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CA law firm rooted in the Hawaiian concept of "Aloha," embodying love, peace, compassion, & mutual respect. Guiding clients through life’s transitions—whether saying goodbye to a marriage or preparing for a future with a prenup. aloha-divorce.com

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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Help Kona Fight Cancer at Just 4 Years Old. Poor Kona has been diagnosed with a cancerous tumor on his nose and is beginning to start radiation treatment. ❤️‍🩹🐾 If you can donate or simply share his fundraiser, it would mean the world to us. gofund.me/4d459e2b3
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 28/09/2026
Help Kona Fight Cancer at Just 4 Years Old. Poor Kona has been diagnosed with a cancerous tumor on his nose and is beginning to start radiation treatment. ❤️‍🩹🐾 If you can donate or simply share his fundraiser, it would mean the world to us. gofund.me/4d459e2b3
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
@wsj.com featured a growing trend in modern prenups provisions that protect a spouse who leaves the workforce to care for children. A thoughtful prenup isn't about planning for divorce. It's about planning for life's possibilities with fairness, transparency, and respect. www.wsj.com/personal-fin...
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The Trigger Clause More Couples Want in Their Prenups
Stay-at-home parents face a nightmare scenario in divorce. More are trying to avoid it.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 17/07/2026
Spent the evening at the San Diego Family Law Bar Association's annual happy hour at Bali Hai. 🌺Grateful for opportunities to connect and build relationships that ultimately benefit the families we serve. Thanks to Safe & Sound Visitation Monitoring for hosting such a wonderful event! #AlohaDivorce
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
The Cardiff Kook is ready for the wedding... Are you? 💍 Don't be a Kook.. Get a prenup. The best marriages begin with honest conversations, financial transparency, and clear expectations. #CardiffKook #Prenup #AlohaDivorce #CaliforniaPrenup
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
Divorce Settlement Agreements and Mortgage Debt: A Recent California Case Highlights an Important Lesson aloha-divorce.com/divorce-sett...
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Divorce Settlement Agreements and Mortgage Debt: A Recent California Case Highlights an Important Lesson - ALOHA DIVORCE
A recent California divorce case highlights why settlement agreements should clearly address mortgage refinancing and removal from joint debt obligations.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 02/06/2026
Wonderful evening at the CASD Women's Caucus Golf Clinic meeting inspiring women and building new connections. Grateful for organizations that create spaces where women can grow professionally while having fun and supporting one another. ⛳️🌺 #WomenWhoLead #WomenInLaw #AlohaDivorce #Networking
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Receiving this kind of feedback from a fellow attorney means so much. At Aloha Divorce, we strive to pair strong family law knowledge with compassion, judgment, and client-centered support through every step of the process. #FamilyLaw #DivorceAttorney #AlohaDivorce
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 14/05/2026
Pouring peace, clarity, and thoughtful resolutions. 🍷🌿 At Aloha Divorce, we believe family law matters can be approached thoughtfully with strategy, compassion, and a focus on resolution rather than conflict. #CollaborativeDivorce #FamilyLaw
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 24/04/2026
In California, spouses can change how property is classified through a “transmutation.” This can convert community property, separate property, or transfer ownership between spouses. These agreements carry significant legal and financial implications. #FamilyLaw #PropertyRights
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 18/03/2026
At Aloha Divorce, we focus on making divorce as smooth, clear, and convenient as possible. Grateful for clients who trust our process 🤍 #AlohaDivorce #AmicableDivorce #FamilyLaw
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 10/03/2026
Looking forward to the San Diego Injury Network & EvenUp St. Patrick’s Day Golf Tournament on March 16. Aloha Divorce is proud to be a Hole Sponsor — come say hello at Hole #14 if you're playing! 🍀⛳️ #SanDiegoLegalCommunity
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 24/02/2026
Divorce doesn’t have to start with a fight. In collaborative-based cases, preparation is everything. When both parties come organized — financially informed and child-focused — negotiations become more productive and far less adversarial. Preparation protects your peace. #AlohaDivorce
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 10/02/2026
A lovely way to start the year—connecting with colleagues at the North County Bar Association’s New Year Gathering. Grateful for our local legal community. ⚖️✨ #AlohaDivorce #NCBA #LegalCommunity
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 02/02/2026
We appreciate clients who share their experience ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ At Aloha Divorce, thoughtful and timely prenup guidance is always the priority. Thank you for the trust. #AlohaDivorce #ClientReview #Prenups
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 30/01/2026
At Aloha Divorce, client support extends beyond legal representation. All divorce clients now receive complimentary divorce coaching through Insight Divorce Solutions, led by Certified Divorce Coach & Mediator Beth Slate—focused on clarity, co-parenting support, and life transitions.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 07/01/2026
Feeling lost at the beginning of your divorce journey? You don’t have to have all the answers to take the first step. 🌺 Thank you, Linda, for the kind words and trust. #AlohaDivorce #DivorceSupport #ClientReview #SanDiegoDivorce
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 02/01/2026
Happy New Year ✨ Wishing you clarity, peace, and thoughtful new beginnings in 2026. Wherever this year finds you, may it bring steady footing and the space to move forward with intention. #HappyNewYear #NewBeginnings #AlohaDivorce
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 01/01/2026
New Year’s Eve invites reflection—especially during times of change. Our latest blog explores new beginnings, peaceful transitions, and moving forward with intention during divorce or major life shifts. ✨ New Year’s Eve & New Beginnings aloha-divorce.com/new-years-ev...
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New Year’s Eve & New Beginnings: Moving Forward with Clarity and Compassion - ALOHA DIVORCE
As the year comes to a close, New Year’s Eve often invites reflection—on where we’ve been, what we’ve endured, and what we hope lies ahead. For many, this moment feels celebratory. For others, especia...
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 26/12/2025
💡 Family Law Q&A Child support can be modified when there’s a significant change in circumstances—like a change in income or a child’s needs. Clear answers. Compassionate guidance. #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 18/12/2025
Postnuptial agreements and transmutation agreements aren’t interchangeable. One addresses the full financial picture; the other focuses on specific assets. Understanding the difference can help couples plan more thoughtfully—and with less conflict. 🌊⚖️
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 15/12/2025
Happy Hanukkah ✨ Sending light, peace, and good energy to all who are celebrating.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 05/12/2025
Wonderful first-time chat with former SD District Attorney Mara Elliott at the CASD Holiday Party. 🎄 Excited to support her campaign for California State Senate District 40—strong leadership matters. #MaraElliott #SanDiego #CASD
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 03/12/2025
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 01/12/2025
The fastest way to get divorced in California—especially for San Diego parents—is through mediation. It keeps the process efficient, reduces conflict, and prioritizes stability for your kids. If you’re looking for a smoother path forward, I can help.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 26/11/2025
Co-parenting through the holidays doesn’t have to be stressful. A little planning, flexibility, and kindness go a long way. 🦃🧡 Sharing a few simple Thanksgiving co-parenting tips to help families navigate the season with more ease and connection.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 10/11/2025
Thrilled to see my article “Amicable Divorce: A Modern Approach to Peaceful Separation” featured in The Local Paper! At Aloha Divorce™, we believe that separation can be handled with grace, respect, and collaboration — not conflict.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 17/10/2025
Are you considering divorce or legal separation in San Diego? 🌿 This new blog post breaks down the differences under California family law, what each option means, and how to move forward with clarity and compassion. 📖 Read now: aloha-divorce.com/divorce-vs-l...
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Divorce vs. Legal Separation in San Diego: What You Need to Know - ALOHA DIVORCE
If you’re thinking about ending your marriage in San Diego, California, you may be wondering whether to pursue a divorce or a legal separation. Both options are available under California family law, ...
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 14/10/2025
"Who gets the dog?" isn’t just a joke anymore — it’s a real legal question in California divorces. 🐶 Join this upcoming webinar to learn how courts and attorneys are approaching pet custody. It’s free for patron members. #PetCustody #AlohaDivorce #AlohaPrenup 🔗 www.sdcba.org?pg=events&ev...
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Who Gets the Dog?
List of upcoming SDCBA and legal community events including section, committee and division meetings, CLE and other events.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 03/10/2025
A great evening in La Jolla with colleagues at the San Diego Bar Foundation. 💙 Their work expanding access to justice for communities impacted by poverty, abuse, and discrimination is inspiring and so needed. #AccessToJustice #SanDiegoBarFoundation
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 02/10/2025
Big news 🌴✨ Aloha Divorce is now in Solana Beach / Del Mar! 📍 445 Marine View Ave, Suite 300, Del Mar, CA 92014 Learn more: www.Aloha-Divorce.com #DivorceWithDignity #Prenup #DelMar
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 26/08/2025
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Grateful for kind words like these. Every step we take is about making the divorce process less stressful, more compassionate, and focused on moving forward with confidence. 💛 #DivorceWithAloha #FamilyLaw #PositiveReviews
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Legal Talk Network @legaltalknet.bsky.social · 20/05/2025
Loving how Aloha Divorce sets the tone right from the name! 🌺 Cassandra Michel shares how her unique firm name helps attract the right clients. If you want to build a firm with heart and strategy, listen: tinyurl.com/yyumevhe @alohadivorce.bsky.social #lawyers #lawyerlife #newsolo #alpsinsurance
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Legal Talk Network @legaltalknet.bsky.social · 01/08/2025
🚨 "I built this to be stress-free, collaborative, and client-focused—growing with more problems isn’t the goal. Growing the bank account is." 🎧 Listen on Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/n... 🎧 Listen on Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/1cLXcxz... @alohadivorce.bsky.social
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 01/08/2025
💬 “She truly has heart and wants the best for each family.” Grateful for this kind review! At Aloha Divorce, we lead with empathy and clarity through every step of your family law journey. 🌺 #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #ClientLove #AmicableDivorce #PrenupSupport
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 24/07/2025
Aloha Divorce turns 5 today! 🌺 Grateful for five years of helping clients navigate divorce, prenups, and co-parenting with clarity and compassion. Here's to peaceful transitions and empowered new beginnings. #AlohaDivorce #5YearsInBusiness #FamilyLawWithHeart #LegalMilestone #AmicableDivorce
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 10/07/2025
Truly honored to receive a Certificate of Recognition from Senator Catherine Blakespear and the California State Senate for my work with Aloha Divorce. Thank you to the North San Diego Business Chamber for naming me a finalist for the Distinguished Leadership Award.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 08/07/2025
Mediation = less stress, lower cost, and more collaboration. Aloha Divorce supports families through peaceful, child-focused resolutions. Let’s talk options 🌺 #DivorceMediation #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #PeacefulDivorce
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 03/07/2025
Celebrating freedom in all forms today 🇺🇸 Whether it’s a new chapter after divorce or clarity through a prenup, legal independence matters too. #IndependenceDay #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #LegalEmpowerment #Prenup #DivorceWithDignity
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 02/07/2025
“10/10 recommend!” 💬 Big thanks to Joanne for the heartfelt review. At Aloha Divorce™, we lead with clarity, compassion & practical solutions — helping clients navigate family law with less conflict and more aloha. 🌴 #AlohaDivorce #FamilyLaw #PeacefulDivorce #ClientLove
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 27/06/2025
Aloha vibes at last night’s Celebration of Business at the Bahia Resort! 🌺 So proud to celebrate local leaders like Sanjiv, founder of BYTES, for his well-earned recognition. Grateful to be part of a community that uplifts growth, grace & new beginnings. #AlohaDivorce #NorthCountySanDiego
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 13/06/2025
We’re excited to share that Cassandra S. Koenig, founder of Aloha Divorce, is a finalist for the San Diego Business Journal's 40 Next Top Business Leaders Under Forty 2025 ! 🌺 🎟 Info: lnkd.in/gWWbeR-h #AlohaDivorce #EmergingLeader #FamilyLawWithHeart #SanDiegoBusiness #CelebrationOfBusiness
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 09/06/2025
How a Postnup Could Help You Avoid Capital Gains Taxes on Real Estate And What You Might Be Giving Up in Divorce At Aloha Divorce, we often work with clients who are entering a new marriage later in life with valuable real estate already in their name. If this sounds like you—or your spouse—you…
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How a Postnup Could Help You Avoid Capital Gains Taxes on Real Estate
And What You Might Be Giving Up in Divorce At Aloha Divorce, we often work with clients who are entering a new marriage later in life with valuable real estate already in their name. If this sounds like you—or your spouse—you may want to consider a specific kind of postnuptial agreement that could reduce or eliminate capital gains taxes…
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 07/06/2025
How a Marriage Legally Ends in California Understanding the Three Legal Paths to Ending a MarriageFamily Code § 310 At Aloha Divorce, we believe that navigating the end of a marriage should begin with clarity. While many people associate divorce with the end of a relationship, it's important to…
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How a Marriage Legally Ends in California
Understanding the Three Legal Paths to Ending a MarriageFamily Code § 310 At Aloha Divorce, we believe that navigating the end of a marriage should begin with clarity. While many people associate divorce with the end of a relationship, it's important to understand that there are actually three distinct legal ways a marriage can end under California Family Code § 310…
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 06/06/2025
What Makes a Marriage Legally Valid in California? At Aloha Divorce, we believe in clarity before conflict. Whether you're planning your wedding or reviewing past events for legal purposes, it helps to understand what actually makes a marriage legally valid in California. Here’s a breakdown of…
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What Makes a Marriage Legally Valid in California?
At Aloha Divorce, we believe in clarity before conflict. Whether you're planning your wedding or reviewing past events for legal purposes, it helps to understand what actually makes a marriage legally valid in California. Here’s a breakdown of what’s required under California law:  Requirements for a Valid Marriage (Fam C §§ 300, 400, 420): Consent – Both parties must freely agree to marry.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 05/06/2025
Is an Uncontested Online Divorce Right for You? Here’s What You Need to Know At Aloha Divorce, we believe in keeping the legal process as stress-free and straightforward as possible—especially when both spouses are on the same page. If you and your partner are looking for a simple, amicable way to…
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Is an Uncontested Online Divorce Right for You? Here’s What You Need to Know
At Aloha Divorce, we believe in keeping the legal process as stress-free and straightforward as possible—especially when both spouses are on the same page. If you and your partner are looking for a simple, amicable way to end your marriage, an uncontested online divorce might be the perfect fit. Here’s what you need to know to qualify in California: Basic Eligibility Requirements…
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 02/06/2025
Are Prenups Helping Lower the Divorce Rate? A Closer Look at the Trend Prenuptial agreements have long carried a certain stigma—once viewed as a sign of mistrust or a predictor of divorce. But that perspective is changing fast. Today, more couples than ever are turning to prenups not out of fear,…
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Are Prenups Helping Lower the Divorce Rate? A Closer Look at the Trend
Prenuptial agreements have long carried a certain stigma—once viewed as a sign of mistrust or a predictor of divorce. But that perspective is changing fast. Today, more couples than ever are turning to prenups not out of fear, but out of clarity, planning, and mutual respect. According to a 2022 Harris Poll, only 3% of couples had a prenup in 2010.
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 26/05/2025
Honoring the brave this #MemorialDay. In memory of many, in honor of all. 🇺🇸 Aloha Divorce offers discounted prenups for CA military & veterans—thank you for your service. #MilitaryDiscount #AlohaPrenup #MemorialDay2025
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Legal Talk Network @legaltalknet.bsky.social · 12/05/2025
Can your law firm be both professional and personal? Join us for the latest #NewSoloFirstFlight as we revisit an inspiring chat with Cassandra Koeing of 🌸 @alohadivorce.bsky.social! Learn how leaning into her personality & values straight out of law school led to success. 🎧 tinyurl.com/yyumevhe
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Aloha Divorce™ @alohadivorce.bsky.social · 15/05/2025
🌺 Aloha means peace—especially in divorce. 🌈 We’re honored by this kind review! At Aloha Divorce, we believe in thoughtful solutions, clear communication, and compassion every step of the way. Because your next chapter deserves peace of mind. #AlohaDivorce
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