I've been facing this head-on recently, so this is perfect timing.
Genuinely, it feels like my self-esteem and old habits of ironic detachment are the least attractive things about me...on what is actually a pretty short list.
Turns out I'm divine as shit and getting progressively hotter.
Sorry, but self loathing is for 4chan girls. If you don't wanna seem like a 4chan trans girl then you have to take every opportunity to assert that you're some type of messiah. Your beauty is beyond comprehension. Everyone loves you. Your feet pics cure cancer.