have deviated septums, so he bought me 6 months of Intake strips. 😘👃 Gestures like this (going above and beyond to make me more comfortable, even when we're not together) are so, so hot 🫦❤️

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Thanks for elaborating. Tbc I always tip. Unless the server is intentionally an AH. Otherwise, always, and usually 20-25%. I'm not cheap. Just tired of not hidden fees. It makes no sense for the receipt to say gratuity incl. but servers don't get any of it. Just change the food prices

I mean apparently restaurant owners in Seattle really do have it bad, but I don't understand how SF restaurants have it any less bad, especially with rent being higher there, and they don't do this extra fee BS

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