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The world does not become safer by pretending we do not exist or trying to legislate us away. It becomes safer when we have rights, leverage, and legal standing. Nothing about us without us. And sugar, we're not going anywhere.

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International Sex Worker Rights Day is not about “celebrating empowerment.” (although I eagerly await the day it is) It is about ending violence. Economic violence. Legal violence. Cultural violence.

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We are workers. Artists. Parents. Students. Organizers. Survivors. CEOs of our own bodies. People who have built entire ecosystems of education, mutual aid, and digital innovation all while navigating our own marginalization.

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We are not your morality tale. We are not your TED Talk. We are not your sensational headline. We are not your dirty little secret while you vote away our rights.

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We are not your morality tale. We are not your TED Talk. We are not your sensational headline. We are not your dirty little secret while you vote away our rights.

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Stop conflating all sex work with trafficking. Trafficking is real. Coercion is real. Grooming is real. Many of us have survived those things. Criminalization does not prevent them, but it does make reporting them more dangerous. You cannot fight abuse by stripping our agency.

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Healthcare without stigma. Doctors who treat us like adults with legitimate occupations. Therapists who understand that sex work is not a mental health diagnosis. Research that includes us instead of pathologizing us.

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Immigration protections. Migrant sex workers are not collateral damage in anti trafficking theater. Raids do not equal rescue. Deportation is not care. Fuck ICE. End of story.

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Platform accountability. Adult platforms cannot keep extracting 20 to 40 percent while hiding behind lip service. Transparent processing fees. Clear contracts. No sudden account deletions with no appeal. We built the billion dollar industry. We are not disposable inventory.

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Protection from police violence and state surveillance. When we report assault, we should not be interrogated like suspects. When we call for help, we should not be threatened with our own criminalization. We deserve safety without punishment.

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Financial dignity. Stop closing our accounts. Stop freezing our funds. Stop making us financial refugees in our own country. We deserve stable payment processing, mortgages, insurance, and retirement plans. “High risk industry” is not a moral category, its a bureaucratic excuse.

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Labor rights. We work. We generate billions. We deserve workplace protections, contracts that mean something, the ability to sue exploitative studios and platforms without risking arrest. We deserve rights and safety, not more morality lectures.

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Decriminalization. Full stop. Not partial, not Nordic. Criminalization pushes us into dark rooms with fewer witnesses and less leverage. Criminalization isolates. Isolation breeds violence. Decriminalization creates visibility, and visibility creates accountability.

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Alexandra Snow @alexandrasnow.com · 29/10/2025

International Sex Worker Rights Day is not a hashtag, it is a response to systems that treat our labor as profitable but our existence as disposable. So here are our demands. Not vibes or empowerment fluff, demands.

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Attention is cheap. Alignment is rare. We don't need permission to change how power looks, fucking do it anyway. To anyone making a living off their image: you don’t owe the world constant perfection. The work still counts when you’re resting, healing, or rebuilding.

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Alexandra Snow @alexandrasnow.com · 15/04/2025

Under capitalism, survival becomes contingent on selling labor—and sex work is one of the few markets where marginalized people can exert some degree of control over that transaction.

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Alexandra Snow @alexandrasnow.com · 27/02/2025

When it feels like the darkness is winning, remind yourself: Empires have fallen. Tyrants have crumbled. What they don’t tell you is that movements are made of ordinary people. The arc of history bends because people like you do not give up. Keep bending it.

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Alexandra Snow @alexandrasnow.com · 27/02/2025

<straps on boots> Ok whores, time to lead the revolution

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Mike Stabile @mikestabile.bsky.social · 27/02/2025

This is why sex workers should be embraced by the left. No other group has learned to survive this far outside established systems of support — banking, funding, social media, legacy media, law enforcement. They're the first person you want on a quest.

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tryst.link @tryst.link · 21/02/2025

"The vast majority of sex workers I know either have or are currently obtaining collegiate (often advanced) degrees. In fact, many of the workers I know are dependent on sex work to afford their programs. This was how I entered the industry myself." tryst.link/blog/the-...

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The Student Loan to Sex Worker Pipeline

Robin Keane explores the student loan to sex worker pipeline: how the cost of education influences the decision to do sex work.

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Alexandra Snow @alexandrasnow.com · 21/02/2025

The revolution may not be televised, but at least it'll be well-dressed.

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Hit me with your thoughts. What words capture this? What phrases come to mind when you think about learning how to actually show up for each other in meaningful ways? It'd be great if it was a snappy name that made folks feel like the heros they are and more inclined to join.

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“Mutual aid” is often just monetary resource-sharing, but this is about the people behind it—how we take care of each other, how we stop being so disconnected, and how we make community care an actual practice, not just a nice idea. Because care should be reciprocal!

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Basically, all the ways we can actually be useful to each other in the world we live in now. So here’s my question: What do we call this? “Ally” feels too one-directional, like it’s about helping “others” rather than building a network of care for all of us. Advocates? Avengers?

Because once the aid is given, people are still often alone—and we want to change that. This includes soft skills for the fight ahead—holding space, conflict resolution, de-escalation, being helpful in a crisis, skill-sharing, dismantling racism, first aid training, research, organizing, etc.

This is about learning how to show up for each other—both for people who share your experiences and for those who don’t. It’s about mutual aid that goes beyond just $$ resources and actually cultivating stronger relationships, deeper understanding, and real community support that goes both ways.

A lot of “allyship” programs focus on how to support people who *aren’t* like you, but that’s not quite the vibe. I want to help people find their commonalities. Things have become so divisive and people retreat to their own corners.

Hey friends, I need your collective brains on this. We’re launching a new programming initiative focused on building real, tangible skills for collective care, and I’m struggling with what to call it.

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And as we move forward, we invite you to stand with us, to build with us, and to imagine what’s possible when a community rises together. We encourage you to follow suit, to build community where you are, because we need this in EVERY corner of our country.

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We create a ripple effect of resilience, empowerment, and hope—because when one of us thrives, we all do. At The Autonomy Project, we don’t just talk about change; we create the conditions for it. This is a space that doesn’t just exist—it actively resists.

When we say that building community is political, we mean it. Every event, workshop, and support group is an act of resistance. Every connection made here strengthens the bonds that help people weather the storms of discrimination and inequality.

Legislation targeting queer identities, sex workers, minorities, and women is on the rise. Social safety nets are eroding, leaving vulnerable populations at greater risk. In this climate, having a space that educates, empowers, and uplifts is a lifeline.

No one else is doing what we do in Ohio—because no one else brings these diverse groups together under one roof to build something stronger than fear: community. The political and social stakes couldn’t be higher right now.

What sets us apart is how deeply we serve at the intersection of marginalized identities: queer, trans, BIPOC, sex workers, creatives, and allies. This isn’t just a collection of individuals; it’s a coalition of people working together to dismantle oppression and imagine new possibilities.

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queer-centered celebrations, mutual aid for those in crisis, or advocacy town halls to mobilize action, we foster spaces that are unapologetically inclusive, fiercely protective, and radically empowering.

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it’s a sanctuary where people can come as they are, free from judgment, stigma, or fear. When we gather, we create more than just joyful moments—we create safety, solidarity, and power. Our community is a direct response to the forces that seek to divide and silence us. Whether it's through

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