AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 04/10/2026Funny thing about living in the city… few stars are visible. It’s very warm tonight in SF and I’m BBQing red snapper on the roof. It’s quiet except for my music and the constant hum of F Muni on Market and distant motorcycles. It would be a great place for a date to watch the city lights and chill. 1150
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 02/10/2026Completely distracted at the gym by Horsemarket SF Best in Show Stallion. I should have interviewed him to hear his stories… Which implies that there is a Best in Show Mare as well hopefully still wandering the city, still dripping his loads. 💦🙌🏾😘 080
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 29/09/2026I just volunteered for a stint at the Billys booth at Castro Street Fair this Sunday to give hugs, as if I didn’t give enough hugs at the gym. Gym is crowded again with who I assume are porn creators 😈 stretching out their Folsom visit. The weather in SF is sunny and in the 70’s, need outdoors. 2120
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 28/09/2026Feeling a bit less grumpy after gym, lunch, on a sunny, warm and windless… day a few Folsom stragglers around the neighborhood but gym was quiet. Most gym crushes took today off. Hope they all have good/bad stories from the weekend. Big Muscle raised big money for charity. 🙏🏽 1160
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 26/09/2026I’m sure y’all would rather hear about Folsom weekend salacious activities in the hot tub and the street but I am more fascinated by the Apple series Murderbot, unexpected good show that I can’t put down. Alexander Skarsgärd is amazing but subtle in the odd Swedish humor perfectly cast as a “tinman” 2110
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 24/09/2026Warming in the hot tub but that lazy old moon is just hanging around over my shoulder. Awaiting the gentleman who wanted to see the sunset from here. 3160
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 21/09/2026Now this is looking like a proper San Francisco summer! Yeah… gym crush smiled at me this morning. 🥵 0180
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 20/09/2026Another surprise on Haight Street for me. I never seem to know when Haight Street Faire occurs. 🤷🏽♂️ The big question: selfie with Jimi, Janis, and Jerry or the Doggie Diner sculptures? The obvious answer is all of the above. 1140
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 20/09/2026Did I remember to workout this morning? (Yes, but half hearted). 2150
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 20/09/2026Not quite mt usual Flagging in the Park, but SF Pride band in National AIDS Memorial in Golden Gate Park is a joyful surprise while wandering the City 080
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 19/09/2026Beginning to feel like fall weather, leaves are half gone from the birch trees outside my windows. Karl is doing his thing around Sutro Tower. Workout was good, even with this feisty papa, Dolores was quiet and beautiful in the fog. 1100
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 17/09/2026So many hot guys in the gym this morning, my regular gym crushes and some unfamiliar ones making me think this thing they call “Folsom” is gonna wreak havoc over next 10 days. A couple kisses from regulars plus smiles and eye contact. I’m sure the sauna and showers are “busy” too. 😈😂 2120
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 15/09/2026Workout done. No kisses or hugs today, but still enjoy the gym vibe and energy. 3240
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 12/09/2026Supposed to go to Russian River for an anniversary party for a couple who I don’t know, I’m a +1. How am I supposed to day pack for an unknown group? 🤷🏽♂️ Speedo ✅, layers for later for fog/wind, introverted side says to blend in as an elder gay in a roomy caftan. Guess I’ll decide apres gym. 🤦🏽♂️ 2110
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 10/09/2026My bullet wound is healing nicely. Just kidding. Skin thingy (a medical term) was scooped off Tuesday and scolded about youthful indiscretions regarding sun in California. 🤷🏽♂️ 4170
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 09/09/2026Okay… I’m not going to complain but it’s 86 in SF right now. It means more men without shirts being sweaty and hot… Gym was miserably warm. My trainer took pity. I was raised right when it gets hot in the City without AC time to order take out. 1120
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 07/09/2026What a beautiful day in this City! Mid-70’s, cloudless, fogless, beautiful men everywhere I turn, gym was uninspiring but completed. SF Mime Troupe is setting up in Dolores Park, alone in the hot tub sucking down my cold soda. 1140
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 06/09/2026I never go to the gym on a Saturday afternoon but did today, OMG so much eye candy of various physiques and in a rainbow of colors. Sigh. More parasocial gym crushes were not needed but happily accepted. No names or numbers added to my phone but left inspired and tired. 😮💨 🥵🥵🥵 2150
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 24/08/2026And it’s low tide at Marshall’s Beach in an hour and a half. 😎😂 0110
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 22/08/2026Today’s Flagging in the Park is starting… this month is to benefit Lyric, caring for youth in the community. lyric.org 0130
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 19/08/2026What a difference a day makes… Survived the birthday but a long day and a couple unplanned pleasantries. Stories for the hot tub when you join me. A bit too salacious but happily shared with intimate friends whom I can touch and see in real life. Got a greater appreciation of shaved bussy. Lol. 7300
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 06/08/2026After watching today’s episode of SNW, I now must figure out how to include the term zeptosecond into everyday conversation… FYI, I’m susceptible to contact psychedelic highs of others, apparently through my television too. 🤨🥰 0100
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 02/08/2026Workout completed. 💪🏽 Back to walking the neighborhood on a glorious August morning. 2160
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 31/07/2026Almost recovered from a week of eye infection and now a cold! Not complaining because it’s forcing rest - my body reacts to Doxy by demanding more sleep. Only doing the necessary: ogling the large numbers of new, flirty guys at the gym, overeating, and the occasional hot tub. No Dore or FITP😢 6310
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 22/07/2026Karl came back and covered the city this morning. Much cooler today, but still going to be sunny and less humid over the weekend. Dore is saved.🤣 I know I shouldn’t complain about all the hot guys at the gym, but they were very distracting and friendly during my training session. So many 🥵 men. 😮💨 2180
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 22/07/2026Holy global warming! 78 in San Francisco in mid July. Clear skies and unexpectedly warm. Don’t know how much this weather will impact Dore, but all the world travelers are coming home to roost for Dore and related activities. 😎 5330
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 19/07/2026I’m being called across the hall to watch Argentina and Spain in our underwear with a gaggle of gays. I am not sporty spice but I owe it to the sweet young Argentinian who picked me up and f*cked, showered and napped with me this week. But I root for whomever is hottest, I know my team. 🏳️🌈 3160
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 09/07/2026I should not be posting pics of gorgeous weather in SF but here we are…🤷🏽♂️ Had a great yoga class at one of the downtown gyms yesterday afternoon. My gaydar only pinged once at the large and well equipped gym. Fortunately it was the instructor. Yet another parasocial gym crush. 🥰 5310
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 05/07/2026Heading off to The Castro for a matinee of the Mandalorian and Grogu with a friend, but who are we kidding? It’s not the Star Wars cinema experience but gushing over our beloved Pedro and cruising the naked dads on a sunny day in the Castro neighborhood. 🤷🏽♂️ Forgive me all my Star Trek friends. 🫠🫠🫠 1200
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 03/07/2026Dolores Park is happening this weekend. SF Mime Troupe is setting up for their annual event, political commentary and humor. Wreckage A Musical Tragicomedy www.sfmt.org 0170
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 01/07/2026The cute young redhead whose apartment is just outside my bedroom window moved out. Curtains open early. Computer and visible furniture are gone. Hope he wasn’t in the Meta layoffs. The turnover rate in this building is up in spite of rising rents. 380
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 27/06/2026Hiding out from the crowds up on the rooftop. It’s so crowded with humanity out there at the moment. I didn’t make it to any of the things I had planned. Trying to be kind while dealing with my introverted persona. Didn’t stop me from kissing men on Castro and chatting with strangers. 🤷🏽♂️ 5362
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 25/06/2026Going to small theater preview tonight. Hope I don’t get scared and accidentally cling onto the wrong arm in the audience. 🙈 🐐🩸? 170
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 25/06/2026Finally have my Pride weekend plan! JM! is the best and most diverse event. With so many amazing events, this stands out. It dovetails into the Mr S free outdoor party too… so many gym crushes 🫠 160
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 21/06/2026As You Like It at Marin Shakespeare opened last night and thoroughly enjoyed the very queer themed and staged play and cast. I loved the ambiguity of gender and role and the music used - singer Lady Zen was an amazing blues/gospel/ethereal presence. Closing July 19 www.marinshakespeare.org 180
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 19/06/2026Happy Juneteenth and all that… but wtf are all these strangers in the gym. 9-11 weekdays is usually gym regulars and geezers like me! I am grateful that it’s a holiday and recognizes an important day in US history. I’ll stop being Grandpa Simpson now.static.klipy.comAbe Simpson Yelling at CloudAlt: Abe Simpson Yelling at Cloud 0110
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 19/06/2026In an early morning text message one of my chosen family members sent this to me. So true but a few gaping holes. I laughed and I cried. I have notes. 😂 m.youtube.com/watch?v=2hyT...m.youtube.comPsychology of Gay Baby Boomers and Gen X Men Who Live AloneYouTube video by Gen X Frank 180
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 17/06/2026Tuesday night at the movies… with Keke Palmer! A fun and crazy film filmed in SF Bay Area. The chase scene in the SF Center/Westfield Mall was worth the price of admission by itself. The anti-oligarch ending was a pleasant surprise. Needs gay sex, however, to be shown in the Castro Theatre 🤷🏽♂️ 💅🏾 190
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 15/06/2026Happy Birthday Mr Presidentstatic.klipy.comMarilyn Monroe Sings Happy BirthdayAlt: Marilyn Monroe Sings Happy Birthday to President Kennedy. 070
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 13/06/2026A gaggle of us went to The Castro to see the Devil Wears Prada 2 last night, my first time inside the lavishly restored theater since it reopened. Oh the gay gasps and laughs at appropriate times are so worth it, the community of audience.💕 Delicious quotes ready to read frenemies. 1171
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 08/06/2026Flagging in the Park is such a joyful queer thing, another month in the social season and another FITP enjoyed today. Even without my gym crush model there to flag and say hi to me. I flagged a bit too, but gotta remember to find my flags and practice before next month to increase arm stamina. 1170
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 06/06/2026A neighbor texted me a clip from sex he’s filming across the hall. I wasn’t invited to join… so what’s the protocol here? I can’t reshare it with you guys, right? 😈 I’m reduced to remote voyeur. Lol. Gorgeous young guys from the building and apps. Happy pride 2026! 😂😂😉 2110
AlanM 🌈 @alanmadsen.bsky.social · 03/06/2026Gay boys will be gay boys… regardless of age, and body dysmorphia reigns supreme. Let the shenanigans begin… 3130