iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 1h

Sure send me a DM any time

Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 2h

Anyone fancy a chat? I’m 45, geeky and at that age where making mates takes more effort than getting a mortgage. I’ve got middle-aged spread, enough back hair to insulate a loft, a newly acquired inability to see things up close but a full head of hair that’s my last remaining asset. Any takers?

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 3h

I always need cuddles

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 3h

Work is finished for the week!

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Compress Earth’s history into one day Earth forms at midnight Life appears around 5:30am Complex animals arrive at roughly 9:10pm Dinosaurs appear at 10:47 The asteroid wipes them out at 11:39pm Homosapiens appear 6 seconds before midnight Recorded human history occupies the last tenth of a second.

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Tomorrow I start my new job selling period products. As a gay man, I’ve somehow spent 45 years with absolutely no practical experience of the product… and still made it through recruitment. Quite the career arc. Finally, representation for the least qualified demographic. 🏳️‍🌈

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Gay culture spends your youth convincing you getting older means becoming invisible — and 30 is basically terminal. Anyway, I’m 45: grey hair, middle-aged spread, first varifocals. Devastating news? I’m having quite a nice time. Survived gay beauty standards. Defeated by menus.

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

It’s still my favourite Madonna album

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 04/10/2026

Always happy to jump on a bandwagon #my9albums

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 03/10/2026

Picked up my new glasses today. Went for a different type of varifocals lens and really not sure I’m gonna like it. #newglasses #oldeyes #gettingold

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Actually feeling horny for some reason, doesn’t happen often and now I’m not sure what to do. Any suggestions?

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

I am now officially unemployed

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

I have lost some, but maybe I just got so fat it’s going to take a while to show I am upping my protein and am not eating as much

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

I’ve been on them for 3 weeks, on 0.25mg

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

Not sure the weight loss jabs are working yet

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

PT session complete and I think the weight loss is starting to show a bit. Also hair was cut this morning.

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

I’m feeling okay. Not had any side effects which is the main thing I was worried about. Although it’s still early days

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

Just taken my second wegovy injection. So far I’m 6lbs (2.7kgs) down after my first week

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 03/09/2026

I’ve just taken my first Wegovy injection. I didn’t pass out at the thought of injecting myself and I am still alive. So far, so good.

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

I’m seriously considering going on weight loss injections. If any of you have any experience with them, how were the side effects?

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 14/08/2026

Would you rather have warm but slightly melted chocolate or chocolate from the fridge?

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 03/08/2026

No I’ve done quite a few. I love a cruise

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 30/07/2026

I had my back waxed for the first time today and why did I not know how painful it would be!

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 19/07/2026

If the answer is yes, what is the question…

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 15/07/2026

Got myself a snack for this evening

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

You look great too by the way

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 14/07/2026

Thank you, I appreciate the compliments ☺️

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 11/07/2026

I’m feeling really tired today. Anyone wanna come and be big spoon so I can fall asleep in your arms?

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 06/07/2026

After losing my voice last week I can now speak again. Just had a great conversation with my cat

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 25/06/2026

I don’t like this heat. It’s making me horny

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 24/06/2026

I got a new job!!! Please congratulate me, thank you

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 20/06/2026

That’s the wedding over (not mine). Now I can relax.

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Adam @adamb1981.bsky.social · 14/06/2026

One of the biggest misconceptions about asexuality is that ace people can’t have kinks or fetishes. Asexuality describes attraction, not the entirety of a person’s inner world. Ace people can have kinks, fantasies, boundaries, preferences, and experiences just like anyone else.

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