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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser

@adhdswiftie.swifties.social
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Always rising from the ashes 🐦‍🔥🐦‍🔥🐦‍🔥 32, Alternative HS English teacher, Swiftie since ‘06, wife, mother, neurodivergent, reader, writer, 🩷💜💙 Voted yes on Idaho Prop 1

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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 3h
Ends up leaving brick and mortar teaching has actually let me dive into my hobbies and interests and just take care of myself and my family better. I love the fact my husband has always been willing to do more during the school year, but I love being able to be 50/50 with him for real.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 4h
@bejeweledbaddie.bsky.social has me reminiscing about the savage I was at the Mormon college I attended for undergrad. Example: guy told me God said he’d marry me. I told him that must be Satan because I don’t date losers who’s ambition was to work as a shift lead at McDonalds 🤣🤣🤣
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 4h
Y’all I may have been raised Mormon but my siblings and I were always so busy I never learned how to cook. I’m so proud of making an entire meal from scratch today.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 4h
I did my big one for dinner tonight’s, including a perfectly paired white wine.
A brown table on it sits, a plate, a bowl, a glass of wine, and a ramekin. In the bowl is a chicken and potato stew with a fork, because I had nothing else to eat it with, because my dishwasher decided not to run. Next to it on the small plate is a slice of Parmesan garlic rosemary focaccia bread in the ramekin, Isabel sonic vinegar, olive oil mixture to dip the bread in. And in the glass of wine is a perfectly paired soft white wine
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 5h
Forgive this mess but… PARMESAN GARLIC ROSEMARY FOCACCIA! I was drunk when I started this last night. I am so excited to try it.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 5h
The only thing that remains in me from being raised by a Cowboys fan is a deep hatred of the Raiders. I cannot not root against them. Also, my son is starting to show interest in football. I'm looking for a team with little to know scandals of DV/assault to adopt as our team. Any suggestions?
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 04/10/2026
Taylor on SNL and a recording of Dracula that really explores the SA allegory that can be argued from the text? Yes. Good night.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 04/10/2026
It’s really funny because I’m not going to watch East of Eden because I vehemently hate the source material. So if you hate an artist, please just don’t consume their music. It’s that easy.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
#tloasg confession: I can’t listen to Eldest Daughter because it genuinely makes me bawl my eyes out and I envy the people who just find it cringey.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
Happy Birtbday to the album that gave me the dopamine I needed to get through the shittiest year of school and I blasted while applying to 196 jobs to find my new job. I’ll love you forever, Showgirl!
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
Okay I keep thinking about the night I made the jar to put my abusive grandpa in and the fact u started wanting to do a cord cutting but couldn’t find anything so I made the jar and threw him in the freezer. Since the , he’s been disbarred and even his sons have abandoned him. Literally insane.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
We had to get the neck guard out. She really wants to lick the incision from her spay.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
10/10 recommend getting baked and watching blue mountain state. It’s great.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
I forgot I had made a karma jar and threw this man in the freezer. Should I become an Etsy witch at this point?
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
I just… Whatever at this point. Stop letting kids play these games. Please.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 03/10/2026
Y’all my narcissistic abusive grandpa lost his law license. The man used the legal system to continue his abuse after my parents went no contact. I don’t know how to feel with this new info. (My role in the abuse was the golden one which is why I am a recovering people pleaser. So there’s that.)
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
Student: “Can I code a meatball jumping off of a dinner plate instead of a Dino game?” Me: “Do you know how to do that?” Student: *proceeds to actually make that code on a video call with me* 100%. No questions.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
Student texted me (the speech teacher) and 3 other teachers trying to get one of us to say it wasn’t a required class. Fun fact: it is a required class and telling me to fuck off over text will not change state law. (Student and parent are in a meeting with the principal now over this)
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
Omg my best friend brought me statewind contraband because I cannot sleep. I’m going to cry. Apparently her and my husband plotted to acquire some so I could actually sleep without nightmares 😭😭😭 This is feeling loves and seen
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
GIFs that represent the Encore to me:
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
I recreated a cocktail from the Equinox market and I cannot recommend it enough. Mine isn’t pretty, but here’s the recipe: 4oz prosecco 2oz of peach schnapps 1st vodka It’s delicious!
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
And Babylon has landed in my soul. Just took blasting it with the windows down to go pick up dinner and the guy at Wendy’s asked me why I was crying.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
WTF you mean my new work actually did the PSLF verification the day I sent it over? I had to resend it 10 times to my previous employer and they never fucking signed it.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 02/10/2026
She is home and resting. She’s also very angry about the resting. She wants to get out and be free but vet’s orders, she needs to stay contained until tomorrow.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 01/10/2026
I have been fighting with this HTML code in my class since the first day of school. My husband got on and fixed it in 3 seconds. Now I have to fix it in my course which will take at least 8 weeks to do. FML.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 01/10/2026
The dog keeps going to the cat’s hiding spots looking for her and it’s so sad. Grandpa Jericho loves his cat sister so much.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 01/10/2026
Daphne is just getting spayed but I am so nervous that something is going to go wrong. Anxiety is a bitch.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 01/10/2026
Daphne is going in for her spay today because we are responsible cat owners. I already miss my little shadow. It’s going to be weird not having her come and talk to me all day. She’ll be back this afternoon, at least.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 01/10/2026
I can’t read about the Cornell 57 case anymore. When I was 19, I barely escaped an attempted kidnapping that, because my father insisted I filed a police report, led to the arrest of a serial rapist. Idk why this case specifically, but it’s causing flashbacks to that moment of my life.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 01/10/2026
Oh Lordy I just watched the last episode of Ted Lasso and that was so unnecessary 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 30/09/2026
Y’all I’m not going to show you my son’s 2nd grade photos but he looks like the animated grinch. I’m dying. This kid cannot take good non-candid photos and it’s so sad because he is genuinely one of the cutest kids you’ll ever see.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 30/09/2026
Having a partner who hypes up everything you do is literally the best thing. Its refreshing to see Travis doing that for Taylor and vice versa.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 30/09/2026
No DWTS or Ted Lasso tonight because the internet is still out (it’s been 3 hours).
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 30/09/2026
Okay it’s been almost 2hrs and the internet is still down so I had to just send my votes for Tatyana and Jan without seeing their dance was it good?
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 30/09/2026
Well our construction guys hit a fiber cable for the second time since last Friday. Internet is out for who knows how long? Hopefully they fix it before tomorrow.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 29/09/2026
So I like it. I put it in Canva and didn’t use any of the AI tools to build the whole flyer, but I love an excuse to be creative.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 29/09/2026
I am so determined to not use generative AI even on accident I am watercoloring the images for a flyer I was assigned.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 29/09/2026
Did a money bowl spell and reran the numbers in my student loan payments. Someone went from $465 to $252. Between that, my rent dropping, and discovering we can bus our kid home instead of paying for daycare, it feels like it’s working.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 29/09/2026
Husband and I have been having in depth conversations about this. I just keep going back to “it’s easier to be a good person than a bad person.” A good person calls the cops and doesn’t have to worry about their name getting out in these situations.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 29/09/2026
I’m realizing how much of a political statement that the Patient Zero video is. Like, the more stories I read, the more I realize that it is incredibly intentional that THAT is the video Taylor decided to release. Pink Clouding and Babylon would both have been great singles too.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 29/09/2026
My husband just asked me to check that our Costco delivery order was being shipped by a woman because he didn’t feel like dealing with the bullshit “stupid male shoppers” do.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
Come join me on TikTok for some Baldur's Gate 3 chaos and we can talk Taylor www.tiktok.com/@adhd.swifti...
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
Okay, this video is literally why I don't take anyone seriously who calls Taylor mid or assumes she is hated by her peers. Colin Ferrell? Dakota Johnson? AND the Oscar winning cinematographer of Birdman (one of my favorite movies)? Taylor can make pulls no other artist can.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
WHERE IS THE SEARCHLIGHT FILM TAYLOR??????????????????????
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
I need it on YouTube ASAP because I will be rewatching over and over again.
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
That was insane. INSANE. Taylor, I love you and the story telling in your videos is always good, but this one? Another level. So about that Searchlight film....?
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
Colin Ferrel the man you are I hate you now (not really you are still one of my OG celeb crushes)
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
THAT WAS SO FUCKING GOOD
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
HERE WE GOOOOO OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG
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Kenzie | Recovering Pathological People Pleaser @adhdswiftie.swifties.social · 28/09/2026
The Fate of Ophelia is such a stunning video. Like, I'm so glad I experienced that on a movie screen for the first time.
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