This is heartbreaking I am so sorry this happened to you. As someone who went through a similar situation where I traveled a long distance to someone I trusted and was just abused. My heart goes out to you. But thank you for coming forward. I personally know how scary that is. Im here if you need it
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Me: "Hey. Behr, I have to have a talk with you later."
Behrkai: "Oh! Ok. Just tell me when we can."
Me: "Hi, [redacted]. Did you get tested when I asked you to?"
Behrkai: "Which test? Covid test?"
Me: "No [redacted]. STD tested. [Redacted] you're the only man I've ever slept with and I was just diagnosed with herpes."
Behrkai: " Omg x . x"
Me: "[Redacted] Did you get tested like you promised me you would."](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:iyuc7u63ctsvjegzym4dycv7/bafkreie6vo7zb7zsif3vcb6vemhoilnd2dkpd72uq4kfjr4wcvues6wi6q)
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Behrkai: "Omg x . x"
Me: " [Redacted] Did you get tested like you promised me you would."
Behrkai: "I didn't took the time ..."
Me: "[Redacted] Why? [Redacted] I did everything in my power to make sure I did the right thing. I stayed a virgin for a very long time, I got tested, I was on birth control. This is my worse fear come true. I tried so hard to be responsible on my side. Please. Get tested. It's possible but unlikely I got the virus another way. Please, get tested."
Behrkai: "I'm checking right now for a test."](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:iyuc7u63ctsvjegzym4dycv7/bafkreihizjiwrjeqgz4jf5p2avnyirpepyd2nbx2eidspqpf7x4gumd5je)
![Final screenshot
Behrkai: "I'm checking right now for a test."
Me: I send a screenshot from a medical website stating "Herpes (oral and genital) cannot be spread through inanimate objects such as spoons, glasses, razors, towels, bed sheets, etc. Herpes can only be passed though direct skin-to-skin contact with the infected area such as kissing, oral sex, genital-to-genital rubbing, vaginal sex, and anal sex.
Me: "Oh ... I guess what I heard wasn't accurate based on this information. [Redacted] I'm at the hospital right now. I'm going to look into treatment. Please do the same."
Behrkai: "I will, I'm currently making an appointment for the STD screening."
Me: "[Redacted] I'm in a bad place mentally because of the news. I want to talk about this more when I'm not upset. Take care."
Behrkai: "Tale care you too."](https://cdn.bsky.app/img/feed_thumbnail/plain/did:plc:iyuc7u63ctsvjegzym4dycv7/bafkreibdl62iglal6fgqgwuhlsqlnuoo2jejbrsyha6zkotktheixu7i3a)
