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AICT is an internationally recognized group of clinical psychologists and psychotherapists providing the highest quality CBT across 43 states. www.cognitivetherapynyc.com

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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 10h
Envy can be an uncomfortable emotion, but it may also provide insight into what we value and want for ourselves. Read more to learn how understanding envy can help us turn comparison into motivation:
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It’s Natural to Envy Your Friends
Turn that burning resentment into insight and motivation.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 02/10/2026
How much should you share in an online dating profile? New research suggests that moderate self-disclosure, revealing enough to convey openness without oversharing, may be the “Goldilocks” approach if you are looking for a long-term relationship. Read more:
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New psychology research reveals the "Goldilocks rule" of online dating profiles
A new study explores the psychology of the dating profile bio. Researchers found that sharing a moderate amount of personal information strikes the perfect balance, signaling openness to commitment wi...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 01/10/2026
Check out our October newsletter, featuring: ➡ “The Importance of Practice” by Dr. Bruce Zahn ➡ “Building Better Communication in Your Relationship” by Danielle Kasturi, LMSW ➡ Upcoming Presentations by Dr. Robert Leahy ➡ DBT Skills Group focusing on Emotion Regulation Skills conta.cc/3TK6isq
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 30/09/2026
Caregiving can take a significant toll on an individual’s mental and physical health. New research explores how cognitive training may help strengthen resilience and stress adaptation, potentially helping caregivers navigate the challenges that come with caring for a loved one. Read more:
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Helping sick and aging family can create physical illness in the caregiver
People who help sick, aging loved ones are at risk for physical illness themselves. There may be ways to improve their resilience
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 29/09/2026
Recent research highlights the association between menstrual symptoms and depression, anxiety, and ADHD in adolescent girls. These findings suggest the importance of considering menstrual health when assessing adolescent mental health. Read more: www.psychiatryadvisor.com/news/menstru...
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Menstrual Symptoms Linked to Depression, ADHD, and Anxiety in Adolescent Girls
Irregular menstrual cycles and severe premenstrual symptoms correlate with elevated rates of depression and anxiety among adolescent girls.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 24/09/2026
After her husband died, writer Sandra Lamb fell into a punishing spiral of "why didn't I" regrets and rumination. What helped wasn't answers, but asking a different question: not “why”, but “what can I do” and “what will I do”. Read more: psyche.co/turning-poin...
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How a to-do task stopped the ruminative loop of my grief | Psyche Turning Points
After my husband died, I fell into a dark ruminative spiral. The way back would begin at 2pm tomorrow
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 23/09/2026
Whether we realize it or not, many of us keep an informal mental ledger of what we give and what we receive. It's not always accurate, but feeling shortchanged can slowly erode a bond. Read more for 5 steps to build goodwill and move past resentment: www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/202...
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Guest Column | I’m a therapist. Here are 5 steps to reduce resentment in your relationship.
Resentment can be a relationship killer, but couples can take steps to create goodwill and move past conflict.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 22/09/2026
Follow along for our Technique Tuesday series. This week's #TechniqueTuesday is a perspective shift for unbearable moments. Whether it's a stressful email, an awkward moment, or anything that feels overwhelming right now, try the time machine technique:
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 21/09/2026
Narcissistic traits can give teens a quick social boost, but it doesn't last. A study found boastful teens were seen as popular early on, but that same boastfulness predicted a drop in popularity months later. Read more: www.psypost.org/adolescent-n...
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Adolescent narcissism brings brief popularity but not likeability among peers, study finds
Teenagers who exhibit narcissistic traits might gain a brief boost in social status, but that dominance does not translate into actually being liked. Researchers tracking adolescents found that early ...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 18/09/2026
Studies find well-rounded relationship endings lead to fewer regrets and easier transitions. Instead of ghosting, try a "connected goodbye" → acknowledge the ending, reflect on what it meant, then mark it with a small ritual. Read more: www.nytimes.com/2026/09/11/w...
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A Better Way to End Relationships
If you’re tempted to ghost someone, try a “connected goodbye” instead.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 17/09/2026
Silence isn't neutral. A dietitian explains that staying quiet about a loved one's disordered eating can unintentionally normalize it, and shares how to express concern with empathy instead of accusation. Read more: theconversation.com/if-you-think...
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If you think someone has an eating disorder, should you say something? A dietitian explains how to express concern without body shaming
Seeing a loved one lose significant weight or struggle with eating and exercise can be concerning. Approaching a conversation with respect and care can avoid the harms of speculation and silence.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 16/09/2026
Recent research finds that people who feel disadvantaged compared with peers may be more likely to view relationships as transactions. Studies found they prioritized potential friends’ practical skills over kindness or shared values. Read more: www.psypost.org/feeling-depr...
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Study reveals a psychological link between feeling disadvantaged and using people
When people feel disadvantaged compared to their peers, they are more likely to view relationships as mere transactions. A new psychology study reveals how this sense of relative deprivation causes in...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 15/09/2026
Your resilience isn't constant. Winter often dips energy and sociability, while spring and summer bring more activity and drive. Stress resilience shifts with seasons and your own biological clocks, so productivity naturally ebbs and flows. Read more: theconversation.com/stop-trying-...
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Stop trying to maintain constant productivity: Your ability to cope with stress changes with the seasons and your own biological clocks
You can build resilience that will work with the changing rhythms in your life.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 14/09/2026
ADHD isn't static. Young kids often show hyperactivity but as demands grow, inattentive symptoms (forgetfulness, missed deadlines) take over. A 2021 study found only 10% saw full remission by adulthood. Read more: www.nytimes.com/2026/09/10/w...
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How A.D.H.D. Changes as You Age
Researchers are learning more about the ways symptoms can emerge, disappear and evolve.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 11/09/2026
Friends can protect us from depression more than we realize. A study of 2,000+ high schoolers found that having more “healthy mood” friends doubled a depressed teen's chances of recovery, and halved a healthy teen's risk of becoming depressed. Read more: www.theatlantic.com/health/archi...
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How Friendship Fights Depression
A new study shows that a healthy mood can spread through friend groups.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 10/09/2026
September 10th is World Suicide Prevention Day If you or someone you know is struggling, help is always available: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call/text 988 Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 NYC Well: 1-888-692-9355
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 09/09/2026
When you're too distressed to think straight, try some DBT-based skills that can help lower emotional intensity and create space to respond more effectively. Read more: www.npr.org/2026/07/20/n...
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So distressed you can't think straight? Lower the intensity with these 4 skills
A clinical psychologist shares effective strategies to quickly de-escalate stress and anxiety. That includes dunking your head into a bowl of ice water to trigger your mammalian dive reflex.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 08/09/2026
Check out the September newsletter from The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy, featuring: ➡ Dr. Robert Leahy’s insights on Understanding Regret ➡ A spotlight on Dr. Leahy’s book “If Only … Finding Freedom from Regret” ➡ Upcoming DBT Skills Group modules conta.cc/3T8Rnax
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 03/09/2026
“The healthiest couples don’t choose between caring for themselves and caring for each other. They learn to do both.” A couples therapist breaks down the difference between harmful selfishness and healthy self-interest. Read more: www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/202...
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Column | I’m a therapist. Here’s why focusing on yourself can make you a better partner.
The healthiest couples don’t choose between caring for themselves and caring for each other. They learn to do both.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 02/09/2026
Human connection may be harder to replace than we think. A recent study found that students who spent 2 weeks messaging a real peer felt less lonely and more positive, while those chatting with an empathetic AI chatbot didn't see these effects. Read more: greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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Can Chatbots Really Relieve Loneliness?
New research suggests that chatbots still don’t measure up to humans when it comes to connection and well-being.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 31/08/2026
Seeing a situation from someone else’s perspective can help us better understand the people around us and strengthen our relationships. Recent research breaks social perspective-taking into four phases: perception, motivation, strategy-selection, and evaluation. Read more: psyche.co/ideas/improv...
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Improve your relationships with the science of perspective-taking | Psyche Ideas
Social psychology research is breaking down the process of perspective-taking and revealing ways to help us get along better
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 28/08/2026
Feeling disconnected or lonely? Volunteering is a great way to strengthen our sense of connection. Research suggests that helping others can benefit our own well-being while creating opportunities for meaningful social connection. Read more: greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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How Volunteering Could Help Us Feel Connected Again
Everyday acts of service can help rebuild American belonging and well-being.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 26/08/2026
Your dog may be more in tune with your emotions than you realize. New research suggests that dogs can distinguish between different human facial expressions. Read more: www.scientificamerican.com/article/can-...
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Dogs know when humans are happy—and it shows in their brains
Dogs are known to recognize and respond to human facial expressions, but a new study shows how deeply they understand our mood
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 25/08/2026
Research suggests that even 15 minutes outdoors can help reduce stress, anxiety, and depression. Read more here: time.com/article/2026...
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How to Get the Biggest Mental-Health Boost from 15 Minutes Outdoors
The best wellness hack might be waiting right outside.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 19/08/2026
“I’m willing to talk, but not if we’re yelling at each other.” Psychologists recommend setting calm, clear boundaries instead of responding with ‘calm down’ or a reflexive apology when emotions run high. Read more on strategies for conflict-resolution: time.com/article/2026...
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What to Do When Someone Is Yelling at You, According to Psychologists
Skip "calm down." These phrases can defuse conflict without sacrificing your boundaries.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 14/08/2026
Summer can be a time for relaxation and connection, but it can also bring unique challenges to our mental health. This article explores science-backed, practical ways to protect your well-being during the hot summer months. Read more: www.apa.org/monitor/2024...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 12/08/2026
Studies show that the way we react to daily minor annoyances can affect our physical, mental, and social well-being. Read more to learn about the tools you can use in your daily life to improve your ability to let go of the little things: greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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How to Let Go of Little Annoyances
How we deal with our daily hassles can profoundly affect our health and relationships. Here’s how to do better.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 05/08/2026
There is no "right" way to grieve. This article discusses how our understanding of grief has evolved and how peer-support communities like The Dinner Party are helping young adults navigate loss through connection and shared experiences. Read more: www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/202...
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Dinner parties and vulnerability: How a new generation has changed grief
New generations are transforming the grieving process by embracing sharing their experiences in more public ways like on social media.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 03/08/2026
Check out the August newsletter from AICT featuring: ➡ “(Un)Healthy Supplements: User Beware” by Dr. Kathleen Taylor ➡ The recent Greek translation of Dr. Robert Leahy’s book, The Jealousy Cure ➡ DBT Skills Group focusing on Interpersonal effectiveness conta.cc/4pTJQZK
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 28/07/2026
Anger is a normal human emotion, but when it becomes overwhelming or difficult to manage, it can affect relationships, work, and overall well-being. The APA outlines strategies for recognizing and managing anger effectively. Read more: www.apa.org/topics/anger...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 27/07/2026
People often find it harder to forgive themselves than to forgive others. Read more on why self-forgiveness can feel so difficult, and how self-compassion and accountability can help us learn from mistakes and move forward: greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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Why Forgiving Ourselves Feels So Hard—and What Helps
Researchers explored why some people can forgive themselves after a wrongdoing, while others remain stuck in perpetual guilt and shame.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 24/07/2026
Cannabis may help people fall asleep more quickly, but emerging research suggests it may also reduce REM sleep — the stage associated with dreaming, memory consolidation, and emotional processing. Read more: www.washingtonpost.com/health/2026/...
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The new science of cannabis and sleep
Research suggests cannabis suppresses REM sleep, raising questions about memory, emotion and the purpose of dreams.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 22/07/2026
Why do celebrations sometimes turn into chaos? Psychology suggests that overwhelming joy can reduce inhibitions just as much as anger. Read more on how emotional contagion, deindividuation, and shared identity can reshape behavior in surprising ways: www.forbes.com/sites/maiaho...
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Why People Sometimes Riot After Winning—The Psychology Behind Celebratory Chaos
The New York Knicks' first championship in 53 years sparked jubilation, vandalism, and arrests. Psychology helps explain why.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 15/07/2026
Summer often means more time outdoors and a more relaxed pace, which is beneficial for our minds. But rising temperatures can also fuel fatigue and seasonal summer depression. Learn how to spot the signs and protect your mental health this summer: www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/202...
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3 ways to protect your mind and body when the heat rises
Spend time in nature, protect yourself from heatstroke, and watch for summer depression.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 10/07/2026
“Too often, parents and teachers try to force kids to apologize and forgive. But research suggests there’s a better way that will make a deeper, more lasting impact.” Read more: greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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What We Get Wrong About Teaching Kids to Apologize and Forgive
Too often, parents and teachers try to force kids to apologize and forgive. But research suggests there’s a better way that will make a deeper, more lasting impact.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 09/07/2026
New research suggests most romantic liars fall into 3 profiles: Transparent Partners (mostly honest), Strategic Soothers (lie to avoid conflict or spare feelings), and Antagonistic Strategists (use deception to manipulate, seek attention, or exert control). www.psypost.org/new-psycholo...
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New psychology research reveals three distinct types of liars in romantic relationships
Psychologists have identified three specific types of liars in romantic relationships. The findings suggest that while insecure individuals often lie to maintain harmony, those with dark personality t...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 08/07/2026
Do you ever find yourself struggling to find the right words when someone is crying? Stay present, listen, and validate their feelings. Skip clichés like "Don't cry" or "It'll be okay." Instead, try a simple "I'm so sorry" or "I'm here with you". time.com/article/2026...
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The Best Thing to Say to Someone Who’s Crying
Your instinct is probably to stop the tears. Here's what actually helps instead.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 07/07/2026
“Repetitive thought spirals about a partner could be a sign of ROCD. But there are ways to reclaim your peace and intimacy”, read more here: psyche.co/guides/how-t...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 06/07/2026
“Disappointment often reflects a gap between expectation and reality… It surfaces what we truly desire, clarifies what matters to us, and points us toward what we are not yet willing to accept.” Check out these six tips for dealing with disappointment: greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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The Hidden Upside of Disappointment
Confronting your unmet expectations can clarify what matters to you, strengthen your resilience, and spark creativity.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 02/07/2026
Watching sports taps into our need for connection, shared identity, and emotional highs. Research suggests that cheering with others, whether in a stadium or on the couch, can boost well-being, reduce loneliness, and make us feel part of something bigger. Read more: time.com/article/2026...
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Why Watching Sports Makes People Happy
Watching sports of all kinds, both in-person and on a screen, can have positive impacts on well-being.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 01/07/2026
In a world focused on hustle culture, check out these 5 tips to help pace yourself and prevent burnout: greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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Five Ways to Pace Yourself to Achieve Ambitious Goals
Managing your energy and balancing ambition with rest will help you succeed in the long run.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 30/06/2026
Affect labeling—putting words to the emotion you are feeling—works to diffuse the intensity of the emotion. When your emotions are running strong, start by naming the dominant one: "This is rage," "this is anxiety," "this is grief." Read more here: time.com/article/2026...
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Say These 3 Words to Instantly Defuse Your Rage
The technique, called affect labeling, can reduce the intensity of strong emotions.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 29/06/2026
“Around the world, happiness tends to peak later in life.” Find out why: psyche.co/ideas/why-ol...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 26/06/2026
“Psychologists Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis argue feeling loved comes from being truly known — built through radical curiosity, vulnerable sharing and their “sea-saw” model of back-and-forth conversation.” Read more: www.latimes.com/lifestyle/st...
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Want to feel more loved? You're probably going about it the wrong way
In "How to Feel Loved," Sonja Lyubomirsky and Harry Reis reveal the differences between being in love and truly feeling love. The latter, they argue, is the key to happiness.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 24/06/2026
“Self-reliance is a strange ideal because feeling lonely and sociability are both inescapable parts of being human.” Read more about how needing others became a source of shame for Americans. psyche.co/ideas/how-ne...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 22/06/2026
The word "triggered" is rooted in trauma psychology, but overusing it for everyday annoyances can minimize actual trauma, reinforce avoidance, and make discomfort seem like danger. Try being specific instead. Example: "that frustrated me" instead of "I'm triggered." www.nytimes.com/2026/06/11/w...
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Are You ‘Triggered’ or Just Upset?
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 18/06/2026
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is one of the most misunderstood diagnoses in mental health. People with BPD aren't manipulative or lacking empathy. Experts and those living with BPD break down the myths here: time.com/article/2026...
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8 Common Myths About Borderline Personality Disorder
BPD is one of the most misunderstood mental-health conditions.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 17/06/2026
Perfectionism is on the rise among young adults. A massive study spanning 35 years uncovers why fear of failure has become epidemic among college students and how economic factors are making it worse. www.psypost.org/perfectionis...
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Perfectionism is skyrocketing in young adults and economic pressure might be the culprit
Analyzing 35 years of data, a new Psychological Bulletin study reveals perfectionism is accelerating among college students. Researchers suggest that slowing economic growth and rising inequality are ...
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 16/06/2026
Resilience isn't just something you build alone. Social resilience requires us to work together and acknowledge shared struggles beyond individual coping. Learn 3 ways you can help your community become more resilient in the face of collective challenges. greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item...
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What Is Social Resilience—and How Can You Foster It?
Some problems are felt by many, and just can’t be solved by one person.
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The American Institute for Cognitive Therapy (AICT) @aict.bsky.social · 15/06/2026
People with dementia may seem to experience 'lucid intervals' of full decision-making capacity, but research shows those moments of clarity don't actually restore the ability to weigh consequences and consent. psyche.co/ideas/its-no...
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