This. Thank you, my brave friend, for sharing this painful experience to make a powerful point.
And by the way, I was violently r*ped in a bathroom at 25 by a cis man who outweighed me by probably close to 100 lbs. He didn’t feel the need to “pose” in a dress. He pushed his way through the door with all the entitlement a straight White man could embody. Trans women are not the problem.