There was a common saying in healthcare that I used to hear all the time. "Nurses eat their own."

A lot has been written about the benefits of married life, and so those of us who are married have been sitting back, all fat and happy, crowing about how life is good for us, but a new study gives good news for those folks who are single. I've often wondered about the romance readers out there who are single and enjoy reading about something they don't have.

My brother-in-law used this phrase, which I absolutely loved: "Improving the lie," Of course, I didn't realize it was a golf phrase and had absolutely nothing to do with what I envisioned,

That got me thinking: what other famous books have had consequential errors? I wanted to find out because, of course, it would make us feel better to know that even the greats have made mistakes! It seems that no book can escape this possibility...not even the Bible.

Apparently, the new craze, thanks to an oversharing media influencer, is testing your vagina for microbes... but like good and bad cholesterol, and you get a score. So a 100/100 means you're in the top 1% of healthy vaginas.

That got me interested in how sneaky AI has really gotten, so of course I did a little research, and it's downright frightening...the basic plot in Terminator with the robots taking over is not all that far-fetched anymore.

So this blog is all about banksying which, at all costs, I recommend avoiding.

How did I get to the age of 67 and not know about nipple covers? Every chance I get, I lose the bra. I hate wearing those undergarments of Satan.

Celibacy can be a legitimate choice in both the short term and the long term. And let's be clear, in most circumstances, it is a choice. Because for those without partners, there are still options, namely masturbation or, for the more adventurous, the use of pleasure workers.

I am not at all writing this to change anyone's position on AI; I simply wanted a better understanding.

Oh, to be a young lesbian today...

No, it isn't Friday...but this is just as great as my Friday Blogs. Jae is sponsoring a give something away day and because it only happens for one day, I thought it warranted a special post...so check it out if you're into free books. Ali Spooner and I are participating. We're both giving a free recent release (Dangerous Ice and A Moment in Time) to some lucky winner, so be sure to click on this link and check out this fabulous event:

Instead, I was watching All's Fair, a pretty entertaining show about a bunch of high-powered lawyers (all women). The character Allura (Kim Kardashian) was talking about vaginal PRP injections. At first, I thought this was surely made up.

So, of course, I have to write a follow-up blog post because this new term was way too fun to ignore. So what is shrekking?

Once again, there is a trend with messing about in our lady parts, and not in a good way!

Oh, goody...a new term to share with y'all. And this one is hysterical. Yes, the goblin within the word is by design.

Yes, I take it as my personal mission to keep all of you informed about the new slang out there. LOL, just kidding, but as a writer, I do believe it is important to keep up, especially if I plan on writing contemporary romance

I wonder how many people understand the real purpose of Pride Month.

For her, networking was frightening. I could relate.

Having just come back from our time in Mexico, which some characterized as a vacation, or if you're across the pond, a holiday, I wondered where vacations started.

The modern thong swimsuit was officially introduced in 1974 by fashion designer Rudi Gernreich. Then in 2026, on a beach in Mexico, Annette Mori introduced the hole in the ass swimsuit design....Just kidding!

When in Mexico, I'm a two-shower-a-day person. And...when I was in college, especially during the hot, humid summer in the Midwest, I would often take as many as three to four showers a day. I remember my mother and grandmother always chastising me for the number of showers I took in a day, insisting it was not good for my skin.

Are there any topics out of bounds for me to write about? Apparently not.

To say that I have a hard time keeping up with all the new lingo coming out would be an understatement. But that doesn't stop me from trying. The types of relationships keep evolving as the world changes. While tolyamory is a relatively new term, I suspect the concept has been around for a long time.

Well...they have finally done it...mapped the clitoris for all those men who need a map to find it! Obviously, we women don't need a map to know that the pleasure center is not limited to that little button at the top of the hood!

I was going to write about Soothsayers, famous ones, like Nostradamus and his predictions, as well as the history of Soothsayers, but instead, I'm going to give you a glimpse into the future that I hope one day exists, as I envision it in my new book, A Moment in Time.

So...a few weeks ago, I geeked out by citing a bunch of sciency stuff about the real-life possibility of time travel, only half of which I actually understood. However, this past week, an article caught my eye about a young woman who could mentally time-travel to the point that it was actually considered a superpower.

With the latest No Kings Protest just around the corner (of which I am proud to attend), I thought it might be timely and appropriate to research the history of protests.

I like to keep up with modern lingo and came across a term I'd never heard before. Ghosting someone, sure, but not ghostlighting. So what is ghostlighting?

Because I've done research before on orgasms, there weren't 25 things I didn't know, but there were a few. One can never have enough knowledge on orgasms!

Well, hallelujah...for once I get to blog about something that improves with age, versus telling y'all about our intimate bits falling apart as we age!

I am sick and damned tired of the blatant misogyny rampant in sports, and particularly the Olympics.

As a self-identifying geek, I sometimes get into arguments with others about what they may consider ridiculous concepts in science fiction. One of my points is that whatever an author can dream up in a science fiction book should not be picked apart for theoretical inaccuracies. It's fiction for f%$k's sake!

Yesterday, I was on a long drive to charge my battery in my car after leaving it to sit for almost a month while away, and I listened to this fascinating segment on NPR about sex tech, AI relationships, and how we really are entering a new phase with technology as it relates to intimate relationships.

So...what is nebulasexual? According to the article, a nebulasexual "refers to someone having a nebulous sexuality." Okay, WTF does that mean?

A coregasm is when an orgasm happens during core exercise, minus any sexual thoughts or fantasies. So, no, you can't increase your chances of having one while you read a particularly steamy sapphic novel during your morning exercise routine.

Instead, I depended on my demented little brain to think up futuristic sex toys, and I'm going to share those scenes with you here!

While my reasons for chewing gum are different from what the health benefits studies suggest, it's good to know that I'm getting a side benefit from my obsession. Goodness knows, we need something to reduce our stress from what is happening in our country right now!

As usual, I was scrolling through the news online and came across an article about em dashes. To my absolute delight, an article written by a professional writer, not AI, sung the praises of my absolute favorite punctuation.

No...I'm not going to list my 2026 New Year's Resolutions because, frankly, I never do. Why? My philosophy of resolutions or changes that need to be made in life should never be limited to one arbitrary day of the year.

For many years now, I have always wished people Happy Holidays rather than Merry Christmas. Why? The simple answer is that it is more inclusive.

So...I just read in an online Cosmopolitan article that gooning was named the fetish of the year by Clips4Sale. If you don't know what gooning is, don't worry, neither did I!

So what is the pink pill? In a vaginashell (never a nutshell…how sexist), the pink pill is a pill that increases women’s sexual pleasure.

Of course, I suspect that many men have a hard time finding the G-spot (certainly not too many lesbians), but the article noted that it’s still a controversy whether the G-spot actually exists. Really?

I think we should rename the day to Super Sale Friday, Screaming Deals Friday, or... how about Shop Until You Drop Friday? Then there is...The Day After Thanksgiving. Perhaps that one is too on the nose and not clever enough.

Yes, today we’re going to talk about professions, not confessions, specifically what the Trump administration considers a profession.

I read with great interest about this woman who decided to do a social experiment during these trying times to see which churches put their money/aid where their preaching mouth is supposed to be.

Another sex blog? Damn tooting! Why? Because I strongly believe, especially in today's times, that we should not go back and revisit those buttoned-up times of my youth. I strongly believe that both body and sex positivity are critical to women's health.

t's Friday and Halloween! I wouldn't necessarily say that Halloween is my favorite holiday, but I don't hate it. Who doesn't like dressing up as someone else and eating candy until you get a bellyache?

With Halloween around the corner, I've been bingeing horror flicks, especially ones with vampires, because I'm obsessed with vampires. So... of course, I wanted to research the origins of horror stories, both literary and cinematic.