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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 19/05/2026

Sometimes you might need to just... take a day to send cat memes to eachother instead. Sometimes you might just need a touch-base about energy levels. Maybe you just need to cuddle on the couch and have some time to reach equilibrium. Taking little breaks helps loosen the pressure.

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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 19/05/2026

And remember, we're all in this together here. If you feel like you can't take a break, like it'll land poorly, like the submissive will feel bad about it... I promise you, the sub will feel way, way worse if you hit burnout because you didn't feel like you could ask for a breather.

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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 19/05/2026

We take care of eachother in dynamics, and dommes are just humans too. Sometimes what you might need is just a day to turn that top energy down to 1, take a deep breath, steady yourself, and then crank it back up when you feel that energy return. It doesn't need to be all or nothing.

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Vivian Burning 🏳️‍⚧️/🐉/😇🪽 @vivianburning.bsky.social · 19/05/2026

A thing I struggle with in terms of burnout in particular is finding that space in 24/7 dynamics that you cohabitate in. Enforcing rules often feels like I might need to burn energy at any point in time. Asking for a break from that feels like a failure - the sub is staying 24/7, why aren't I?

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