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super busy, but exciting!

anonymous message that reads “So, how’s life?”

diva, you may be anxious or depressed. i’d suggest finding a professional to discuss in depth so you can figure out what may be happening. it’s not normal to be irritated super often, you’re dysregulated

anonymous message that reads “Any tips for getting constantly angry/annoyed with everyone? You’re a gem!”

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resilient person, and nope!

anonymous message that reads “what does your face tattoo say? did it hurt?”

bed chem by sabrina carpenter lol

anonymous message that reads “What song can you not get enough of right now?”

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i only date niggas i fear

anonymous message that reads “Have you ever been in an interracial relationship? If so, how was it? What made it good or bad?”

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last year i dated someone who lied to and manipulated me and when it ended i felt like he killed the piece of me that was always open for love and did it with my whole heart. still figuring it out, but def was not myself for longer than i’d like to admit

anonymous message that reads “When was the last time you felt lost?”

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first, congratulations! second, boots on the ground, public sphere work first! it’ll teach you a whole lot

anonymous message that reads “Advice for baby therapists? (Graduating this May)”

unfortunately *deep sigh*

anonymous message that reads “are you still on Twitter?”

any relationship can work if you use enough lube and effective communication skills

anonymous message that reads “Do you think Zodiac sign compatibility matters in dating?”

no contact on everything, let your loved ones know, safety plan for what you will do and who you will call if they violate. saying this as a person not a therapist

anonymous message that reads “My ex was abusive and even though it’s been a year is still trying to isolate me from my former friend group. Advice?”

make sure it’s you and them vs the problem as opposed to you and them vs each other! takes work but you should make sure you build out that culture together

anonymous message the reads “Tips on how to better communication with your partner”

lmfao, i’ll be waiting for the ring

anonymous message that reads “ you are so beautiful inside and out 😍 you my parasocial baby moms lol”

omg thank you 😭❤️

anonymous message that reads “Whats it like being so smart and cute? 😍”

i talk about some towards the end of this video www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2F8Rwut/

anonymous message that reads “Any tips on recovering from limerence? I’m AuDHD and have a pattern of limerence.”

5hahem @5hahem.bsky.social · 22/01/2025

hey y’all happy sunday

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thank you, you’re beautiful btw ❤️

5hahem @5hahem.bsky.social · 21/01/2025

do y’all like my new hat? yes or no?

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5hahem @5hahem.bsky.social · 12/01/2025

say it back or you hate gay people

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this is such a wild question lmfao

anonymous message that reads “Who are ur fav white people”

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i be reading books and stuff

anonymous message that reads “How’d you get into astrology”

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one of my besties anthony, he’s honestly seen me through some tough times even through the verbal bullying that comes with all virgos lmfao

anonymous message that reads “Who’s your favorite Virgo and why?”

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well it depends on who’s asking tbh, some people get one some people get the other, if i really like you it’s both

anonymous message that reads “Do you top more or bottom more? And if the answer is top…i’d like to volunteer as tribute for your loving & your love…”

honestly? i’m kinda numb rn, been through a lot this year and want to be able to say that everything this year happened in the last (if that makes sense) aka need 2024 wrapped up

anonymous message that reads “How are you? (:”

that’s a great question, i’d try the BEAM and therapyforblackgirls directories and ask questions during consultation!

anonymous message that reads “how does one find black leftist therapist that is pro Palestine and not Christian 😭😭😭 it’s feeling impossible out here “

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y’all really freaked out on here, no shade, not that it’s a bad thing but damn girl lol

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i want to travel to all 7 continents, gotta hurry up before the arctic is gone ig lol

anonymous message that reads “What’s something on your bucket list”

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