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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬

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Chronicler of Black cultural memory | Author of SELF-CARE FOR GRIEF (2021) & THE LITTLE BOOK OF SELF-HEALING (2022) | The hottest under the sun ⚡️ Website: nnekamokona.com the dead zine: thedeadzine.beehiiv.com the black alone: theblackalone.substack.com

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Hanna Raskin @hannaraskin.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
Still, an answer arrived on March 28, when @ajc.com posted a reel. As @afrosypaella.bsky.social writes: "Other than the fact that lemon pepper wings are served wet, and not with a dry rub as presented, the centering of white opinion and narrative framing is evidence of erasure." thefoodsection.com
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The Food Section
Home to James Beard Award-winning independent journalism covering food and drink across the American South, published by Hanna Raskin
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Hanna Raskin @hannaraskin.bsky.social · 01/04/2026
Time was that food editors were in constant touch with their readers, but @afrosypaella.bsky.social couldn't even get an interview with @ajc.com's new hire when she wanted to ask: "How [will you] ensure Black eaters feel seen and heard in coverage?" thefoodsection.com/stacked-cove...
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Stacked coverage - The Food Section
AJC’s new food editor gives TFS the runaround
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Dr. Tara L. Conley @taralconley.com · 06/07/2025
I’m so happy to see this article finally published! Thank you @afrosypaella.bsky.social for including me in this piece. It’s beautifully written and captures the the irony of being from Ohio where the history is rich and fraught. Thank you for being a witness ❤️
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The Guardian @theguardian.com · 06/07/2025
Who preserves the homes of Black literary giants | Nneka M Okona
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Who preserves the homes of Black literary giants | Nneka M Okona
Langston Hughes and Toni Morrison’s childhood homes remain unmarked – raising urgent questions about legacy and preservation
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 06/07/2025
I wrote this and put my soul into it bc it felt so deeply urgent. Thanks to @taralconley.com for speaking to me + adding her voice among many, many others as you can read. Will properly say more about this tmrw but am about to enjoy the rest of my holiday weekend & a glass of cava to celebrate! :)
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 29/05/2025
I'm going on a cruise next week that retails for $14K so I guess that? I'm not paying for this by the way. Travel journalist perks. :)
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 23/05/2025
A lot of y'all are hellbent on being boring as fuck. Barely 30 and talking about your 7 p.m. bedtimes and not leaving the house after 1 p.m. I'll be 40 next year and am confused at this because I go to bed late and stay out late, too. Aging does not mean rotting at home.
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Olivia Messer @oliviamesser.bsky.social · 21/05/2025
Some of y’all noticed I’ve been uncharacteristically offline. This is why, and I remain on leave for a few weeks to handle a PTSD relapse. CJR was dogged in its pursuit of my story. Because of what I do and who I am, I felt that I had to answer their questions honestly. www.cjr.org/feature-2/we...
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Journalists Attest to Experiences of Sexual Misconduct with Wesley Lowery
Lowery rose to prominence as a reporter and media thinker. Women in the industry say he engaged in sexual harassment and assault.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 14/05/2025
Some news: this piece was selected as one of the 20 *best* pieces of food and travel writing for 2024! So honored and excited. My first anthology! 🥹
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Transatlantic Agency @transatlanticagcy.bsky.social · 01/05/2025
We’re thrilled to announce that Magical/Realism by Vanessa Angélica Villarreal has been nominated for the 35th Annual Reading the West Book Awards in the Memoir/Biography category! Now it’s your turn to vote by May 31st. Winners announced June 12, 2025.
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WIRED @wired.com · 13/05/2025
We spent the Pornhub Awards with some of the site’s biggest stars to talk censorship, making money, and the popularity of trans porn—all while the site is blocked in more than a third of US states. www.wired.com/story/pornhu...
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Your Favorite Porn Stars Are Sick of Being Censored. But They’re Not Going Away
We spent the Pornhub Awards with some of the site’s biggest stars to talk censorship, making money, and the popularity of trans porn—all while the site is blocked in more than a third of US states.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 04/05/2025
Was gonna go out tonight but decided to stay home to make gumbo and drink wine.
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a close up of a woman 's face with her eyes closed and her hair in a ponytail .
ALT: a close up of a woman 's face with her eyes closed and her hair in a ponytail .
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
I’m delighted to share that I was selected as one of @ijnr.bsky.social’s Environmental Justice grantees to write about ecological grief (e.g. climate grief) of Black communities in the South for @prismreports.org. Honored to do this work & filled with gratitude for being supported. Let’s get it! ⚡️💥
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 02/05/2025
It’s harder than it used to be but not hopeless. I think writers—especially those who work in media—are being called to do something different + not rely on traditional structures in the same way we used to as they’re *all* crumbling now. It’ll take creativity, innovation & grit to carry us forth.
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Kendra "Gloom is My Beat" Pierre-Louis @kendrawrites.com · 02/05/2025
The NYT isn't up for this moment because if you look at their history they've always missed the moment. As "the publication of record" it shouldn't exist. The American public deserves better.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 01/05/2025
Racism and misogynoir.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 29/04/2025
Our generation has a loooot to learn about actually being *in* community with folks. Being a host does not necessarily mean you do it all yourself nor pay for it all yourself either. It is a communal effort. With our parents it was always a shared effort despite how it appeared!
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 21/04/2025
Seems like a lot of folk who identify as Type A have undiagnosed anxiety.
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Phil Lewis @phillewis.bsky.social · 14/04/2025
Harvard will not comply with the Trump administration’s demands to dismantle its diversity programming and limit student protests in exchange for its federal funding, the university president announced www.thecrimson.com/article/2025...
The colonnaded Widener Library looks out over Tercentenary Theatre at the heart of Harvard’s campus.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 11/04/2025
Journalism has always been an enforcer & willing participant of white supremacy. Lynchings and other acts of racist hate + violence were promoted & published in newspapers remember. Let’s not forget this especially now.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
Self-deprecating takes on writing and being a writer just never hit for me. It’s not a tone I like or appreciate. A lot of you are miserable & insecure and bring those things into your creative practice droning on and on about how much you hate writing. Deeply uninteresting.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 08/04/2025
We really *need* more Black writers to write biographies of our Black figures. Doing some preliminary research on Duke Ellington for this essay I’m working on. And I’m struggling because what is written about him is so racist. Revelatory in some respects but racist.
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Franchesca Ramsey @chescaleigh.bsky.social · 07/04/2025
here’s a curse word free version of “look it up” as requested by countless teachers and librarians 🥰😘
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Chantal James @chantalalive.blacksky.app · 07/04/2025
It’s the birthday of Billie Holiday, a survivor of abuse & an enemy of the state who was targeted by the FBI through her use of narcotics for bringing lynching to light, & died handcuffed to her hospital bed.
Billie Holiday in black and white
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NPR @npr.org · 07/04/2025
When we worry about the declining rates of literacy and a lack of reading skills, it's often about children. But how often are adults reading these days? And what are we reading? A new NPR/Ipsos poll finds out.
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Most Americans want to read more books. We just don't.
When we worry about the declining rates of literacy and a lack of reading skills, it's often about children. But how often are adults reading these days? And what are we reading? A new NPR/Ipsos poll ...
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WIRED @wired.com · 05/04/2025
An unsecured database used by a generative AI app revealed prompts and tens of thousands of explicit images—including child abuse material and de-aged celebrities. The company deleted its websites after WIRED reached out.
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An AI Image Generator’s Exposed Database Reveals What People Really Used It For
An unsecured database used by a generative AI app revealed prompts and tens of thousands of explicit images—some of which are likely illegal. The company deleted its websites after WIRED reached out.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 05/04/2025
Music not good, dancing hasn’t been good in at least a decade, vocals have not further developed at all, etc.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 04/04/2025
Mused about Dr. King’s loneliness, isolation and depression as a result of the political trauma he faced on the 57th anniversary of his death. My latest essay for the black alone, a new creative project from me exploring Black loneliness. theblackalone.substack.com/p/the-lonely...
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The Lonely Revolutionary
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.'s Solitary Mountaintop
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 04/04/2025
The fact that Keisha Lance Bottoms wants to run for governor of Georgia in 2026 is a joke. Georgia deserves elected officials that give a damn about us and not being opportunistic scammers. Black representational politics has never and will never save us.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 03/04/2025
High maintenance, big bitch. Ask about me. 😭
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 02/04/2025
I think a lot more of us need to admit that we were indoctrinated with verbal cruelty. None of us needs “tough love” even if you think you do because it is almost always someone abandoning kindness to shame but disguising it as some virtuous, loving pursuit. When it isn’t and will never be.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 01/04/2025
And if you want to take it a step further, California as a state has a shocking number of active extremist groups & movements, far more than in most Southern states.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 19/03/2025
As a (Black) culture writer myself, I’d like to say that more of us aren’t here because it’s a bit…dull tbh. I barely use this account because the sparkle and wit is just not here for me at all.
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Guardian US @us.theguardian.com · 18/03/2025
Exclusive: Palestinian activist and recent Columbia graduate, Mahmoud Khalil, speaks out for the first time since being detained by federal immigration authorities.
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‘I am a political prisoner’: Mahmoud Khalil says he’s being targeted for political beliefs
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
I see my work now as a reclamation + refutation of the erasure of Black narratives, lives & histories (that mainstream media *also* steadily participates in). This is why archival work, record-keeping, mapping, etc. are so vital right now. Consider how you can do this work, too, even in small ways.
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Mike Elk @mikeelk.bsky.social · 15/03/2025
Today marks the anniversary of the assassination of my college classmate, Marielle Franco. She was a Rio City Councilwoman, who Rio's Police Chief assassinated for investigating paramilitary gangs in Brazil. Her story continues to inspire! paydayreport.com/a-sabbath-pr...
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A Sabbath Prayer for Marielle Franco
Sometimes, on Sabbath, I like going to the Tree of Life Synagogue and praying for the 11 fellow Jews who were killed there in 2018 as a result of their advocacy for immigrants' rights. As a Jew who gr...
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 13/03/2025
I hope this doesn’t sound cruel but: glad to see that the entire world knows what I have known about Wesley for years. Had some unsavory interactions with him years ago and just blocked him on everything. He is not a good person and these complaints should be believed as truth.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 12/03/2025
Today is the birthday of my dearest closest friend who was truly the best human I’ve ever known. The best friend I’ve ever had. She would’ve been 38 today. All the life that has happened in 8 years & I’m still at the very basic of missing her. It’s a quiet wonder, a quiet grief.
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 12/03/2025
Delighted to share that I’m teaching food writing next month! 🍽️ www.nnekamokona.com/writing-food...
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 08/03/2025
Missing my Mom this morning and somehow in cleaning I stumbled across several funeral programs for my family in Alabama? Like…there’s a funeral program for a relative that was born in 1905 in Alabama. Do you know what a genealogical goldmine this is? 🥹
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Frankie de la Cretaz @thefrankiedlc.news · 04/03/2025
I got to talk to @karimzidan.com about his incredible and important work, and he did not mince words about the ways the rest of the sports journalism industry is (continuously) failing to meet the moment.
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in the field: karim zidan of sports politika
"All I really want from people is an awareness of what's going on around you so that your passion is not exploited by bad actors."
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Amanda Hu @amandalhu.bsky.social · 01/03/2025
Thinking a lot about the belief that humans are overwhelmingly mostly healthy and normal and that an increase in chronic illness diagnosis is due to overdiagnosis when it’s actually that chronic illness/disease is the norm and we’ve been not detecting most of it www.theguardian.com/society/2025...
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The number of people with chronic conditions is soaring. Are we less healthy than we used to be – or overdiagnosing illness?
Are ordinary life experiences, bodily imperfections and normal differences being unnecessarily pathologised? One doctor argues just that
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
After a long hiatus due to my own grief, the dead zine is back baby! In this last issue of Season 1 on food, I wrote about the last meal my Dad ate before his death, using meals as rituals for endings and the last meals of those incarcerated on death row. thedeadzine.beehiiv.com/p/the-grief-...
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 28/02/2025
After a long hiatus due to my own grief, the dead zine is back baby! In this last issue of Season 1 on food, I wrote about the last meal my Dad ate before his death, using meals as rituals for endings and the last meals of those incarcerated on death row. thedeadzine.beehiiv.com/p/the-grief-...
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 27/02/2025
Tech layoffs hit me last week and I cannot put into enough words how glad I am to not be in that environment anymore. Tech is a cesspool of toxicity right now that is truly frightening.
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Katie Buehler @bykatiebuehler.bsky.social · 25/02/2025
NEW: @law360.bsky.social has created a *public* database of legal cases involving President Trump's executive orders and other actions. The data is searchable and sortable and will be updated regularly; links to coverage for subscribers. Graphics by @benjayingly.com www.law360.com/trump-legal-...
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Nneka M. Okona 🇳🇬 @afrosypaella.bsky.social · 26/02/2025
(It almost feels too satisfying to watch the media elite come to the same realizations I had years ago as a lowly freelancer about being on borrowed time in media and independence being the *only* path of safety + peace. Your elitism will not save you from racism & fascism.)
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WIRED @wired.com · 24/02/2025
A WIRED investigation goes inside the Telegram groups targeting women who joined “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” groups on Facebook with doxing, harassment, and sharing of nonconsensual intimate images.
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Inside the Telegram Groups Doxing Women for Their Facebook Posts
A WIRED investigation goes inside the Telegram groups targeting women who joined “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” groups on Facebook with doxing, harassment, and sharing of nonconsensual intimate images.
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