Reposted by Alex the HusBunCinna @cinnacine.bsky.social · 17/06/2026Snippets of a commission I’m working on atm~ 0756
Reposted by Alex the HusBunRamps | R&R 10/30 | 🔜 BFC @rampsinside.bsky.social · 17/06/2026My newest painting 'Double StarryNights' is up for auction for the next 24hrs on my telegram art channel~ t.me/rampsart 116121
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 12/06/2026If any of y'all are doing anything that requires an international customs broker, DO NOT HIRE LIVINGSTON ITNL! They have: ACH'd us prior to cancellation dates; caused us 2000+ in dreyage fees, leaked confidential client info to us, and connected us to faith based phone scams in their phone tree. 101
Reposted by Alex the HusBunItch @ Art Werk 🩵🍼🐶 @itchynet.bsky.social · 29/05/2026Ouuugh these Starry Nights from @poofypins.com are so thicc and soft and crinkly 1293
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 22/05/2026Yeah, between that and the fact that the decision pays for itself in 3-4 months, too, without having to pay their equipment fees. 100
Reposted by Alex the HusBunAsh! 🔜 BFC, FC @ashenwhiskers.bsky.social · 11/05/20265x7" gouache portrait for @sproutpanda.bsky.social! #furryart #gouache 10824171
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 01/05/2026I'm not going to post very often about stuff like this but... If I somehow miss some part of your order, let me know BEFORE a month has passed. I want to get your order correct and to you. I really do. If I don't manage to get it done right, I will keep trying until I do. But don't sleep on it. 000
Reposted by Alex the HusBunLittle Girl Ashley 🗡️🧸 @littlegirlashly.bsky.social · 27/01/2026I know I never make videos but @poofypins.com was the best ever and sent me a little gift recently! I wanted to share it with you all ^.^ Thank you so much PoofyPins! I loved everything so much! If you all wanted to check out their store, you can use my discount code LILRED for 10% off!! 🥰💜🌟🌙 4364
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 04/04/2026Being included by others is not something you just pray for and have happen for you, it's something that comes from effort. It comes from coordinating, footing bills, doing legwork to build the community, sometimes through launching projects. The work has to be harder than "just showing up". 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 04/04/2026Looking at going in to work to wash dishes for 8 hours and feeling... Less than enthusiastic? The diaper is supposed to keep my pants protected from my soggy bits, not to protect my bits from my soggy pants. If only diaper sales could pay all the bills :( 100
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 03/04/2026Seriously, just posting this so I don't lose it again: a picture of some agidashi tofu from Tori44, which closed some years ago. RIP. 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 30/03/2026Went to Anime Detour on Sunday and had a lot of fun at the Duck-US claw games. Managed to get this awesome shrimp: 010
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 26/03/2026@daddysbestestboy.bsky.social Please do me a massive favor and just mute them. You know who I'm talking about. It's not healthy for either of you, nor is it really appropriate. 100
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 23/03/2026Just some old images of some wire wand baubles I made a while ago, all of which got lost over time. My husband still has one somewhere, but I think it's in storage. I added a few details images that reveal the construction. 020
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 23/03/2026I really like playing colony sims like RimWorld and Dwarf Fortress. There's just something about building logistics structures and systems that hits hard, even if I'm not at all good at them... I like things more laid back, though, where failure is less an inevitability and more a consequence. 010
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 23/03/2026People often ask me whether I'm cosplaying (Dresden, Gandalf, etc). But no. I'm myself, all day, every day. These were my requirements: *A long garment good for keeping wind and dust away. *A hat with a wide brim in a "dated" style. *A staff too nice to think I would go hitting people with it. 140
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 23/03/2026This is probably what I'm best known for, besides selling diapers. I think people will probably recognize THIS far more readily than anything else, especially furries. People ask me, sometimes, whether it is even "real". Yes, it's real. 010
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 23/03/2026I also like collecting tools, and not "modern" ones per se. Really I like collecting some of the very oldest sorts of tools humans have used, including the same sorts of tools used in the literal stone age. 010
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 23/03/2026These are some of my favorite rocks. I carry the smaller ones everywhere. I figure if I'm going to carry a "bag full of rocks", it's going to be rocks I actually like. Even if one is really a piece of wood. 020
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 21/03/2026Something that makes me unreasonably mad and also quite sad is when people waste their time with words instead of undertaking meaningful actions. Don't (just) tell people you love them, especially not for religious reasons, because that's not what love is. Love is composed of work, not words. 020
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 19/03/2026I sometimes wonder whether people mythologize me in some way from time to time. After all, a lot of furries end up seeing me, but very few know who I actually am or stop to say hi, and I never know what to say, because I'm pretty sure most just interpret me as someone wearing a costume. 100
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 17/03/2026So, this is the first part of an old project I undertook for my brother, a cane made from a maple branch from my back yard that had turned down 90°. 100
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 15/03/2026Another thing that shouldn't need to be said but does, this time about friendship: Any attempt that is not "organic" is doomed to fail. People cannot be coerced or even "suggested" to social engagement. Such forced engagement is always resented, and does no good whatsoever. 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 13/03/2026I guess more on the subject of forgiveness: forgiveness isn't about suffering. You can't buy it by accepting "vengeance". Rather, forgiveness is about you taking actions which will meaningfully change you (such as therapy and applied behavioral modification), and doing so because you want to change 100
Reposted by Alex the HusBunmanitiger.bsky.social @manitiger.bsky.social · 13/03/2026@poofypins.com These Starry Nights are so incredible, holy CRAP 041
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 13/03/2026If anyone called me at 10:30pm without my express permission, I would scold them. If they did it to contact me to try to "give their side" of a social conflict with a friend of mine I would tell them never to contact me again. If they called my parents because I ignored them I would press charges. 101
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 12/03/2026In some respects, I've been really hesitant to get into BSky; frankly, there's not much in my life that calls out to be shared. In fact, I like working on the "back end", hidden away when possible. Not to mention my interests (and long-windedness) don't translate well to short format text posts. 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...so please don't be that guy demanding forgiveness, because that's the cutest way to know you don't deserve it yet. Instead, if you have hurt someone badly enough that you think forgiveness is needed, do the real things asked of you to effectively change. 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...That's what all of many of the worst people always seem to miss: as soon as you start making it about ceasing your loneliness or recovering your life from consequences, you are already digging that hole again because it's not about you growing at that point... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...and moreover, you can't just do it because you want to stop people being mad, or because you feel lonely; that's "the wrong reasons". Instead, you have to do it knowing you will likely get nothing for it from them but more hate, and instead change for the sake of not hurting the next person... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...In fact one of the biggest things about learning to be an adult, even if you get up to some ABDL shenanigans, is actually learning these things: that forgiveness requires meaningful painful effort on behalf of the person seeking it, and that this is no guarantee to receive it... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...And even when someone changes, people are under no obligation to actually forgive them. Sure, it's good for them, cathartic to let go of the stink eye that ideally serves as the reason for someone to grow, but it's not a requirement... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026... As a result, I think that if people want to seek forgiveness, they must do meaningful work to show those they seek it from that they acknowledge the reality of their actions and then take real and meaningful actions to change themselves, and behavioral modification takes hard, painful work... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...and they should definitely not tell people they are "Christian", because there's no faster way to make it untrue than by believing it to be true. Then, I'm an atheist: I think that if anyone wants heaven, they will need to build it today, here, with their own two hands and those beside them... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...I think, in fact, that if anyone is to ever see themselves as "Christian" in any regard, the very first thing they need to do is stop giving money and time to "churches" and instead give that money and time directly to the people who need it without sermons or prayer or proselytizing... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...Not everyone I surround myself with would do as much. I don't believe in "permanent bans". I don't believe consequences should ever be eternal; if there is someone willing to take the time to reach someone, even the most terrible of people, I think they should be given that opportunity... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...And now that I've gone and earned a scolding for having been so crass as to talk about charity, it gets me to my reasons for discussing it at all: I will always help the people I see to the extent that I can help them, even if I hate them, even if they are awful people who make me feel unsafe... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...It legitimately makes me feel better about the world being able to do that one direct thing for people. The apparel business, as much as it is amazing to actually "own" something like that, it doesn't give me the resources that the kitchen job does to make a difference to anyone else.. 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...but the reason I have this job is that it's part time or nothing since I have to run the fulfillment operations for our business, and because it gives me access to as much free food as the kitchen has at the end of the day as I can carry, and I like giving that food to hungry people... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...But I guess where I was going with that is that this isn't the first time I've tried to build something? But that gets me back to that second job I have, the part time job mopping a kitchen. The thing is, I have this thought, and it's admittedly crass to even bring up the fact that I do this... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...The result of all that ended with me deciding I needed to spend some time growing up some more, though to be fair it wasn't the last time I ever did something like that, but I try to avoid situations where I know I'll get myself into such trouble these days... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...Eventually, that trouble I liked causing got me into trouble and I got banned, and I deserved it, though probably not for the reasons they used. While they were mad at me having a giant monument to furry genitals, I had a secret career of hard-crashing people out of unlicenced casinos... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...So, I decided to throw my money behind growing my husband's business and making his dreams of producing a diaper happen. And to be fair it's not the first time I've spun up a business. Back in the '00s I ran a business on Second Life selling furry penises, granted I also liked causing trouble... 000
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026...the thing is, I just didn't want to keep doing work to build someone else's nice things and then get none of those nice things. The aircraft simulator interfaces I built? I don't even have source code for it. The motor controller libraries I wrote? Nope. Nothing to show for it... 010
Alex the HusBun @alexlavendel.bsky.social · 11/03/2026So, a bit about me, I suppose: Currently I work two jobs, one as the COO of an apparel company, and the other as a kitchen reset grunt at a food place downtown. It's not that I don't have other skills; I was a software engineer for 15 years before that, and a quite skilled engineer at that... 020
