iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 11h

Consider this your reminder that you are more than that thing that you wish you could change. That thing? I bet you’re working on it. You’re doing so much better than you think you are. I’m proud of you. And I’m blessed to know you. Take your meds, beautiful.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 01/10/2026

Has your Thursday been a lot? Because my Thursday has been a lot. It’s okay if you’re only just now remembering your meds. So take your meds with some water, friend. It’s almost the weekend.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

You are continuing to be the best part of the day, my friend. You keep doing exactly what you’re doing because it is working for you. And if what you’re doing includes meds and water? See that, that’s you rocking this thing called life.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

My birthday is a week from Friday! I think this is the first time in ten years I haven’t posted a wishlist link 😂. If you want to help me celebrate (and it is NOT required but certainly exciting) here’s my deets: PayPal: @ actuallyaviva Venmo: @ actually-aviva Cash App: $ ActuallyAviva

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 30/09/2026

It may be frustrating to listen to your body when your body doesn’t allow you to do the things you want to. It’s not selfish to rest. I’m proud of you. Be gentle with yourself, make double sure you took your meds and had some water.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 29/09/2026

Oi. It’s cool if you haven’t taken your meds yet, cause Mondays suck, but def get on that. (Tbh I’ve been really low the last few days so don’t feel bad if this is also you) oh and drink something. Your choice.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 28/09/2026

I’m having another really bad tension headache, so I’m not thinking pithy, but it’s still really important for you to remember your meds and have some water and moisturize (it’s getting fall and you’re ashy) I hope you’re safe and dry b/c weather.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 27/09/2026

Adulthood is knowing you’re allowed to eat cake for dinner if you feel like it. AdultING is listening to your body and leaving half for tomorrow when you feel full. I’m proud of you. Take your meds. Have water. Moisturize something.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 26/09/2026

Did you do at least one really cool thing today? I hope you got to see a cool pupper or get surprise mail, or just a fantastic nap. Fingers crossed you had a chance to take your meds or have some water. No? No big, you have time.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 25/09/2026

Some days you’re going to feel crappy even when you do everything right. Could be anxiety, could be allergies, could be aliens. Don’t judge yourself if you need to rest. Take your meds though, and drink water. M Night says aliens hate water.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 23/09/2026

You did so amazing today, you have no idea. I’m proud of you, friend. I’ll bet you even had water and took your meds too, huh? You are such an overachiever on Wednesdays!

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 22/09/2026

Sure, there are millions of fish in the sea, but some of those fish are weird, others eat people, and also micro-plastics. Oh and there’s no such thing as a fish. So, uh, do with this extended metaphor what you like. Also take your meds & have some water.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 21/09/2026

If you ever doubt yourself just remember that somewhere someone is making a living doing little paintings of Elvis on black velvet. Still. There’s a market for everything. Take your meds. Drink water. Moisturize. Buy a painting.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Your eyebrows look perfect and your hair has a “just came from the salon” vibe. You are amazing and you can do anything even Eldritch horror if you feel like it. Remember your meds and have some water. Monsters need to be yelled at sometimes.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 20/09/2026

Reminder that you are a magnificent creature of myth. Your legend is currently being written. That thing you’re worried about? Your going to best it and your story will be told to masses. Take care of you, beastie. Remember your meds.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 19/09/2026

You have almost made it through to the weekend. Did you take your meds today? Drink some water. Just cause. Oh and maybe moisturize something for fun.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 18/09/2026

You wanna know a secret? Come closer. No, closer. Ready? Kay: YOU ARE PRETTY GREAT EVEN WHEN YOU DON’T THINK SO WE SEE YOU AND TELL PEOPLE YOU ARE OUR FRIEND SO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND TAKE YOUR MEDS WITH WATER.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

When was the last time you ate something delicious? Not just tasty. Delicious. You deserve extra yum. I don’t make the rules. Also remember your meds and have some water and moisturize something before you go back for seconds.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 16/09/2026

Be a person who believes a better world is possible and make a better world. Like the guy who figured out Reese’s eggs are better than cups. Angel among us. Take your meds. Drink water. Moisturize.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 15/09/2026

Remember your meds, you lovely jiggly spice candy. Have some water and moisturize and know that one time a kid in an allegory with a goat person basically sold his soul to lick you.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Sometimes you know you should be having your best day ever and for whatever reason you’re just not. That’s okay. Make sure you take care of yourself and remember your meds and have some water. Tomorrow will be better (probably).

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 13/09/2026

Listen chickadee, you may not be the version of you that you aspire to, but remember who you are right this second chaps every bit of someone else’s ass b/c they’re not you. Right how you are now. Dance with that a bit. And take your meds. Maybe moisturize.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 12/09/2026

The tiniest steps forward still count. No matter what you did to take care of you today I’m proud of you friend! Remember your meds and have some water before bed!

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 11/09/2026

Listen up beasties, if you haven’t done it yet you need to take your meds. I know, it’s a pain. Once you’ve done it, go bite someone. You know, for fun. Then drink some water.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 10/09/2026

Diiiiiiiiiid you take your meds? You know you should water yourself at some point so you grow strong—like—something strong idk your life. Make sure your moisturize something. I’ll let you decide what and where.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 09/09/2026

You know what’s the coolest thing about social media? I get to see you every day! And I am so glad you’re taking care of yourself and remembering your meds and drinking water and moisturizing! Oh you haven’t yet today? Well… you still can tho!

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

Hello, you glorious gash in the fabric of reality—did you take your meds today? Be sure to get on that, and then drink a glass of water to lubricate your vocal chords so you can truly scream into the void and frighten the abyss.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 07/09/2026

If you’re high functioning you might be cannibalizing pieces of yourself to get things done. That means it’s okay if your body decides it’s time to rest. Just make sure you’re taking your meds today. Have some water for good measure. You’re loved.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 06/09/2026

What if things are working out so much better than you even realize? That’s the cool thing about miracles, the best kind you don’t even know happened. So trust the process, take your meds, moisturize something, and believe. We believe in you.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 05/09/2026

Think about the next few days, is there something you want to make happen? Maybe it’s just a vibe. What’s something you can do to prepare? Don’t forget your meds and water, that’s two things right there. Oh and moisturize. For vibes.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 04/09/2026

It’s okay if you didn’t do anything today. Existing takes work sometimes. Remember your meds and have some water before bed.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 02/09/2026

Don’t forget your meds! Have some water to toast your Wednesday (or curse it, I don’t judge) and moisturize something, your heels shouldn’t feel like sandpaper.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

It’s okay if you don’t feel like cooking most nights. Eating is important, not perfect culinary skills. Take care of yourself, friend. You’re doing great. Remember your meds. Have some water. Moisturize. You can do dishes tomorrow.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 01/09/2026

Hey there, superfly. You’re so busy being a success machine I bet you know you took your meds today and had water and didn’t even say what you were thinking on that call (they deserved it). Good job, you! Keep being awesome.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 31/08/2026

Today was a better day than yesterday, so that’s a good thing. You’re doing great, spangleberry, just keep trying. Remember your meds. Drink some water. Moisturize something.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 30/08/2026

And there were green alligators and long necked geese, humpty-back camels and chimpanzees. Rats and cats and elephants but sure as you’re born TAKE YOUR MEDS & DRINK SOMETHING & DON’T KISS ANIMALS ON THE MOUTH THAT’S NASTY.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 29/08/2026

I hope you are super proud of you. You may not be exactly where you WANT to be but you are getting there. Keep up the momentum and take your meds. Then have some water. Moisturize. Future you will thank you.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Quick reminder that sometimes your brain is a lying liar and moods are farts. Ultimately insubstantial but sometimes they leave a bigger stink than others. Take your meds. Drink water. Moisturize. You’re loved.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 27/08/2026

Live your life like a cat who managed to eat a quarter cup of shredded cheese and gives no fucks about the fart blossoms that are gonna come out of her ass in an hour. Also take your meds and have some water. The water helps the gas. Probably.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 26/08/2026

You know how I’ve been telling you how great you are and how proud I am of you for how hard you’re working? Multiply that by 100. Keep being great and be sure you took your meds. Then have some water, cool kid.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 25/08/2026

The duck flies at midnight, but the fucks come here to die. Wazzat mean? That means forget the ducks. Do what makes you happy. Ducks are judgey bastards. Take your meds. Have some water. Moisturize something. No duck.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 24/08/2026

One of the hard things about learning kindness for yourself is accepting that you maybe have a tendency to expect too much in your To Do list. Whatever you did today is progress and I’m proud of you. Remember your meds. Drink water. Moisturize the ass.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 23/08/2026

What have you done today to cultivate your weird? You wanna be immortal? You gotta be talked about. Give a raccoon a raincoat and sing a duet. Do it now. Then take your meds and drink some water you’re dehydrated. Then moisturize something, weirdo.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 22/08/2026

Did you get to something on your To-Do list today? It’s totally cool if you decided to use the day to recharge completely. You get to do that too. Just make sure you took your meds. And have some water, finally.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 21/08/2026

Always be the best version of yourself, especially if the best version of yourself is a house cat. Cause then you can scream at people and stand on their chest until they give treats. Totes normal. Take your meds. Drink water. Scream for stuff.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 20/08/2026

You were so magnificent today, my friend. I bet you did something that was honest and vulnerable and was probably really tough. That’s huge. It’s also totally okay if that honest, vulnerable thing you did was remember your meds. Or water.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 19/08/2026

Everything is going to work out. I promise. Make sure you’re taking care of yourself in the meantime. That means meds and water. I’ll do it if you do. Come on, then.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 18/08/2026

You checked “be a badass” off your To Do list early today, I see. Wait, it wasn’t on your list? Better double check friend. While you’re checking, check on your med situation too. And water. Badass.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 17/08/2026

All of your desires live two doors down from Fear Street. Consider moving to a better neighborhood. Or invest in some RL Stine, idk. Either way, remember your meds and have some water. Moving is work. Oh and moisturize, you ashy bitch.

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Aviva Blakeman @actuallyaviva.bsky.social · 16/08/2026

If you’re seeing this I hope you’re doing better than fine. And if you’re not l, then I hope you’re in a place where you can do something kind for yourself. Don’t forget your meds, have some water, wash your butts and moisturize something!

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