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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

Trust is the most important thing in all of this, and something nobody ever talks about is a domme's ability to trust *herself*. Trusts herself to know how hard to swing the paddle. Trusts herself to know which wires to pull in their brain. Trusts herself not to actually leave a girl homeless.

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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

And a lot of time a failure in communication directly leads to a fracture in trust. And once there's a fracture in trust, it's really really easy to lose trust in yourself. It's really easy to look at when you Went Too Far and say "that's the real me, I can't be trusted", and that gets messy.

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Storyteller @storyteller13.bsky.social · 17/04/2026

I don't have a magic wand, I don't have any special words that'll just make it go away for you. Domme drop and domme trauma are hard. But I do have my own experiences to draw on, and stories from others who've shared with me, and honestly... It really does just come back to communication and trust.

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