(cw grooming)
This happened to me when I was 13. When I first joined the community I was so confused whether fetish art was sfw or nsfw because it was SO incredibly common for it to get uploaded to FA under the general tag. So when adults started talking with me about it, I didn’t see the red flags.
@dragonhouse.bsky.socialI got groomed when I was 16 because I was allowed access to these fetish spaces when I 100% should not have been
like yes it was kinda my fault but also if I hadn't been allowed into fetish circles then it wouldn't have happened
and part of that was that fetish art being made viewable to me
